Ladies, do you all encourage manscaping? (Lengthy OP)

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Just trim it down breh. Shaving your whole body gonna probably lead to ingrown hairs since you really not into body care like that.

You could try laser hair removal too. I did it for like my whole body years ago. It doesn't get rid of all the hair but makes it fine and a lot less dense


Been thinking about doing this for a minute. How many sessions did you do?
 

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I don't even like how "trimming down" sounds, but like i said I'm considering it. And she's offered to help...

I wouldn't say I'm not into body care! Lmao....I just never considered shaving anything besides my face, let's not reach with the accusations hahahahaha...

I appreciate yall's inputs!

I'm not calling you dirty but you're acting made weird about something mad basic. If you scared to shave then I doubt your into exfoliating and ingrown hair products.

You can try Nair too. Smooth finish without the ingrown ls.
 

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If you're alarmed (now or about the future), I'd suggest laser hair removal. It's not medical, it's cosmetic. You can get it done at a spa. Takes a few sessions depending on density, but it's easier (and less painful) than waxing or shaving. Schedule some couples massages so you can be nice and relaxed when she licks you all over.


I didn't talk him into it, I can't talk him into shyt. :heh: I think he got annoyed at some point, either for his own sake or mine. He occasionally trims, nothing extensive, but it works. He's more hairy than I had dealt with before, so it surprised me like it surprised your girl.



:jbhmm: Do you like her shaved? (legs, pits, goodies)

I'll look into this laser hair removal, then. If and when I commit to that or trimming, I need to grow into it. This is a big step for me lol, like I said my vision of masculinity never included extra shaving so I'm in the process of changing...

I like her shaved but a little hair doesn't bother me. She shaves religiously because that's who she is....I guess I would want her trimmed if she was really hairy but I've never had to worry about it (with any woman). She's brought this up as a counter, like "if I was as hairy as you you'd want me to shave/trim", but I told her that's a false equivalency--->men are naturally hairier on average and in general, some hair in some spots is seen as attractive for men. I've been complimented in the past on my chest and leg hair, nobody is looking at a woman with chest and leg hair as particularly desirable. So that was a weak counter to me!
 

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I don't want to do anything medical, and I'm not disgusted by any of it. Concerned or alarmed is a better phrase lol. If I'm getting hairy at not quite 30, how the fukk I'ma look at 40? Its the neck and back shyt that really bothers me...

Did you ever talk your man into grooming his balls? She actually has said the same thing, re:hair in mouth, but she has long hair on her head and sheds that shyt everywhere, so I have told her to knock that shyt off lol...



Bro she asked me to shave my armpits, too. Got a big Hell No. I really think she has a odd fetish for bald men, she liked men bald everywhere except on the head (she likes nice ceasars but she also like afros and braids, like Kaepernick). Bit she denies she has a fetish, but I'm like, what woman likes a man with bald balls, chest, legs, armpits, etc? shyt just seems weird to me...


I prefer my man hairless too.

But looking back on it, I was a swimmer (on a team) as a kid and that was my first look at almost nude men. They all shaved their bodies. Maybe that's why o prefer it :patrice:
 

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Been thinking about doing this for a minute. How many sessions did you do?

Back when I was an aesthetician I got a job at a doctor's office. They literally had no clients for that service so I would just literally use the machine for like the 4 hours I was there a few times a week. I have no idea how many sessions I did.

:deadmanny:

That story was a whole mess. I almost forgot about it.:funny:
 

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I don't even like how "trimming down" sounds, but like i said I'm considering it. And she's offered to help...
That's why I consider the word "groomed" or maintained for men while we ladies, have a "skin care regimen" and "body care routine."
 

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Most men never think to do it but it's the same as eating a hairy box. You'd still do it but it would be 100% better if it was less hair to weed through.

I get it!

Yes, they were shaved by not totally shaved, not hairless - like shaved down their chest hair, and the hair down below is trimmed. Never dated a hairy man before. I'm not the type of woman that likes a lot of hair on the chest area, I prefer that shaved down. Hair in their penis area - that's a necessity for them to trim because I think hair in the private area holds an odor - immediate turn off for me. I like a dude with a nice moustache. A moustache is a must have for dudes- I don't trust a man without a moustache. Hmmm for their beard tho - I leave that up to the individual dude's preference. I don't like overgrown beards tho, and ones that are not neatly maintained. My type is the clean-cut, clean-shaven type of man but still definitely has to have strong masculinity.

