not a female but for real? just mix things up a lot, hard, slow and passionate, go down lick the pearl, sting ya fingahs in that puss while you lick the clit, from the back, have her ride you, all the while playing with the clitoris. foreplay too...kiss, go for the neck, mingle at the breasts and kiss them and hold them, kiss down her stomache, lick around her inner thighs and slowly make your way to the clit breh. kiss it lightly...pull away..barely touch it, then go hame for a minute, lick all the way up her stomache, she starts sucking your dikk, then you give the pearl a lil rubbing and you're good to penetrate.
all girls like different shyt, hitting it from the back and holding her head down by her neck (not choking just firmly grasping) gets a lot of girls off...but the above with give any girl a great orgasm don't know about best they've had.