you're missing the point.... who did you say you'd leave him for??? an upgrade right??
well the upgrade DEFINITELY didn't want you either... he didn't holla.. didn't date you.. didn't get in a relationship with you.. didn't stay faithful while asking you to do ONE thing for him
i don't see why y'all take such offense honestly... if i met you at 130... and you ballooned up to 180... yes i still love you... yes you are the same person... but excuse me for not being physically attracted to an overweight woman
if you met me at football practice... and 5 years later i look like fat rick ross.......
what i look like saying "oh oh oh you want me to lose weight..... oh oh oh oh you don't want to fukk me cause i gained 75 pounds???"
"well fukk you... i'm gonna get my football body back, then go get me a chick who didn't want my fat ass in the first place"

what kind of logic is that?? if you love someone, don't you want to make them happy?? shyt don't you want to turn them on?? fukk him, don't you enjoy looking good as you once did??
getting fat... knowing your fat.. complaining about being fat... while at the same time not doing a fukking thing about it for yourself or his wants, speaks a lot about the type of person you are