Ladies, have you ever hit and quit a dude?

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vagina and sex is a womans most prized commodity, the more she views it as disposable teh lesser the value it becomes

Men prize sex and vagina, so it's one thing if your intention is to find a man.

If I don't intend on gaining a man, getting married or even having children, then I don't have to live worrying about what men think about my vagina. I do what I want because I don't put being in a relationship on a pedestal.


Yeah my fault.

But, yeah, when do you give it up? What prompts you to have one night stands?

I've never had a one night stand where I just met someone and said "hey, let's fukk". I talk to people for a minute and see where their mind is and if they interest me, then we chill and see what happens. I always do what I'm comfortable with.


One time I hit it and quit it was simply because dude was feeling me and I told him I want to take my time and just chill. The faster people start, the faster things are over. He kept pushing, touching and making moves. I was tired and we had a few drinks so I just said "fukk it" and enjoyed it. After I was like, "thanks" and bounced.
I told him I meant what I said and I didn't find the fact that he kept pushing it appealing. Basically, he missed out.
 

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Men prize sex and vagina, so it's one thing if your intention is to find a man.

If I don't intend on gaining a man, getting married or even having children, then I don't have to live worrying about what men think about my vagina. I do what I want because I don't put being in a relationship on a pedestal.




I've never had a one night stand where I just met someone and said "hey, let's fukk". I talk to people for a minute and see where their mind is and if they interest me, then we chill and see what happens. I always do what I'm comfortable with.



One time I hit it and quit it was simply because dude was feeling me and I told him I want to take my time and just chill. The faster people start, the faster things are over. He keep pushing, touching and making moves. I was tired and we had a few drinks so I just said "fukk it" and enjoyed it. After I was like, "thanks" and bounced.
I told him I meant what I said and I didn't find the fact that he kept pushing it appealing. Basically, he missed out.

so you take this viewpoint, ah brehette
so what if you got knocked up??????

see you already viewed this man as "disposable"

the black women of today y'all!!!!!!

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so you take this viewpoint, ah brehette
so what if you got knocked up??????

see you already viewed this man as "disposable"

the black women of today y'all!!!!!!

@mamba
Birth control.

I don't represent all black women, and I'm definitely not the norm. You don't want one black person to rep the whole race, so don't do so to black women.

I already know to take your opinion with a grain of salt considering your past.
 

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when have I said that?

I tell men to value themselves, most women are seasonal and come and go

I tell men the 3 things a women can hold over you is sex, her beauty and a emotional connection

And vagina, childlessness, beauty are the three most important assets a woman has

when you treat any as disposable thats where you as a brehette fs up :ufdup:

:ehh:

You tell a woman her most prized possession is her Vjay and sex and then tell men not to value sex. Its a recipe for disaster. A woman naively think its her most prized thing and a guy treating her like her most prized thing isn't a big deal. Its better to say respect yourself and your body.

I agree that men shouldn't let sex run them but women shouldn't let it rule them, you can do that and not be a thot.
 

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There was a thread where cats where shytting on a chick who was engaged to be married multiple times before her mid twenties. Cats were shytting on that. Y'all can't down that and down this too; nikkas gotta pick a position and stand on it man:pachaha:

we can't do anything right :mjcry:
 

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You willing to do it again?

:takedat:

just send that fb msg

"I never felt this way about anyone so quickly, you are so smart and beautiful. My mom was always telling me that good women like this existed, but I never believed it till I came across you, I'm usually shy and keep my feelings to myself because I don't trust women, but I trust you :wow:"

:shaq:
 
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