Ladies, what are your biggest turn offs?

[Colicat]

1) Inconsistent/ not a man of his word (says he will be there but turns up mia, says he will do something but doesn't)
2) Lying
3) Promiscuity
4) Angry (disrespectful, goes from 0-100 over the smallest things, condescending)
5) Ego/Braggadocios

In that order....
Character flaws turn me off more than physical ones....

If your character is on point, I can adjust to a physical "flaw"...no one is perfect

 

[DarlingNikki]

there's a snitch button where a mod can clean it up

@InDePickWest

 

[InDePickWest]

Because they're all of those guys. Or the disgruntled, 40 year old, acne ridden virgin. Scust.

Their mothers were in that position and did not leave, thus them believing as young boys that it is better for a woman to be in a relationship with just any guy than to be happy and alone. ALOT of women I know are with cheating husbands, and abusive husbands. I'd rather be single than subject themselves and they know damn well they'd rather their sisters to be single than to be with a guy like that, they just in here typing just to act up.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

Alright, I'm just trying to say that being a good conversationalist does not imply it is easier to get to know someone.

Whatever.

I said being quiet makes it harder and it does. A bad conversationalist does not automatically mean you're a quiet person.

 

[Guile]

I said being quiet makes it harder and it does. A bad conversationalist does not automatically mean you're a quiet person.

I'm saying that how much you talk or don't talk does not decide how easy it is for someone to get to know you.

 

[Box Cutta]

1. Smoker

2. Dirty nails

3. Can't carry on a conversation

4. Jewellery

5. Piercings

6. Rude to service industry people

7. Saggy pants

8. Talks rubbish about other people

9. Has no life plans to talk about

10. Makes up


And of course the creepy, over complimentary, apologetic about everything, makes me think I'm going to make him cry guy and the sexual commentary, disrespectful, I think I am oh so good looking, I know you want this guy

Could probably think of 50 more

I'm perfect for you.

 

[Chelsea Bridge]

I'm saying that how much you talk or don't talk does not decide how easy it is for someone to get to know you.

In my experience, it does.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

How do you guys say we're too picky but when we settle for what we can get you guys say we're easy? Lol. Let us live. We have both sexism and racism against us, not our own sons and husbands too.

 

[MikelArteta]

ima clean up this thread


just let the women eat y'all

 

[BocaRear]

If ya'll really turned off by all this, then who's out here fukking all these ugly ass nikkas?

 

[Mac Brown]

Don't be negative

He's right though.....

When you simply do the math on men to women, then calculate old vs young... gay & straight... economics/class....location.


Its not possible.

 

[ThaRealness]

I was gonna be the guy to catch feelings but its already been done

On the real though Im way too unkempt

 

[swimmingpools]

I agree with so many in here but to add on

• Guys that dont like to try anything new or outside of their comfort level.
• Nasty/poor hygiene
• Absolutely no opinion on anything unless it deals with money, hoes, and cars. I like a man with his own mind, even if I dont agree with his view.
• Text only form of communication
• If they treat their mom or sisters poorly

 

[Colicat]

I agree with so many in here but to add on

• Guys that dont like to try anything new or outside of their comfort level.
• Nasty/poor hygiene
• Absolutely no opinion on anything unless it deals with money, hoes, and cars. I like a man with his own mind, even if I dont agree with his view.
• Text only form of communication
• If they treat their mom or sisters poorly

This!..... I deaded a dude for trying to text to get to know me....

I told him to call when he was free instead of text.... but he still texted me trying to have a conversation.

If you have time to text all night, you have time to speak to me or spend with me...

spending time >spending energy texting....

 

[Broad Street Bully]

This!..... I deaded a dude for trying to text to get to know me....

I told him to call when he was free instead of text.... but he still texted me trying to have a conversation.

If you have time to text all night, you have time to speak to me or spend with me...

spending time >spending energy texting....

i used to be like that in my former life. some nikkas like to have that ability to think of the next thing their gonna say rather than have that awk ass silence that only consists of "sooooo....". i only just started to enjoy phone convos.