Ladies, how many abortions yall had?

[Unemployed GM]

Had one when my ex was almost 7 months, she had no signs and symptoms no stomach bump either. She found out after her friend and her wanted to get tested randomly one day.

shyt fukked me up seeing the baby on the ultrasound, didn't even want to know its gender . He/she would be almost 1 years old now

7 months? That is some cold-hearted shyt.

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

That's $50 dollars. I remember a chic I used to fukk told me bring a plan B because we was fukking that night and wanted me to nut in her. I got her a vitamin C pill and told her to swallow it after we done fukking and she laid there with my nut in her thanking me

....you dumb ass russian roulette nikkas are gonna learn one day

 

[GrindtooFilthy]

If you don't believe in an afterlife then that makes the act of having an abortion that much more egregious. You would rather kill a being that has brain activity and a heart beat, that never got the chance to live a life because you weren't ready to be a parent.

keeping it buck, some people should not be parenting period.

lol next thing you that cute lil baby gonna grow up and become the big homey that robs you hard body on the st.

 

[NobodyReally]

Ask black women why they get abortions on a site that calls single moms thots and whores, brehs.

 

[bdubsblo]

I've never been pregnant.
Never even had a pregnancy scare until 2 years ago and I don't believe in abortions for me so there's no way I would have had one if I was. No plan b either.
This question is pretty fukking personal tho op.

Awwwww do you need a

 

[bdubsblo]

nikkas using fake ass right winged websites as citations on this bytch

Truth hurts doesn't it feminazi?

 

[bdubsblo]

Yeah I can see that. And each time probably had different reasons.
I cannot comprehend all that goes into a decision as heavy as that, so i'll stay out of it and not comment on it.

If someone wants to share that information thats okay, but its never something I ask.

Unless you are my future wife, I really have no business knowing that

Simp logic alert!

 

[bdubsblo]

this what I'm saying. If it's not someone you fukking then why care if other people decide to have one? shyt doesn't effect you one way or the other. Some of you nikkas focused on the wrong shyt. If these lames ain't worried about how pointy a bytch elbows is or how her eyebrows are overly arched they looking for another reason to judge. That's why women don't tell you nikkas shyt. She could have had 20 abortions and wouldn't tell you cause she not comfortable being honest with you fukk nikkas. Damn near every female I know has told me personal shyt like this without asking

Chewing on the double-simp gum

 

[devizelle]

I mean... Black women are damned if we do and damned if we don't.

Having kids = irresponsible single mothers

Having abortions = callous, irresponsible woman

People have sex, and sometimes women get pregnant. There are many factors that contribute to the high abortion rate in the Black community, but unless you "don't believe" in abortion (which often changes when women have an unwanted pregnancy) what's the issue? Unless a woman is being coerced into abortions against her will, or has not consulted the father of the child at all, what's the problem?

The reasons that the rate for Black women is higher have to do with issues (low access to contraception, low income, etc.) that NEED to be addressed though.

Edited for clarity

 

[Colicat]

0 pregnancies
0 abortions
0 kids
2 plan Bs
....

I couldn't imagine getting an abortion, but I wouldn't rule it out (and I am married). Nor would I judge someone who has gotten one.

The stigma attached as well as the personal guilt one must feel has to be soul snatching.

Peoples reasoning for getting one are varied and valid. It's a tough choice all around. I don't envy those who have to make it

 

[Krazy K]

Chewing on the double-simp gum

I don't understand this post

 

[#SOG_soldier]

Lotta lying ass bytches in the thread

 

[Diyhai]

I mean... Black women are damned if we do and damned if we don't.

Having kids = irresponsible single mothers

Having abortions = callous, irresponsible woman

People have sex, and sometimes women get pregnant. There are many factors that contribute to the high abortion rate in the Black community, but unless you "don't believe" in abortion (which often changes when women have an unwanted pregnancy) what's the issue? Unless a woman is being coerced into abortions against her will, or has not consulted the father of the child at all, what's the problem?

The reasons that the rate for Black women is higher have to do with issues (low access to contraception, low income, etc.) that NEED to be addressed though.

Edited for clarity

cuz it is irresponsible
have sex responsibly and you wont have these issues
its rare that people have unexpected pregnancies when they make better choices
at tryna justify this shyt
if u fukk up u fukk up
u just gotta take that L but dont try to justify that dumb shyt tho
its called accountability

 

[King Kreole]

Why is everyone acting like this is a very special thread

It's 2016, regardless of your personal beliefs about it abortion hasn't been particularly taboo for like 50 years

 

[sanityovar8ted]

I've had 4 pregnancies n I have 4 living kids. I got pregnant with my oldest son when I was 15 n even tho it was suggested n maybe a good idea I couldn't go thru with it. I have too many abortion stories smh I don't judge nobody sometimes its for the best. Its a lot of unloved n neglected kids out here simply cuz they mom couldn't afford an abortion. I know somebody who had an abortion at 5mths n I did judge cuz a late term abortion is a 2 day process. I refused getting an abortion and did the best I could and loved them hard as I could and looking back up until now I'm proud of myself for who my kids have grown to be. I really didn't think I'd make it this far honestly.