ladies be honest you hate it when dude says "take my number instead"

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Humour and personality aren't gender based though men are funnier and have more personality than women. It's physiological not nurture. Men are naturally (operative word being natural) more outgoing and focused. Granted you can improve on talent and personality but some soil is more fertile than others.

Now fukk off!!
Wow she told me to fukk off ....im outraged :heh:. But if i were to call her a lousy bytch or hoe i would get negged plus rep would get taken ....just another day on the coli yall :myman:
 

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I don't understand WHY men initiate talk to random strange women. It's one of the most dangerous things you can do.

  • Dangerous to the ego
  • Dangerous because street harassment claims
  • Dangerous because you don't know who or what the female is associated with (boyfriends crimes)
  • Dangerous because ultimately it's a waste of your valuable time, both short term in regards to rejection, and long term because you most likely have nothing in common

nikkas need to fukking wise up. They still using old tactics that worked when women WERE NOT AS EMPOWERED as they are now. Back in the day you can talk to random strange women, because you would go through a courting process. you talk to her, find out who she is, meet her parents and ask permission. There was a dynamic where EACH PARTY BENEFITED. The man was the financial support and protection, and the woman was the home maker.


WE DON'T LIVE IN THOSE TIMES ANYMORE. Yes dating is a numbers game, and yes streetgame can be successful. But use logic men, Why would you want to talk to a RANDOM STRANGER in hopes for romance or even sex?

Lets leave out the fact of STDS, and the dangers I listed above. You have no Idea what state of mind this woman is in.


I don't talk to women on the street, infact I actively avoid them. My mom told me not to talk to strangers.

I agree wholeheartedly. I don't date complete strangers because it usually a waste of time.
 

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It's a low investment way that cut's a lot of the bullshyt if you spit to multiple chicks. The same girls that want you to follow through and invest invest invest be the same ones throwing up roadblocks and bullshytting and whatnot. One monkey don't stop the show :yeshrug:

As for the whole chicks saying "I'd never initiate contact" I feel like they're being real cause a lot of girls really do live by that but on the other hand it's bullshyt cause depending on who the dude is that gives that number they'll throw that ideal away in a heartbeat. It's just ego shyt anyway but there will be dudes who come forward either way so they can afford to be like that.:ehh:

For some women it may be ego, some women are traditional, and some women just don't give a damn whether she gets to know some random guy who approached her at the grocery store.

I am a mix between the second two. If I didn't approach you, I'm likely uninterested in getting to know you in the first place, so logically, I will not go out of my way to get to know you. It's literally that simple.
 

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I don't understand WHY men initiate talk to random strange women. It's one of the most dangerous things you can do.

  • Dangerous to the ego
  • Dangerous because street harassment claims
  • Dangerous because you don't know who or what the female is associated with (boyfriends crimes)
  • Dangerous because ultimately it's a waste of your valuable time, both short term in regards to rejection, and long term because you most likely have nothing in common

nikkas need to fukking wise up. They still using old tactics that worked when women WERE NOT AS EMPOWERED as they are now. Back in the day you can talk to random strange women, because you would go through a courting process. you talk to her, find out who she is, meet her parents and ask permission. There was a dynamic where EACH PARTY BENEFITED. The man was the financial support and protection, and the woman was the home maker.


WE DON'T LIVE IN THOSE TIMES ANYMORE. Yes dating is a numbers game, and yes streetgame can be successful. But use logic men, Why would you want to talk to a RANDOM STRANGER in hopes for romance or even sex?

Lets leave out the fact of STDS, and the dangers I listed above. You have no Idea what state of mind this woman is in.


I don't talk to women on the street, infact I actively avoid them. My mom told me not to talk to strangers.
nikka im a grown ass man, picture me being afraid to talk to strangers:childplease:
 

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And women wonder why the lil gems on dealing with women thread exist:wow:

Women arent arch villans or caricatures or cartoon characters. We are people, we are different though we have many things in common. Those th
Wow she told me to fukk off ....im outraged :heh:. But if i were to call her a lousy bytch or hoe i would get negged plus rep would get taken ....just another day on the coli yall :myman:

Life is so unfair.
 
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Women arent arch villans or caricatures or cartoon characters. We are people, we are different though we have many things in common. Those th


Life is so unfair.

Men anit the villian either ...men and women are diffrent . I tell women all the time there is no such things as different but equal.
 

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For some women it may be ego, some women are traditional, and some women just don't give a damn whether she gets to know some random guy who approached her at the grocery store.

I am a mix between the second two. If I didn't approach you, I'm likely uninterested in getting to know you in the first place, so logically, I will not go out of my way to get to know you. It's literally that simple.

Everyone is a stranger before they know each other.
 

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....only with certain types of men. :sas2:

Nah, I only court women that show actual appreciation of me first.
Typical lack of personal accountability on behalf of black men. The issue isn't black men having an obsessive compulsion to talk to women even when they are at the worst personal state they can be in, it's MY fault for attracting them.


Dear Brehs,

I'm sorry. I'm sorry for trying to get to work and home everyday. I'm sorry for not seeing you for your inner beauty but instead being distracted by all the tartar on your teeth. I'm sorry for judging your so harshly in the same vein as white supremacy by expecting better hygiene.

Yours Sincerely,

Bedwech Jenkins

LOL White dudes are just as bummy ans slothful as anyone else, but I never hear you speak against them. This "Street harassment" is only after minority men and never after white men. I see the cism with that shyt.
 

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Nah, I only court women that show actual appreciation of me first.


LOL White dudes are just as bummy ans slothful as anyone else, but I never hear you speak against them. This "Street harassment" is only after minority men and never after white men. I see the cism with that shyt.

Did I ever mention harassment once? I'm not being harassed by these men. My morale is being brought down by the reality that far too many of my brothers are economically and socially on the margins of society. Instead of taking themselves we out of the dating pool until they have sorted themselves out they want to chat to me on my way to and from work. I guess spitting at women gives them that feeling a productive life ought to.

I don't get approached by white men most of the time. Just blacks mainly and a few Asians (south Asian) but even the Asians dudes are more fixed up then my own brothas. It's sad.
 
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