Ladies, Do Y'all Approach w/out Approaching? And do Dudes Have a "Resting Breh Face"?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I’ve been approached by all kinds of females over the past 25 years. I will say tho that the most aggressive ones usually weren’t that attractive initially. But they ended up making up for that in other ways

One of my exes approached, a white meth head and a dusty over weight hoodrat outside her momma window.
Thats how lucky i am.

 

[AAKing23]

I’ve been approached by all kinds of females over the past 25 years. I will say tho that the most aggressive ones usually weren’t that attractive initially. But they ended up making up for that in other ways

Was going to say this, they start looking good af when they're persistent with it

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Skr8 truth

 

[filial_piety]

Not even speak to them?

This is really why a lot of the times women’s complaints about the men they are dating fall on deaf ears with me.

How you gonna be upset at the guy you’re dating when you only date the men that approach and speak to you

Shut makes absolutely zero sense

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Was going to say this, they start looking good af when they're persistent with it

I dont think thats what he meant breh.
But you right too tho.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

This is really why a lot of the times women’s complaints about the men they are dating fall on deaf ears with me.

How you gonna be upset at the guy you’re dating when you only date the men that approach and speak to you

Shut makes absolutely zero sense

I stopped tryna make that point on here years ago.
shyt be crazy how a woman see a dude she's interested in and wont do nttn about it.
Just pray in her head that his eyes magically pan over to her and comes say something.

They sit there, heart beating all fast and watch him walk away, never to be seen again. Then they go on facebook and complain about no good men out there and how she dont get approached

 

[Reality]

sex from women who make moves >>>> sex from passive women

best sex i've ever had has always been from a woman who made the first pass. translates well to the bedroom

 

[filial_piety]

I stopped tryna make that point on here years ago.
shyt be crazy how a woman see a dude she's interested in and wont do nttn about it.
Just pray in her head that his eyes magically pan over to her and comes say something.

They sit there, heart beating all fast and watch him walk away, never to be seen again. Then they go on facebook and complain about no good men out there and how she dont get approached

that shyt is just so sad

 

[BrehWyatt]

I think it'd basically be a dude who got an involuntary mean mug.

Like, a nikka who looks pissed by default.

We all know someone who's mad cool n chill, but he looks angry all the time.

Me: "Lemme put you on with my nikka Black, he's quality n I mean that.

Her: The mean looking brotha? I dunno, he never looks like he's happy to be out with y'all.

Me: Nahh, he just looks like that but the dude is golden, I'm telling you. He's not for the bullshyt, on everything. "

I am this breh.


One day I hope that women as a whole learn that the most effective tactic they could ever employ to get who they want is to shoot their shot or at the very least, make it pretty obvious that the breh has the green light.

I can't imagine a woman would work up the gumption/boldness to approach ANYBODY unless she actually liked the breh or wanted something to do with him. And according to this here thread, the chances of a woman's success exponentially increase if she shoots first.

It cuts out a ton of the initial gameplaying if you are clear with your hints/intentions right off the bat.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

that shyt is just so sad

that shyt is just so sad

That lack of ambition will keep them going through the same cycle

 

[filial_piety]

The best approach is when they send their ugly friend and she tell you

" hi, my friend over there likes you."

The friends is usually a bad one

...this is hilarious when it happens.

At my old job, there were always black women who walk around like Darth Vader, eyes straight and never turns their heads...and it doesn't seem like they know that you exist....and then one day out of the blue my homegirl who i talk to everyday would randomly say "you know Keisha like you right??...she think you cute" and I just be on some

what???



I gotta say, breakin it down racial lines makes it more interesting....the few women who were straight up about it were white...quick to smile, tilt the head and give you her number....latin chicks just stare lol....black chicks usually are unreadable.They have a 24/7goat poker face.

WOmen no matter the race who are older are the boldest. Women 35 and over get on some "I want marriage and babies" talk within 3 minutes and make no apologies.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

I am this breh.


One day I hope that women as a whole learn that the most effective tactic they could ever employ to get who they want is to shoot their shot or at the very least, make it pretty obvious that the breh has the green light.

I can't imagine a woman would work up the gumption/boldness to approach ANYBODY unless she actually liked the breh or wanted something to do with him. And according to this here thread, the chances of a woman's success exponentially increase if she shoots first.

It cuts out a ton of the initial gameplaying if you are clear with your hints/intentions right off the bat.

They already know this.
They just afraid of him saying no mixed with laziness. That gives them the excuse on why they don't do nttn.

Alot of em have this idea that she is on top of the world and its the man they spos to show her that he's honored to be in her presence

 

[KOOL-AID]

Females are scary, u hear they like you through somebody and u ponder how n when they started feelin you

 

[filial_piety]

That lack of ambition will keep them going through the same cycle

yeah its like a crazy science experiment..

There's this one girl on my IG from Brooklyn, who constantly makes videos about how she's single, never had a boyfriend (she's 33) and has a complaint about every man who approaches her. She's not bad lookin'...plenty of dudes would fuk. She basically never dates because the men that approach her just aren't her type...and she's quick to post the memes of "men who approach me, and men that I want" pictures. And she cries and cries and cries...you can see the pain in her eyes in her pics and videos.

and it's just mind boggling to me that she doesn't go after the men that she wants...she just thinks that her type is magically just going to spit the perfect line at her one day and catch her at the right moment.

 

[IsThatBrothaMouzone?]

Women will approach if it's "worth it." Basically a famous/wealthy or extremely good looking man. Athletes and other celebrities get females coming at them all the time.

Now a regular breh....nah. Women are too self conscious for that shyt. It's tough for MEN to approach and most of us have been doing that since middle school. Females are terrible at reading men because they only get aggressive with dudes that have ZERO interest. They will literally ignore 10 dudes checking them out for the one (very good looking) breh that is playing on his phone.

Also doesn't work because men have more diverse tastes. Just about any woman will get some dikk without putting in any effort. If women did they approaching, they all hit up the same group of brehs.