Ladies, Do You Think Men Are Wrongfully Intimidated?

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Tall women may not get approached by dudes who are shorter because they might feel that the woman wants a taller man herself *because normally women want that*
Its the tall chocolate chick *arround 6'0* at work that don't look all too bad but I wouldn't dare spit at her because I'm like 5'8. :whoa:

Women who make a decent amount of money might not get approached much by the average dude because dudes will think that she won't want him because he can't provide for her since she's making more money.
Or the woman might want to be taken care of and if she works as a doctor and he's a line cook, he can't live up to her financial standards. :sas2:

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Idk, I was told back in the day I was intimidating and I didnt understand how. Then a dude broke it down for me. It seemed like I didnt need a man for nothing but dicc. I could fix my own car and I made more money than alotta the dudes I was dealing with legally n illegally. Id get on the block and do my thang n alotta fiends would bypass them n come to me. And it fucced me up for awhile cuz I thought men liked independent women.
 

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The social class divide is really marked in my country. A guy gotta have some nerve to spit game at a middle class chick when he's broke. Mostly because she'll just laugh him off, like "look at this guy, isn't he funny?" I know that some guys that are shy as fukk to talk to me are pimping around girls in their neighborhood.

And of course, height is height anywhere, couples are usually made with a shorter chick and a taller guy. There are exceptions though.
 

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Idk, I was told back in the day I was intimidating and I didnt understand how. Then a dude broke it down for me. It seemed like I didnt need a man for nothing but dicc. I could fix my own car and I made more money than alotta the dudes I was dealing with legally n illegally. Id get on the block and do my thang n alotta fiends would bypass them n come to me. And it fucced me up for awhile cuz I thought men liked independent women.
on my block you sound like a chick that woulda been shot up prancing around dolo like that unless your dad was an og from the set.
 

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Tall women may not get approached by dudes who are shorter because they might feel that the woman wants a taller man herself *because normally women want that*
Its the tall chocolate chick *arround 6'0* at work that don't look all too bad but I wouldn't dare spit at her because I'm like 5'8. :whoa:

Women who make a decent amount of money might not get approached much by the average dude because dudes will think that she won't want him because he can't provide for her since she's making more money.
Or the woman might want to be taken care of and if she works as a doctor and he's a line cook, he can't live up to her financial standards. :sas2:

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I can agree with this... I have been told on two separate occasions that I wasn't approached because I looked like I had a boyfriend.... How that looks idk... But I thought it was a cop out for cowardice both times
 

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Idk, I was told back in the day I was intimidating and I didnt understand how. Then a dude broke it down for me. It seemed like I didnt need a man for nothing but dicc. I could fix my own car and I made more money than alotta the dudes I was dealing with legally n illegally. Id get on the block and do my thang n alotta fiends would bypass them n come to me. And it fucced me up for awhile cuz I thought men liked independent women.

A dude don't want a female that don't need him for nothing though.
 

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The social class divide is really marked in my country. A guy gotta have some nerve to spit game at a middle class chick when he's broke. Mostly because she'll just laugh him off, like "look at this guy, isn't he funny?" I know that some guys that are shy as fukk to talk to me are pimping around girls in their neighborhood.

And of course, height is height anywhere, couples are usually made with a shorter chick and a taller guy. There are exceptions though.

:sadcam:
 

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I can agree with this... I have been told on two separate occasions that I wasn't approached because I looked like I had a boyfriend.... How that looks idk... But I thought it was a cop out for cowardice both times

:russ:

I swear it's two chicks at work that look nice but in my head they look like they have a dude.
 

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Never really had this problem cuz I make a decent amount of money...And I'm 6'4

So if it's a female taller than me he in the NBA
 

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Guys make so many assumptions without even trying. You don't know how a person will react if you don't approach. You don't even know what the chick thinks of herself. People will assume I have a bf or that I am stuck up. I come off like I have a ton a confidence and even if that is the case it doesn't mean I am I mean person. Oh well :yeshrug:
 

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Oh I know now.

Vice Versa too.
If y'all had a dude that cooked his own food, cleaned up on his own, grocery shopped, paid for his own things--y'all would be on some
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Guys make so many assumptions without even trying. You don't know how a person will react if you don't approach. You don't even know what the chick thinks of herself. People will assume I have a bf or that I am stuck up. I come off like I have a ton a confidence and even if that is the case it doesn't mean I am I mean person. Oh well :yeshrug:

Everybody makes assumptions though
 
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