Ladies: Make your man a sandwich

[intruder]

So much push back over making the breh a sandwich just for giggles. Could you imagine asking those same women caring for you like...after you had surgery or something? She aint gonna make you no homemade soup, @skeetsinternal . She wont even make the canned shyt either. So when you find one who does these thing you need to appreciate her. Like my AA chick from CT. She just loves to cook and it don matter who you are to her she feeding your ass til you cant no more.
Now I miss her

 

[FLATOP]

Lol at "out the blue"

It should be at a set time every day. What kind of selfish women you dealing with

 

[ThaBronxBully]

I rather cook a hot meal. Sandwiches without the right type of meat and bread are bland as fukk

I Need My Sandwich On Thick Italian Or French Bread With Lettuce, Mayo, Oil & Vinegar

I Can't Eat No Sliced White Bread With Ham And Cheese Like I'm 10 Years Old On A Field Trip, Nah Fam I Refuse

 

[videogamestashbox.com]

I enjoy doing little things like this...IF he’s worth it.

If not, you better grab you a 4 for 4 on the way over.

How is catering to a man showing that I’m worth it?

Again...I enjoy giving and pleasing my partner. It’s one of my favorite parts of a relationship.

However, it’s very much give and take. I’m not about to be out here making sandwiches, cooking meals, bussin it open, and catering to someone who doesn’t go out of their way to do the same for me or show me that’s he worth me doing all of that for.


And you really think any REAL female is going to do those things for you without you reciprocating then you are delusional. Y’all really have a warped sense of reality.

If I’m giving it all away to just anyone then how does that make him special?

I guess I’m an “ain’t shyt bytch” then. Oh well.

1. If? WTF? ....why are you even with a guy who isn't "worth" it? Hell get a vibrator and call it a day.

2. It makes him special because of all the women passing by on the daily you are the one taking the time to do this for him. Are you making sandwiches for someone else also or something?



NOTE:
Maybe it's me being from the south or something but this complex some black women have around fixing food for a man is just bizarro world to me.
I can only assume it comes from black women internalizing white feminist talking points that have nothing to do with AA.

shyt like that 1950s stay at home wife shyt that was never the lived reality for the overwhelming majority of AAs.

White Women trying to get out the house while black women were always out the house .....even going back to Africa with women managing markets, building and selling pottery from scratch, medicine women, etc etc. The reality of African women has always been distinct. Some sisters still internalize this stupid idea that providing food is somehow demeaning house work or some nonsense thats actually residual talking points from white women. I've never heard any black women down here say dumb shyt like this(not to say there are non down here, but there are so few I never come across them). I mean a bruh out here doing yard work, auto repairs, feeding the pets, shoveling snow, trash duties, fixing broke shyt round the house, etc etc and yo bum ass can't make me a simple sandwich ....and again if he isn't doing that shyt why are yall together? Get a sex toy and call it a day

Why would you be around a dude that wasnt reciprocating in the first place?

I really dont understand this thought process

Thank you

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

1. If? WTF? ....why are you even with a guy who isn't "worth" it? Hell get a vibrator and call it a day.

2. It makes him special because of all the women passing by on the daily you are the one taking the time to do this for him. Are you making sandwiches for someone else also or something?



NOTE:
Maybe it's me being from the south or something but this complex some black women have around fixing food for a man is just bizarro world to me.
I can only assume it comes from black women internalizing white feminist talking points that have nothing to do with AA.

shyt like that 1950s stay at home wife shyt that was never the lived reality for the overwhelming majority of AAs.

White Women trying to get out the house while black women were always out the house .....even going back to Africa with women managing markets, building and selling pottery from scratch, medicine women, etc etc. The reality of African women has always been distinct. Some sisters still internalize this stupid idea that providing food is somehow demeaning house work or some nonsense thats actually residual talking points from white women. I've never heard any black women down here say dumb shyt like this(not to say there are non down here, but there are so few I never come across them). I mean a bruh out here doing yard work, auto repairs, feeding the pets, shoveling snow, trash duties, fixing broke shyt round the house, etc etc and yo bum ass can't make me a simple sandwich ....and again if he isn't doing that shyt why are yall together? Get a sex toy and call it a day








Thank you

*sigh*

Again, I have no problem fixing food for or catering to a GOOD man. I enjoy doing so.

However, I have dealt with more than a few undeserving ones therefore I learned that every man cannot and will not get that treatment.

End of story.


If I were a man explaining why I’m not out here paying every random female’s bills and being a simp then I’m sure it wouldn’t be that hard for y’all to understand.

