I think women are just as unsure if not MORE unsure than most of us men are, I used to feel like shyt on the inside, like "I smell good, I'm dressed nice, I'm handsome, what aren't they looking at me or even giving me a courteous smile"?
Then I tried some new, I stopped second guessing myself, and started to look at shyt from their point of view...maybe they think they're too ugly or broke to approach ME, maybe they're just not feeling like themselves, maybe they actually have respect for their boyfriend. As far as NON-BLACKS, maybe they don't know what's proper communication because they're that detached from BLACKS interpersonally.
I learned to just be on my A-GAME at all times and don't worry about these hoes, because if she can't look at me and recognize WHAT she's staring at, her p*ssy ain't even worthy of feeling my hard dikk.
If I feel like a bytch is avoiding eye contact on purpose, I crack a smile and turn up my bop with out saying the words, "yeah, right bytch, go home and be mad at your loser boyfriend for not being me", but they can tell by my confidence I'm not worried...I just give them that look like, hell know you not worth me saving.