Ladies get in here..need this question answered.

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I don't think I could ever spent money on a chick like that.

I've been the guy they fukk behind their boyfriends back too many times to turn around and be the guy supporting her and buying her shyt.

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

The first one said frisbee contest.

But the 3rd said take a bubble bath.

How many dates of old boy not paying do you need to go through before you get to that bubble bath tho?

If he finds ways to take me out without having to pay, what does it matter as long as we're both having a good time?

 

[Remote]

If he finds ways to take me out without having to pay, what does it matter as long as we're both having a good time?

Maybe you're that special one that wouldn't be bothered by it.

Are you gonna act like the majority of women wouldn't raise an eyebrow at going dutch for 90 days?

 

[awkwardblackgirl]

Maybe you're that special one that wouldn't be bothered by it.

Are you gonna act like the majority of women wouldn't raise an eyebrow at going dutch for 90 days?

True true

 

[Diondon]

Hilarious

 

[Blackout]

Yep. My bf broke as hell, I'm broke too. He's a good guy, faithful, and I can trust him. Just came back from in n out and I grabbed the tab like I usually do. He's not a bum, he has a 40 hr and I have a 30 hr but I make $14 to his $9.75. #hardonwages

That sounds painful.

My condolences to that dude.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

Yep. My bf broke as hell, I'm broke too. He's a good guy, faithful, and I can trust him. Just came back from in n out and I grabbed the tab like I usually do. He's not a bum, he has a 40 hr and I have a 30 hr but I make $14 to his $9.75. #hardonwages

I'm not telling you what you would and wouldn't do, but dating a guy who makes $9.75 an hour as the lesser-earner in a relationship is vastly different than a guy who's gonna spend $0.00 courting you. I understand this is the coli where misogyny is rampant, so you have to to the thread and say "YES" just to balance out the bullshyt, but truthfully not even the men here would date a woman who wouldn't spend money on them.

I think the problem is ya'll don't recognize and appreciate the money that goes into the courtship.

We're talking about a guy who not only isn't going to take you to dinner, he's not even cooking for you at his own place.
This is a guy who won't buy popcorn at a movie, won't pay for parking, isn't putting in on cover charges or ANY kind of activity at all. And forget about chipping in on the tip.
This dude hasn't bought you a drink, a flower, a CARD...
shyt, if we're talking absolute zeroes, then we're talking about a guy who isn't even going to drive to see you (gas costs money).

So... ?

 

[sanityovar8ted]

No

 

[KinksandCoils]

no maybe in the past but not anymore.

 

[OaklandCertified]

I don't think any woman can last 90 days in a situation where the guy is spending $0

 

[BlvdBrawler]

This thread was funny, btw.

 

[Mac Brown]

Yep. My bf broke as hell, I'm broke too. He's a good guy, faithful, and I can trust him. Just came back from in n out and I grabbed the tab like I usually do. He's not a bum, he has a 40 hr and I have a 30 hr but I make $14 to his $9.75. #hardonwages

awww...........that broke love is the best love.

I'm glad I'm waaaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyy past that though.



but it brings back memories.

You must be young

 

[Mac Brown]

No

the only honest reply

 

[GiGi]

 

[Black]

hey friend