Ladies, please understand this... TIMING is a huge factor

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Sometimes when we dont holler or make a move it doesnt mean we're not at all interested. It may just be that... you know..we have a situation and we're not ready to pursue you.
No need to give a breh dirty looks :yeshrug:

Something happened between me and a young lady who's a core member of my friends circle. Shes one of my friends best friends. I wouldnt call her MY friend but we're friends to the point where we known each other for years and have been to each other's homes for parties before but we've never had any one-on-one time.

So a few months ago (August) we ran into each other at a club. We hung out and had a great time together. We were both intoxicated and at some point we had.. a moment.. where there was some grabbing and touching going on. Afterwards i drove her home (she had taken Uber to get there) and we were alone for a brief minute but she was expecting some of our friends over. We didnt do anything but we probably would have if some of our friends didnt suddenly show up killing the whole thing.

Thing is ive always liked her from a far. But never thought I even had a shot so i never bothered to even try to holler. (i know i shouldnt think like that) Plus she was dating someone at the time. And I happen to be cool with homie too now. Thats the TIMING part.
The other thing is ive been kicking it with my ex lately and im not sure where thats going. She met my ex. Even asked if we were getting back together once (before the "incident"). Again, TIMING.

So the other day we ran into each other again with our group of friends. And i get the "side eye" like

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Granted she was friendly after that but... just saying
 
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don't you hate when things get awkward like that........like oy vey coulda woulda shoulda situation atleast you don't work with her
 

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If she's got a man and she's tripping over that, then she's just a shytty individual, has nothing to do with being a lady. That's the type of girl you want to date OP? :ld:

Edit: Nevermind I saw that she was dating someone BEFORE and that's why you didn't holla. Still sounds like she's tripping over nothing.
 

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@Intruder v3.0

you my heat doggie and all but truth be told there's too many 7,8,9s, and 10s in the A (Atl) to be going in and catching feelings over one chick.

and never entertain the thought messing with one running dude's girl/s. that's extra foul.

are you trying to pick one to settle down with?
 

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@Intruder v3.0

you my heat doggie and all but truth be told there's too many 7,8,9s, and 10s in the A (Atl) to be going in and catching feelings over one chick.

and never entertain the thought messing with one running dude's girl/s. that's extra foul.

are you trying to pick one to settle down with?
Shes definitely settling down material.

Like most brehs in the ATL i have a little stable on tap. :manny:

My stable's usual rotation is about 4 deep in town. A few alternates here and there. The ones that live in other states and other countries dont really count since i dont see/fukk with them that often but they still hold a spot in my heart :wub:
I've always admired her from afar but again i never even considered it since i didnt think i even had a shot. Especially because i always felt she avoided me like the plague when it comes to one-on-one interaction. Like i noticed that she normally wouldnt stick around if she and i were on the balcony alone together. That was until that day in the club.
 
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