Ladies, how do you prefer a man ask to hook up again?

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As an adult woman who works a full-time job mon-fri and you've hooked up before...

Is there a way you prefer to be asked to hook up?

Do you prefer weekday nights (despite having work in the morn), weekend nights , or is any day cool with u?

Do you prefer he come to you or you go to him?

I ask because recently I had an older chick tell me she hates that It's never my place and only on the weekdays, and that I come off disrespectful by being too straightforward. truthfully, I prefer weekdays because it never affects weekend plans, and the woman's place because I can avoid awkward situations of having to kick her out after.
 
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If it's just a hookup, you coming to me.

Ask me what I'm doing later. If I say Netflix, it's a green.
 

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If it's just a hookup, you coming to me.

Ask me what I'm doing later. If I say Netflix, it's a green.

Thank you. I thought I was doing it right. An older fwb just went off on me tryna set something up for tonight. Do you prefer the dude to wait til the weekend to hit you up or are weekdays just as fine?
 

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Thank you. I thought I was doing it right. An older fwb just went off on me tryna set something up for tonight. Do you prefer the dude to wait til the weekend to hit you up or are weekdays just as fine?

Usually the weekdays unless we're close or I'm going out and want some stand-by dack afterwards.
 

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IMO, if you want the correct answer you need to ask your FWB. Asking us here isn't going to help you if our answers are different from hers.

Communicate with her.
I wanted a general consensus. I will do that @VFib thanks for the input.
 

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I wanted a general consensus. I will do that @VFib thanks for the input.
Is this a mutual understanding that it's just sex? She seems to be feeling some time of way. I would think with a FWB situation that being direct was the way to go. Also, the fact that she is annoyed that it's never at your place or on the weekends. Do you think feelings may have been caught?
 

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I just tell her to come over or I go over there either way I make the move. If she's not with it, fukk her. :yeshrug:

PS: OP is a fakkit.
 
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