Ladies: Do you find it possible to date a man that makes alot less than you?

[winb83]

hmmm...is it possible for them to date a man that makes a lot more than they do and if so then why should a man have to put up with a woman that makes a lot less than he does while she can't put up with a guy that makes a lot less than her?

 

[Shameonyou]

Define "lot less"

ok lets say...woman makes 60 k, man makes 35 k just for measurement factors

 

[Binary]

the lies that will be told in this thread

Not everyone cares about money, if you love someone enough you'll find a way to make it work financially.

Spoiler

 

[Black Magisterialness]

i can't date a woman who makes substantially less than me....you not gon get over on my ducats better bring something to the table...that way we both got something to lose this relationship don't work....


BUT, truthfully if ANYONE male or female is a great person and is working towards something i think you deserve a chance.

 

[Cool Dr. Money]

Not everyone cares about money, if you love someone enough you'll find a way to make it work financially.

Spoiler

i expected you and some of the other women of the coli to say money doesnt matter or yes i would date a man who makes less than me because its the PC thing to say

 

[Regular Developer]

What if the woman makes alot more money percentage wise, but the man is making like 200k/year? Does that change anything or no?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

ya right

99 percent of them would rather have dudes making more money then they do

so when shyt hits the wall..they ready to take half

 

[Petty Crocker]

Define "lot less"

ok lets say...woman makes 60 k, man makes 35 k just for measurement factors

I think the bigger question is would a man be okay with a woman who made more money than him..using those same stats.

To answer OP's question, I would date a man that made that amount of money as long as he wasnt lacking in other areas.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

ya right

99 percent of them would rather have dudes making more money then they do

so when shyt hits the wall..they ready to take half

if it looks like a duck....

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I think the bigger question is would a man be okay with a woman who made more money than him..using those same stats.

To answer OP's question, I would date a man that made that amount of money as long as he wasnt lacking in other areas.

so if his salary is just average..hes gotta be perfect in every other aspect of the relationship?

 

[Cool Dr. Money]

if you make more than them they complain about you making all of the financial decisions. if you make less than them they complain because they make all financial decisions because your like "sorry babe i aint got it"

 

[Petty Crocker]

so if his salary is just average..hes gotta be perfect in every other aspect of the relationship?

Not perfect. No one is perfect

 

[Amy Traphouse]

As long as he's hustlin for a higher pay/career boost and not being content with a minimal pay especially one he can't live effectively on if he was by himself.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

As long as he's hustlin for a higher pay/career boost and not being content with a minimal pay especially one he can't live effectively on if he was by himself.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Since I'm an undergraduate in college it doesn't matter.I'm a broke college student & I expect him to be one too,lol.

But later in life,no.I'd rather you make the same amount as me or higher.