To be honest, the shyt I’ve seen some chicks say about training dudes is like a trillion times worse so sometimes I don’t judge.
At best it parallels a lot of the shyt females say about dudes too. People talking from a place of pain.
If everybody saying the same shyt it’s hard to be incensed. Hurt people hurt people. I will occasionally try to inject some common sense into the mix if I can be bothered to, but a dude who ain’t had a sniff of p*ssy or been loved by a quality woman, ain’t tryin to hear about nuance, anymore than a chick that’s been hurt or used by a dude is.
Also, some of the behaviors of the most vitriolic posters are consistent with the behaviors of people I’ve worked with who have some emotional/social deficits. I’ve turned down a lot on this site lately b/c I realize that winning an argument against somebody in the social Special Olympics ain’t really a victory.
Beyond that some dudes just want female attention and many will resort to mimicking a$$hole behavior to get it. If the function of the behavior is female attention, you shouldn’t reinforce it by having back and forths with them. It can be a challenge for me b/c I got a slick ass mouth. But In general, I think more positive discussion goes further than the “bytch shut up, no u shut up”
cypher.
But some are also drama driven and view arguing and dysfunction as normative social interaction. So u have to navigate around those too.
However overall, I think majority of posters here ain’t on that dumb shyt to be honest.
well said
