never allow a woman to define to you what a "gentleman" should be. never allow a woman to tell you how you should act. you should never act according to what she says just like you shouldn't necessarily according to what's convenient. Only act according to your principle.
if you notice, when women tell you how to act like a gentleman, it always happens to be convenient for them. don't be a sucker fellas. don't fall for the okey-doke. Don't allow them to domesticate you. how is a woman gonna tell you how a man should act? Don't let them shame you into being a certain way.