Ladies, how long before it's okay for a man to show you vulnerability?

[Mook]

Wow AWALT

You reppin TRP in these streets breh?

 

[Godless Socialist CEO]

Being vulnerable in front of women is just flat out dangerous

 

[Neuromancer]

You reppin TRP in these streets breh?

And you know this. Men need to take back their power in the sexual market place.

 

[Neuromancer]

I suppose when he trust me enough not use it against him im an argument.
I've been working on this, my dude kinda called me out on it and made me feel like shyt

At least you're learning.

 

[Reality]

I'm not mad at that. I know it's a lot for women to see a man they care for cry.

Back in 2010 when my grandmother died I didn't let any of the women in my family see me cry about it until the funeral. Every time I had to cry I just went into the bathroom and locked the door.

It was funny, my cousin was in the bathroom crying, so I went outside to the backyard and my uncle was out there crying too and he turned around wiping tears away and said "shyt boy, I thought you was one of the women folk for a second" and then we cried together.

Too real.

#menhavingfeelings

 

[Rocket Scientist]

i do that 24/7 and in response i am always asked why i am so quiet, why do i look serious all the times, why do i feel agitated, why do i look bored. why do i bal bla bla shyt is annoying


i forgot what thread it was but a poster here said he saw a couple fighting at the gas station and the women screamed " nikka you gonna put your hands on me but not on your dad who fukked you in the ass, nikka please"

see right there, that shyt right there is the ultimate fukkin ether. you can tell most definitely that was some shyt he confided in her

That gas station story I keep telling cats something's are between you and God.I stay quiet,and people I confide in,I know very well.No is going to get me to open up unless I choose.Im hard to read anyway

 

[Neuromancer]

Problem here is women like to feel safe and there's nothing wrong with that. The issue is that some of them can't reconcile that their man is not their father and is only human and can take but so much.

 

[Prince Mongo]

In college, a chick got emotional about something, and her boyfriend trying to get to his car to leave but she was blocking him. He finally shoved her out the way and she was like, "But you didn't do that to your stepdaddy when he was fukking you and your sister, fakkit "


He snapped. Went from calm and aggravated to tears and rage. Dude would've killed that broad if people let him get to her

I've seen women get extra vindictive when they get hurt and they'll do it publicly. Even if they aren't mad, they'll blab and tell their best friends something that you told them in confidence.


That's why I don't tell anyone the super personal stuff

That's an extremely evil thing to say to someone. Who tf says shyt like that? They had to be white and wtf college was this?

 

[Prince Mongo]

One and done


Save the tears for yo mommas brehs, women don't want to see you cry


My mom told me from a young age that there is nothing more disgusting then the tears of a grown man

If this is what most old school black (American and otherwise) women believe... would explain a looooot

I ain't never heard no bullshyt like that from my mom and I've seen my dad cry before. There's nothing remotely wrong with showing emotion of crying as a man when need be. Where are y'all folks from bruh where y'all hear shyt like this?

 

[Gold]

I ain't never heard no bullshyt like that from my mom and I've seen my dad cry before. There's nothing remotely wrong with showing emotion of crying as a man when need be. Where are y'all folks from bruh where y'all hear shyt like this?

Nigeria

I can count on hand the number of times I've seen my mom cry and my dad cry combined.



Not saying its better... but that's just how we were raised

 

[YeLovesBoston]

I suppose when he trust me enough not use it against him im an argument.
I've been working on this, my dude kinda called me out on it and made me feel like shyt

you bring up your man's insecurities and emotional moments during arguments?

 

[Smoking With Cigarettes]

I used to play basketball with a dude who shattered his ankle when he was a senior (I was a junior). So one day im chilling at his place and his girl there, they argue and she says "Thats why youll never play in the nba you bum legged bytch"

That day i learned what having a sharp tongue meant, them words hit him, came around and slapped the shyt outta me, then came back to him.

 

[MoonGoddess]

you bring up your man's insecurities and emotional moments during arguments?

No. But if i don't understand then i'll badger him about it, even tho he's clearly done with the subject. I really try not to use things be's told me in confidence in arguments. Im not saying ive never done it but it would be in the context of our conversation. Not some random thing to be a bytch.
It's hard when you can be super open with someone and they're not that way.
I just be wanting to understand his way of thinking, or why and how he feels about something. I can get annoying about that.

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

That's an extremely evil thing to say to someone. Who tf says shyt like that? They had to be white and wtf college was this?

University of South Carolina

She was black and he was mixed

I didn't know them but they were always boo'd up everywhere together for like 2-3 years so it was wild to see that kind of flip

 

[Neuromancer]

University of South Carolina

She was black and he was mixed

I didn't know them but they were always boo'd up everywhere together for like 2-3 years so it was wild to see that kind of flip

AWALT