It's funny how people's experiences vary. I never had a woman suggest I shave my beard, much less anything else, and typically everybody loved my shyt. And conversely she never dated a brother who didn't shave or had a full beard (that's me in my avi, can't tell well but my shyt has always been tight, I love and take pride in my beard lol)...

She never mentioned the pubic hair having in odor but she doesn't like it...

I'm not calling you dirty but you're acting made weird about something mad basic. If you scared to shave then I doubt your into exfoliating and ingrown hair products.

You can try Nair too. Smooth finish without the ingrown ls.

Nah, I get you, I was clowning. And yes, it is weird to me in the sense that I've never felt a calling or been asked to shave previously. It's not something I've done so it isn't something I can jump into without reservation...

I'm pretty sure I don't have the discipline for exfoliating and all that, though!

just trim it down breh:beli: yall really out there will with armpit and crotch hair long enough to braid :what:

Lol negative, g! My armpit hair is really modest actually. Which made the whole thing about her asking me to shave everything that much more strange---->>>plenty of cats are way hairier than me, armpit hair thick than a muhfukka...

I think I will start trimming or shaving down low and/or look into the back/shoulder shyt. I just gotta warm up to it. My chest though, I don't think I'm touching it!

I prefer my man hairless too.

But looking back on it, I was a swimmer (on a team) as a kid and that was my first look at almost nude men. They all shaved their bodies. Maybe that's why o prefer it :patrice:

Hairless like the way I'm describing my woman, all hair gone (besides head)?
 

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Been doing it since my early 20's.

:smugdraper:

I'm naturally not hairy all over my body (Austrian genes) but ever since I started manscaping, I personally prefer it that way. And...no woman has EVER said, "Dang, I wish you had more hair."

:manny:
 

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Been doing it since my early 20's.

:smugdraper:

I'm naturally not hairy all over my body (Austrian genes) but ever since I started manscaping, I personally prefer it that way. And...no woman has EVER said, "Dang, I wish you had more hair."

:manny:

shyt i did a cleanup yesterday. Dont gotta go bald. I do a level 1 above the piece and .5 the balls. WOmen appreciate it and go a lil harder with the head. Make sure you clean after to avoid ingrowns nikka

That's a bet...

No woman ever told me she wished I had more hair either, but never had no complaints either, and plenty if compliments. I've had to learn in my relationship with my current, that everyone is different, and its forced me to think outside my mental boundaries!
 

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I get it!



It's funny how people's experiences vary. I never had a woman suggest I shave my beard, much less anything else, and typically everybody loved my shyt. And conversely she never dated a brother who didn't shave or had a full beard (that's me in my avi, can't tell well but my shyt has always been tight, I love and take pride in my beard lol)...

She never mentioned the pubic hair having in odor but she doesn't like it...



Nah, I get you, I was clowning. And yes, it is weird to me in the sense that I've never felt a calling or been asked to shave previously. It's not something I've done so it isn't something I can jump into without reservation...

I'm pretty sure I don't have the discipline for exfoliating and all that, though!



Lol negative, g! My armpit hair is really modest actually. Which made the whole thing about her asking me to shave everything that much more strange---->>>plenty of cats are way hairier than me, armpit hair thick than a muhfukka...

I think I will start trimming or shaving down low and/or look into the back/shoulder shyt. I just gotta warm up to it. My chest though, I don't think I'm touching it!



Hairless like the way I'm describing my woman, all hair gone (besides head)?
I trim everything one a month
Underarm Hair And Hygiene. The odor from sweat is caused by bacteria and the bacteria can multiply in the damp area of armpit hair – shaving the armpits results in less space for bacteria to breed. And increased effectiveness from your deodorant products.
 

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That's a bet...

No woman ever told me she wished I had more hair either, but never had no complaints either, and plenty if compliments. I've had to learn in my relationship with my current, that everyone is different, and its forced me to think outside my mental boundaries!
Minus well give it shot.
 
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