Ladies, what are your biggest turn offs?

[Colicat]

i used to be like that in my former life. some nikkas like to have that ability to think of the next thing their gonna say rather than have that awk ass silence that only consists of "sooooo....". i only just started to enjoy phone convos.

I understand that but finding out if we have awkward silence is a necessary evil.... I need to understand if we truly mesh or not....

For me, texting is only for arranging meet-ups until we get to know each other...

Friends & fam can text conversations... I know where they are coming from... New boo?.... Nawl we gotta converse in these streets...

 

[ryshy]

negged

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Too damn picky

someones insecure

 

[The5thLetter]

I agree with so many in here but to add on

• Guys that dont like to try anything new or outside of their comfort level.
• Nasty/poor hygiene
• Absolutely no opinion on anything unless it deals with money, hoes, and cars. I like a man with his own mind, even if I dont agree with his view.
• Text only form of communication
• If they treat their mom or sisters poorly

I hear you on all of the above. I dated a dude years ago that didn't even wanna leave the hood and do things I liked cuz it was "white ppl shyt" so I curved him for good, then years later he wanted to do all the things I wanted, and had been doing w/ other guys so needless to say it was too late.

 

[BatWoman]

Lazy

Rude

Lack of ambition

DISRESPECTFUL

Selfish.

A liar

 

[TommyHilltrigga]

Dudes actually gettin salty...women cant have turn offs now?...its not like their was any name droppin either...must have hit close to home

 

[BatWoman]

Dudes actually gettin salty...women cant have turn offs now?...its not like their was any name droppin either...must have hit close to home

Hit dogs will holla

 

[GoPro]

Dudes actually gettin salty...women cant have turn offs now?...its not like their was any name droppin either...must have hit close to home

Negged

 

[Deafheaven]

This!..... I deaded a dude for trying to text to get to know me....

I told him to call when he was free instead of text.... but he still texted me trying to have a conversation.

If you have time to text all night, you have time to speak to me or spend with me...

spending time >spending energy texting....

dude obvious wasn't serious about getting with you. What grown ass man still wants to text into the wee hours of the morn. I text a girl like 5 times max a week and they usually either consist of a greeting or a "are you free some time this week..."

fukk all that trying to be clever and cute through words shyt, you can do that in person.

 

[Eastside Get The Money]

2.Lack of traditional gentlemen manners (Doesn't hold doors for me, doesn't make me feel protected).

3. Feminine Men (Men who have a d*ck that bleeds once a month, needy,overly sensitive,asks for money, attention whorey, frightens easily,etc).I would like for my man to be a tough cookie.Rough on the edges & only soft in the middle.

Where did this thug gentlement type you females desire so much come from

Spoiler

You know they don't exist right

 

[KinksandCoils]

1. Rude/disrespectful
2. Mean
3. Can't hold a conversation
4. No sense of humor
5. Thinks he shouldn't have to cook or clean
6. Has no goals
7. Wants to be a thug
8. Atheist
9. Doesn't know how to be a gentlemen
10. Unkempt looking
11. Lazy

 

[Deafheaven]

Where did this thug gentlement type you females desire so much come from

Spoiler

You know they don't exist right

a rough and tumble ass gentleman lol. come on son.

 

[Colicat]

dude obvious wasn't serious about getting with you. What grown ass man still wants to text into the wee hours of the morn. I text a girl like 5 times max a week and they usually either consist of a greeting or a "are you free some time this week..."

fukk all that trying to be clever and cute through words shyt, you can do that in person.

All the more reason to toss him.... glad I listened to my instincts...

 

[Deafheaven]

All the more reason to toss him.... glad I listened to my instincts...

Seriously in this day and age, a man who is not willing to show some type of speed with intimacy is probably just not really all that good with women. What sounds more attractive, a go getter ready to whisk you away at a moments notice or some nikka who takes 5 dates to somehow convince you to like him.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

@WHIPPEDCream

How are you going to Diddy me after negging me?

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

How are you going to Diddy me after negging me?

duhhh Im bipolar ....marry me baby girl (even though I have know clue how you look)