As always Hawkeye with the shot.
Ladies is this true?
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CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
When I make a POF, I talk to multiple dudes, ultimately I pick one. That's how you date.
Talking to, is the dating stage before commitment. Basically, getting to know someone.
Talking to, is the dating stage before commitment. Basically, getting to know someone.
can somebody get these meme bytches with the 5 men together with the forever-alone-no-man-ever-talks-to-me /theres no single men/all the good ones are taken/ gay meme bytches?
maybe they could work out some type of deal or trade
maybe they could work out some type of deal or trade
I used to do this...yeah used to.
Aceofspades404
Superstar
I think this was made by some teenagers so I think they mean just texting and phone convos when they say talking.
But I agree with you though, that's just too much to go through and my brain only allows me to be interested in one person at a time.
sanityovar8ted
OG Moma Coli....dat bytch Thowd!!!
ill say i aint shyt before i say nebody else aint shyt
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
Bottom line, people need to get over this idea that someone owes you something. Especially, if you never agreed to or asked for commitment.
People have a right to take it slow or change their mind. Stop being mad that someone didn't choose you and love those who love you. Rejection ain't personal, doesn't mean you are a bad person or unattractive, just simply that person doesn't want you.
Also, anyone that goes around talking about how a whole gender ain't shyt obviously ain't the one for you. Who cares? Let them be lonely or suffer under an ain't shyt person while you go on unbothered.
People have a right to take it slow or change their mind. Stop being mad that someone didn't choose you and love those who love you. Rejection ain't personal, doesn't mean you are a bad person or unattractive, just simply that person doesn't want you.
Also, anyone that goes around talking about how a whole gender ain't shyt obviously ain't the one for you. Who cares? Let them be lonely or suffer under an ain't shyt person while you go on unbothered.
I didn't see you in @Ooh Marty thread. Say this in there too, sis.
Also we'll have to agree to disagree with the bolded cause life is personal. Rejection is based on a judgment made by a particular person on your being. Should people get over it? Hell yeah, but it's not impersonal.
They'll admit that all five usually bring something different to the table,if they're honest anyway.
1.great sex
2. $
3.good looks/well dressed
4. intelligent
5. great listener/always there for her
1.great sex
2. $
3.good looks/well dressed
4. intelligent
5. great listener/always there for her
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
I don't know which thread you're talking about so why don't you just post my quote in there?
Why should you care about their judgement if they are just as flawed as you? Everyone has an opinion, doesn't make it fact.
We are a social species. Thousands of years of tribal living has made the opinions of the "tribe" matter to humans.
How do I quote you?
CinnaSlim
Queen of Swords
But it's not the tribe, one girl doesn't represent the whole tribe. That sort of thinking is the problem. The few do not represent the whole.
Uh social proofing is a thing. Those desired are seen as more desirable. Those not...well
Its hard for men to fathom this because we usually aren't in the situation, and when we are, we are a player because we are the aggressors. So if a dude is trying to date and is actively getting women and ends up talking back and forth to 5 chicks he's a player in a womans eye
A chick is expected to have more than man that she probably is dating or interested in...playing them tho....
got to take that case by case. I'll say this in my experience I'd hate to be the dude in the circle that she really likes to but not really sexually attracted like the others. Those dude always catch the L and the rebound
For me personally I stop at 2 and I dont have the energy or desire for that. Only because I know that one is gonna get "hurt" or put on the bench. Man or woman we all know who we want the most out of a group of people we have been talking to for a week or two. If your juggling more than a handful of people for an extended amount of time I guess it can be considering playing them.
A chick is expected to have more than man that she probably is dating or interested in...playing them tho....
got to take that case by case. I'll say this in my experience I'd hate to be the dude in the circle that she really likes to but not really sexually attracted like the others. Those dude always catch the L and the rebound For me personally I stop at 2 and I dont have the energy or desire for that. Only because I know that one is gonna get "hurt" or put on the bench. Man or woman we all know who we want the most out of a group of people we have been talking to for a week or two. If your juggling more than a handful of people for an extended amount of time I guess it can be considering playing them.