Ladies, Do Y'all Approach w/out Approaching? And do Dudes Have a "Resting Breh Face"?

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

What kind of man considers that being desperate

I've heard of some dudes who will think something is wrong with the woman if she approaches

 

[Black Panther]

IMO, being approached by a woman always seems weird to me. :bphubie:

Don't get me wrong, it's appreciated, but it always takes me a few minutes to realize what's happening.

Legit talked myself out of p*ssy several times because I couldn't tell when girls were flirting with me.

 

[Honey Bee]

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Well with Jason at least I know he likes black women.And he's good looking as well

 

[Eternally Jaded]

IMO, being approached by a woman always seems weird to me. :bphubie:

Don't get me wrong, it's appreciated, but it always takes me a few minutes to realize what's happening.

Legit talked myself out of p*ssy several times because I couldn't tell when girls were flirting with me.

See this I understand.

I've been there, with assuming it was just small talk or friendly convo, only for someone later to clarify it for me.

But I've also been outright bagged by women as well, n eff what you heard....that ish is dope, especially when they're pretty.

I'm not gonna knock a woman who ain't built for it, but I will say I've only ever been outright approached by pretty, confident women.
Aside from that one studly looking chick at the roller rink..(ugh)
I bet most ugly women know they're ugly, so they definitely not putting themselves out there.

 

[The M.I.C.]

Guys have such low self S-team and think so little of themselves that they'd take a woman approaching as being 'desperate' instead of just thinking she really likes them.

I don't have low self esteem.

 

[DarkmanX]

I don’t approach men however I give signals like smiling and catching his eye to show that I would be open to his advances. I may strike up a conversation. Men are humans, so some of them can definitely have a facial expression that isn’t open to flirting.

That's confusing as hell. Because alotta times (some) women play fake and do those things & men think it means they might be interested. Then when you approach them they hit you with a damn sexual assualt charge or act disgusted that you would even think that meant they're interested.

I'm speaking in general btw. Honestly.

I mean if we're grown & a woman is interested why not just make them know. I'm not sayin yall should walk up & holla like men do, but
if you know what you want there's should be no problem letting said person know.

I think it's just that women arent used to it & also fear the rejection.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

i don't approach men. Never have, never will. A woman has to be somewhat desperate and suffer from low self-esteem if she approach men. And I am not aware if men have resting bytch face or not.

Good because I love the chase

 

[Honey Bee]

Good because I love the chase

Depending on the man I like to chased big daddy

 

[13473]

if i want a guy i'll communicate this to him, but i'm not into outright chasing a guy. rejection hurts, so i know a lot of guys are a bit apprehensive just approaching any ol' chick if he's unsure of how it'll turn out.

i don't think approaching a dude means no other guys want u. if u really want a guy but u aren't on his radar, then go for it.

i personally want to be more aggressive but i also have a fear i approach a dude, flirt, then his gf come out the woodworks and beat my ass

 

[13473]

If a woman looks at you for longer than 2 seconds, she wants to fukk

4 seconds and she's imagining what your kids will look like

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

IMO, being approached by a woman always seems weird to me. :bphubie:

Don't get me wrong, it's appreciated, but it always takes me a few minutes to realize what's happening.

Legit talked myself out of p*ssy several times because I couldn't tell when girls were flirting with me.

You need to hit the OBLIVIOUS thread.
Whats some times you've talked yourself outta it.

Shoot i dont even get flirted with to even talk myself outta booty

 

[Mr. Manhattan]

Why not?

Here is my pic:

christ lady, shave the unibrow and brush your teeth and i might let you top me off

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

if i want a guy i'll communicate this to him, but i'm not into outright chasing a guy. rejection hurts, so i know a lot of guys are a bit apprehensive just approaching any ol' chick if he's unsure of how it'll turn out.

i don't think approaching a dude means no other guys want u. if u really want a guy but u aren't on his radar, then go for it.

i personally want to be more aggressive but i also have a fear i approach a dude, flirt, then his gf come out the woodworks and beat my ass

Well atleast you're honest.
How would you communicate it to him? (For us oblivious dudes)

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

See this I understand.

I've been there, with assuming it was just small talk or friendly convo, only for someone later to clarify it for me.

But I've also been outright bagged by women as well, n eff what you heard....that ish is dope, especially when they're pretty.

I'm not gonna knock a woman who ain't built for it, but I will say I've only ever been outright approached by pretty, confident women.
Aside from that one studly looking chick at the roller rink..(ugh)
I bet most ugly women know they're ugly, so they definitely not putting themselves out there.

When i worked at walgreens, i hadva chick catch me in the stockroom and ask me "so when you gon make me yo girlfriend?"
Had me like


We got together the next day

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Man I remember some white broad sat near me at the park and made a fake phone call talking loud ass shyt tryna get my attention.

I got her number purely for entertainment