A lot nikkas lost it seems. Only one girl I had wouldn't do this and she was apparently a piece of shyt according to her ex best friend.
Ladies: Make your man a sandwich
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You don't get it and you all over the place. You are what's known as a fair weather friend, meaning you only do shyt or be your best when you getting something which is hoe mentality, or when times are good. This is a big pit yall females fall into. You be big mad that the effort you put out isn't reciprocated. This is childish behavior. No one owes you shyt, but what you can do is be the best you you can be in that relationship so when that random you with leaves you can rest assured you did your best( because he gonna leave)How is catering to a man showing that I’m worth it?
Again...I enjoy giving and pleasing my partner. It’s one of my favorite parts of a relationship.
However, it’s very much give and take. I’m not about to be out here making sandwiches, cooking meals, bussin it open, and catering to someone who doesn’t go out of their way to do the same for me or show me that’s he worth me doing all of that for.
And you really think any REAL female is going to do those things for you without you reciprocating then you are delusional. Y’all really have a warped sense of reality.
If I’m giving it all away to just anyone then how does that make him special?
I guess I’m an “ain’t shyt bytch” then. Oh well.
That warped sense of reality is defined as when people think contrary to what's been taught and learned about the game. People fall victim to the game when they go with the grain. Success is achieved when you go against the grain. In your mind you expecting shyt you learned from listening to hoe babble wit your friends and family , seen on TV/movies , seen on the gram or FB etc....which are all indoctrination tools. I can almost guarantee you think relationships are 50/50 only because I hear this BS alot and smh.
Yes I do believe a REAL female would do all those things. I seen it. I had this one real chic who was technically still married. She was an older chic who I could tell wised up. She used to leave her front door open so I didn't have to ring the bell and just walk in the house when I came over. When I come in she hands me a Heineken or a mix drink, ask if I'm hungry, if I don't eat I go in the bed room where she'll rub my chest and back then hands me the TV remote to watch the game or ESPN and she is silent until I initiate the conversation, if not she stfu. A nikka ain't trying to hear all that talking when he get home. While watching TV I'm getting slow head while sipping a drink. I was there to do what I do which was to slang the dikk, beat the p*ssy up and put her to bed then in her bathroom she got the towels and washrag laid out for me. When I'm dressed I'll give her a forehead kiss while she sleeping and leave. She wasn't mine to have but I do remember her to this day and the qualities she possessed and if the situation was different
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You don't get it and you all over the place. You are what's known as a fair weather friend, meaning you only do shyt or be your best when you getting something which is hoe mentality, or when times are good. This is a big pit yall females fall into. You be big mad that the effort you put out isn't reciprocated. This is childish behavior. No one owes you shyt, but what you can do is be the best you you can be in that relationship so when that random you with leaves you can rest assured you did your best( because he gonna leave)
That warped sense of reality is defined as when people think contrary to what's been taught and learned about the game. People fall victim to the game when they go with the grain. Success is achieved when you go against the grain. In your mind you expecting shyt you learned from listening to hoe babble wit your friends and family , seen on TV/movies , seen on the gram or FB etc....which are all indoctrination tools. I can almost guarantee you think relationships are 50/50 only because I hear this BS alot and smh.
Yes I do believe a REAL female would do all those things. I seen it. I had this one real chic who was technically still married. She was an older chic who I could tell wised up. She used to leave her front door open so I didn't have to ring the bell and just walk in the house when I came over. When I come in she hands me a Heineken or a mix drink, ask if I'm hungry, if I don't eat I go in the bed room where she'll rub my chest and back then hands me the TV remote to watch the game or ESPN and she is silent until I initiate the conversation, if not she stfu. A nikka ain't trying to hear all that talking when he get home. While watching TV I'm getting slow head while sipping a drink. I was there to do what I do which was to slang the dikk, beat the p*ssy up and put her to bed then in her bathroom she got the towels and washrag laid out for me. When I'm dressed I'll give her a forehead kiss while she sleeping and leave. She wasn't mine to have but I do remember her to this day and the qualities she possessed and if the situation was different
Okay.
Like I said, any man who has had the best of me knows that it is truly the best. I love hard and will go above and beyond. However, if I’m not feeling “the love” or like he is willing to treat me as I treat him or how he would like to be treated then you get what you get.
If that’s makes me “ain’t shyt” or means I have a “hoe mentality” then I’m fine with that.
Breh. We simple as fukk. This is the cheat code but these females over complicate it. I'm saying just make a sandwich and get the fukk on and walk away to let that small gesture cook. That little gesture last all day and engrained in a nikka's head. With females its alot of work. You can never just do one thing and think you can go back to playing your game on Xbox. You might as well turn the game off breh because you got to massage their mental all day, catering, pruning, seeing about their well-being and nourishing their mind.
What you just said I don't believe you believe it yourself and it just something to say. You need to detox. You so filled with backed up shyt its evident. You need to unlearn, then re-learn, not just females but men too. Humans are creatures of comfort and will remain operating in ignorance because it's all they know and its comfortable.Okay.
Like I said, any man who has had the best of me knows that it is truly the best. I love hard and will go above and beyond. However, if I’m not feeling “the love” or like he is willing to treat me as I treat him or how he would like to be treated then you get what you get.
If that’s makes me “ain’t shyt” or means I have a “hoe mentality” then I’m fine with that.
I make osso bucco for 'folks', if folks = my man. Ngl, shyt be hitting.
yeah, that's one of those meals you only make for your S/O lol
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
What's wrong with cooking real food vs a sandwich?
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
Son.
First time i made it, we aint even have the appropriate pots and pans and shyt yet (had just moved in). But it was our first place, and i had (stupidly) told him i could cook anything he brought in, so i made it happen with them disposable pans, me and Google. 
But the way he looked at me, tho!
You doing too much...
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
I'm a homemaker, cooking is in the job description. I can't give this man no sandwich, not as hard as he work.
You a unicorn and not in the matrix. This don't apply to you
I can't give this man no sandwich, not as hard as he work.
HarlemHottie
Uptown Thoroughbred
You a unicorn and not in the matrix. This don't apply to you
Carry on then, sir. Preach that gospel.
What you just said I don't believe you believe it yourself and it just something to say. You need to detox. You so filled with backed up shyt its evident. You need to unlearn, then re-learn, not just females but men too. Humans are creatures of comfort and will remain operating in ignorance because it's all they know and its comfortable.
I appreciate your feedback and you may be right.
However, with all due respect, you are probably the last person up here that I would be and should be taking life advice from.
I appreciate your feedback and you may be right.
However, with all due respect, you are probably the last person up here that I would be and should be taking life advice from.
all good baby girl. The message no matter how, who or when its delivered is still the message