Ladies: So my boy's been dealing with this chik for about 3 months and....

[Elle Driver]

And what does that have to do with her and him? Maybe she's waiting because she has a kid and sex tends to complicates things?

So why date someone then and bring them around your children at all? I mean you're dating someone anyway, as long as you're not having sex around your child, what the fukk is the difference? And shouldn't your first priority be your child anyway?

 

[Mike Ock]

Why though? You think all single mothers are easy.

Why does it have to be considered "easy" if less than 3 months. Why can't it just be something that two adults both want, and take pre-caution by using protection.

 

[Lana Kane]

So why date someone then and bring them around your children at all? I mean you're dating someone anyway, as long as you're not having sex around your child, what the fukk is the difference? And shouldn't your first priority be your child anyway?

 

[Rawtid]

Why does it have to be considered "easy" if less than 3 months. Why can't it just be something that two adults both want, and take pre-caution by using protection.

Three months isn't really a long time. Not long enough to be comfortable with someone sexually especially if you want to get tested before you start having sex.

 

[Elle Driver]

The 90 day rule is beyond idiotic. I can't believe people are out here waiting 90 days as if that shyt even makes a difference.

 

[Diondon]

Three months isn't really a long time. Not long enough to be comfortable with someone sexually especially if you want to get tested before you start having sex.

That's 90 days. If you see each other every other day, that's 45 dates.

 

[Rawtid]

That's 90 days. If you see each other every other day, that's 45 dates.

That's only 25% of the year. What if someone told you the split was 75:25 and you had the most to lose. You'd be like "fukk that". Women view sex differently...we have emotions and shyt behind it. Some of us anyway.

 

[Diondon]

That's only 25% of the year. What if someone told you the split was 75:25 and you had the most to lose. You'd be like "fukk that". Women view sex differently...we have emotions and shyt behind it. Some of us anyway.

You need 90 days to realize you like a guy? What about the built up sexual tension?

 

[Mike Ock]

Three months isn't really a long time. Not long enough to be comfortable with someone sexually especially if you want to get tested before you start having sex.

No matter how you flip it, it's long for the first sexual encounter. It's almost a whole football season for god's sake.

 

[Rawtid]

You need 90 days to realize you like a guy? What about the built up sexual tension?

You can like someone and not have sex with them. Built up sexual tension? Masturbate. Why get sexually involved with someone before necessary? For some women, 3 months may be too long...shyt two dates might be too long but as for me I don't see 3 months being a long time.

 

[Lana Kane]

No matter how you flip it, it's long for the first sexual encounter. It's almost a whole football season for god's sake.

So? Does it bug you your friend is actually interested in someone besides the sexual factor? Has he complained about this being a long time?

 

[Remote]

Looks like this thread morphed into men deciding when women should be comfortable giving up the puzzy.

 

[Diondon]

You can like someone and not have sex with them. Built up sexual tension? Masturbate. Why get sexually involved with someone before necessary? For some women, 3 months may be too long...shyt two dates might be too long but as for me I don't see 3 months being a long time.

We'll agree to disagree. I don't believe in setting arbitrary deadlines on something natural as sexual chemistry.

 

[Lana Kane]

Looks like this thread morphed into men deciding when women should be comfortable giving up the puzzy.

I bet if she busted it open within the first week or so, they would be shytting on her. I just don't understand lmao.

 

[Mike Ock]

So? Does it bug you your friend is actually interested in someone besides the sexual factor? Has he complained about this being a long time?

From what he mentions, she seems like a headache. And for like almost the last month when he mentions seeing her, he says it will be the night that he smashes.

Wait a minute...You Jamaican?...in Brooklyn?...