 

[skeetsinternal]

*sigh*

Again, I have no problem fixing food for or catering to a GOOD man. I enjoy doing so.

However, I have dealt with more than a few undeserving ones therefore I learned that every man cannot and will not get that treatment.

End of story.


If I were a man explaining why I’m not out here paying every random female’s bills and being a simp then I’m sure it wouldn’t be that hard for y’all to understand.

I get it. I believe you thought all those randoms were potentially "good" men but they proved otherwise and each nikka that comes after the last nikka gets less and less from you. Those undeserving ones got that good treatment and catered to by you and they got what they wanted out of you. Understanding that no one owes you shyt might be the first thing you need to realize. Captain-save-a-hoe Simp nikkas exist and it seems as if thats the type of man you wish you had

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

I get it. I believe you thought all those randoms were potentially "good" men but they proved otherwise and each nikka that comes after the last nikka gets less and less from you. Those undeserving ones got that good treatment and catered to by you and they got what they wanted out of you. Understanding that no one owes you shyt might be the first thing you need to realize. Captain-save-a-hoe Simp nikkas exist and it seems as if thats the type of man you wish you had

The bolded is incorrect but close enough I guess.

 

[TripleAgent]

if i'm sucking some dudes penis it sounds like he should be the one making me the sandwich

If you suck a guy off, and he can immediately get up to make a sandwich, are you really sucking him right

 

[videogamestashbox.com]

*sigh*

Again, I have no problem fixing food for or catering to a GOOD man. I enjoy doing so.

However, I have dealt with more than a few undeserving ones therefore I learned that every man cannot and will not get that treatment.

End of story.


If I were a man explaining why I’m not out here paying every random female’s bills and being a simp then I’m sure it wouldn’t be that hard for y’all to understand.

1. We are not talking about "every man" we are talking about the one guy you choose to be "your man".
2. Sure wouldn't be hard to understand because I'm paying for the female I'm in a relationship with ...not "every random female"
(You seemingly putting the guy you are in a relationship with in the same bag as random mofos is telling)







Offtopic:
This is the reason T.I. won people.
He's protecting his daughter from the ends results of being damaged by bad relationships typified by this nonsense here.

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

1. We are not talking about "every man" we are talking about the one guy you choose to be "your man".
2. Sure wouldn't be hard to understand because I'm paying for the female I'm in a relationship with ...not "every random female"
(You seemingly putting the guy you are in a relationship with in the same bag as random mofos is telling)







Offtopic:
This is the reason T.I. won people.
He's protecting his daughter from the results of being damaged by bad relationships typified by this nonsense here.

It was never my understanding that this was in reference(exclusively) to someone I was in a relationship with. Context clues from my previous posts would easily read that if I’m in a serious relationship with a man then of course I’m fixing his plate, making sure he’s catered to, throwing my ass in a circle, and anything else I can do to make him feel like a king. We are exclusive and if I agreed to enter into that type of relationship with him then things are different.

Maybe I read the OP wrong or maybe not. It really doesn’t matter. Bottom line...point blank period...

If he’s my man..I’m going above and beyond..no doubt.

 

[xCivicx]

It was never my understanding that this was in reference(exclusively) to someone I was in a relationship with. Context clues from my previous posts would easily read that if I’m in a serious relationship with a man then of course I’m fixing his plate, making sure he’s catered to, throwing my ass in a circle, and anything else I can do to make him feel like a king. We are exclusive and if I agreed to enter into that type of relationship with him then things are different.

Maybe I read the OP wrong or maybe not. It really doesn’t matter. Bottom line...point blank period...

If he’s my man..I’m going above and beyond..no doubt.

The juelzing

 

[Boujee Bonita Braxton]

The juelzing

I’ve literally said the same thing 5 or 6 times.

Plus in order to back track... I’d have to give a fukk what anyone in here thinks which I can assure you.. I give zero.

 

[xCivicx]

I’ve literally said the same thing 5 or 6 times.

Plus in order to back track... I’d have to give a fukk what anyone in here thinks which I can assure you.. I give zero.

 

[HarlemHottie]

Harlem... sun, is just trying to explain the simplicity of a man....
Ofcourse any human being is going to love a hot home cooked, banging ass meal...

But if u just made a man a fukking bullshyt, cold cut sandwich, walk away, and leave him the fukk alone... that shyt is gonna carry a great deal of weight with him...

Do some shyt like that to ur homegirl that comes over ... see what happens

Make a sandwich for a random female? What should i be expecting to happen?

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

this is hard in my house cuz i dont eat bread (or at least i never buy it for the house). how about a lettuce wrap lol

#cleaneating