I don't think it's necessarily being an "a$$hole", I just think some men are programmed to think that "once I get a good job, career and I'm making money, women will come flocking", when this is not true.

Career men are programmed to think of life this way. They think "well, I paid my dues in school and/or worked my way up in a career being patient and diligent and it paid off" and they think its the same way with women. But it's not always true. Why would you want someone who wouldn't be by your side if you were broke anyway? That is just horrible. There is no secret success level or even type of look that will have women throwing p*ssy at you. Broke nikkas and bad boys know this. It's all about taking charge and being assertive and successful in your approach with women. Yeah, you probably will get rejected a hundred times before getting some unless you are a known celebrity like Chris Brown or something. And what's ironic is that my broke homies riding the bus and pulling prime women in their early 20's in college.

College aged females without all the baggage of bad relationships, kids and monetary expectations that women develop in the matter of a few short years. Women get their shyt together quick. My broke homies aren't hollering at the independent 27 year olds with the Master's Degree and a house on the hill. But men don't care about that shyt anyway. If a female is bad like that, we don't care of she works at Wendy's.