ladies be honest you hate it when dude says "take my number instead"

[Wild self]

Did I ever mention harassment once? I'm not being harassed by these men. My morale is being brought down by the reality that far too many of my brothers are economically and socially on the margins of society. Instead of taking themselves we out of the dating pool until they have sorted themselves out they want to chat to me on my way to and from work. I guess spitting at women gives them that feeling a productive life ought to.

I don't get approached by white men most of the time. Just blacks mainly and a few Asians (south Asian) but even the Asians dudes are more fixed up then my own brothas. It's sad.

You would shoot down a clean cut brotha that spoke to you with respect and humility the same way. The only black men you like are rappers with "swag" or the dusty ones that you seem to hate. Just admit that black men aren't your cup of tea and the precious white man is everything.

 

[Kenny West]

Did I ever mention harassment once? I'm not being harassed by these men. My morale is being brought down by the reality that far too many of my brothers are economically and socially on the margins of society. Instead of taking themselves we out of the dating pool until they have sorted themselves out they want to chat to me on my way to and from work. I guess spitting at women gives them that feeling a productive life ought to.

I don't get approached by white men most of the time. Just blacks mainly and a few Asians (south Asian) but even the Asians dudes are more fixed up then my own brothas. It's sad.

Is talking to women in public and being on your shyt mutually exclusive or something?

 

[KenyaDoll]

Everyone is a stranger before they know each other.

Yeah, but I'm not interested in getting to know or dating random strangers.

I'm not interested in going from stranger straight to dating with any man.

It's either acquaintance to dating or friend to dating. Since I'm not interested in becoming friends or acquaintances with random men OR WOMEN that means I am also uninterested in potential romantic opportunities from strangers. I will be polite, I will engage in conversation if I have the time, but I don't want your number and I don't want to date you.

Of course the only exception is if I randomly meet someone who went to the same school (grad or undergrad), knew some of the same people, and etc, in which case you are not a random person.

 

[Wild self]

Yeah, but I'm not interested in getting to know or dating random strangers.

I'm not interested in going from stranger straight to dating with any man.

It's either acquaintance to dating or friend to dating. Since I'm not interested in becoming friends or acquaintances with random men OR WOMEN that means I am also uninterested in potential romantic opportunities from strangers. I will be polite, I will engage in conversation if I have the time, but I don't want your number and I don't want to date you.

Of course the only exception is if I randomly meet someone who went to the same school, knew some of the same people, and etc.

Your good friends were once strangers. I mean, if you want to keep the same friends since they days of High School or college, you gonna have a small ass social circle.

 

[Kenny West]

Yeah, but I'm not interested in getting to know or dating random strangers.

I'm not interested in going from stranger straight to dating with any man.

It's either acquaintance to dating or friend to dating. Since I'm not interested in becoming friends or acquaintances with random men OR WOMEN that means I am also uninterested in potential romantic opportunities from strangers. I will be polite, I will engage in conversation if I have the time, but I don't want your number and I don't want to date you.

Of course the only exception is if I randomly meet someone who went to the same school, knew some of the same people, and etc.

Either you just haven't met that nikka yet


or you've already ran into that nikka and the scars ain't healed yet

 

[KenyaDoll]

Your good friends were once strangers. I mean, if you want to keep the same friends since they days of High School or college, you gonna have a small ass social circle.

Considering the fact that we were in the same schools and etc, they weren't random strangers. We met and became friends because we were acquainted with each other through class, and etc. We didn't just walk up to each other on the street and say let's exchange number and see if we have something in common.

People who have become my friends have been my acquaintances through other unrelated experiences. We didn't go from strangers to friends and if we hadn't gotten acquainted with each other through other means (besides pursuing friendship), then we probably would have never been friends.

 

[KenyaDoll]

Either you just haven't met that nikka yet


or you've already ran into that nikka and the scars ain't healed yet

You're right. In my 28 years, I have never met a stranger that was so irresistible that I just had to pursue a relationship with him

Although my first boyfriend used this approach, I never had any intention of calling him, and the only reason I did is because he was the pastor's son at my aunts church and for three weeks he kept asking her to ask me when I would call. I knew people who could vouch for his character (he had references). I should also highlight the fact that I was 17 years old so that was clearly different.

Given that physical attraction is not enough for me to date someone, I don't think it will happen either. There are enough quality men that I am acquaint with that if things didn't work out with my boyfriend, I could and would just choose from them.

 

[Wild self]

Considering the fact that we were in the same schools and etc, they weren't random strangers. We met and became friends because we were acquainted with each other through class, and etc. We didn't just walk up to each other on the street and say let's exchange number and see if we have something in common.

People who have become my friends have been my acquaintances through other unrelated experiences. We didn't go from strangers to friends and if we hadn't gotten acquainted with each other through other means (besides pursuing friendship), then we probably would have never been friends.

Life is a daring adventure, or nothing at all - Helen Keller

Keep living in the same limited box and people, cause that is all you gonna get.

 

[ComputersPutin]

Malc stay sparking serious discussion while BSing at the same time.



One day...I wish to be able to get women like you guys on here....

 

[KenyaDoll]

Life is a daring adventure, or nothing at all - Helen Keller

Keep living in the same limited box and people, cause that is all you gonna get.

Be courteous to all, but intimate with few, and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. True friendship is a plant of slow growth, and must undergo and withstand the shocks of adversity before it is entitled to the appellation. - George Washington

 

[KenyaDoll]

Malc stay sparking serious discussion while BSing at the same time.



One day...I wish to be able to get women like you guys on here....

You will friend!

 

[KenyaDoll]

Malc stay sparking serious discussion while BSing at the same time.



One day...I wish to be able to get women like you guys on here....

Do you approach women randomly on the street?
Do you prefer to date women who you are acquainted with in some way?

 

[Kenny West]

You're right. In my 28 years, I have never met a stranger that was so irresistible that I just had to pursue a relationship with him

Although my first boyfriend used this approach, I never had any intention of calling him, and the only reason I did is because he was the pastor's son at my aunts church and for three weeks he kept asking her to ask me when I would call. I knew people who could vouch for his character (he had references). I should also highlight the fact that I was 17 years old so that was clearly different.

Given that physical attraction is not enough for me to date someone, I don't think it will happen either. There are enough quality men that I am acquaint with that if things didn't work out with my boyfriend, I could and would just choose from them.

Yeah yeah I hear you and I don't doubt you live that, but that's what will make it all the more potent when a nikka like me shows up.

"So you can say whatever girl but we just don't believe youuuuu"

 

[nalej]

I must be old because shyt like this is petty to me. If you you're interested in someone just reach out. I don't want to hang with any chicks that play games anyways at this point. I got other shyt to worry about like making money.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

You're right. In my 28 years, I have never met a stranger that was so irresistible that I just had to pursue a relationship with him

Although my first boyfriend used this approach, I never had any intention of calling him, and the only reason I did is because he was the pastor's son at my aunts church and for three weeks he kept asking her to ask me when I would call. I knew people who could vouch for his character (he had references). I should also highlight the fact that I was 17 years old so that was clearly different.

Given that physical attraction is not enough for me to date someone, I don't think it will happen either. There are enough quality men that I am acquaint with that if things didn't work out with my boyfriend, I could and would just choose from them.

Girls like you scare me kenya















Cause I gotta be honest with them