Ladies, what are your biggest turn offs?

[Colicat]

Seriously in this day and age, a man who is not willing to show some type of speed with intimacy is probably just not really all that good with women. What sounds more attractive, a go getter ready to whisk you away at a moments notice or some nikka who takes 5 dates to somehow convince you to like him.

How about a dude who just tries? Just try to get to know me and put in some effort.

What is your idea of dating and getting to know someone?

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

ain't nobody holding no doors for y'all scandalous females.

wifey will get that treatment of course but not no random girls fukk outta here with that Shakespeare shyt

Lol, that girl that becomes "wifey," starts out as a random girl.So you will randomly start holding the door open for her when she becomes your girlfriend?

My door will be opened for me.I can tell a lot about a guy from little things.I recently went on a date to the movies & the guy I was with told me to sit on the inside so if anything happens he could protect me.From that alone, I can tell he was taught how to treat women, which is a quality that I look for.

 

[Deafheaven]

How about a dude who just tries? Just try to get to know me and put in some effort.

What is your idea of dating and getting to know someone?

You say that but the dude you deaded was trying to get to know you through text...why you dead him? by your own volition because he didn't want to hook up in public I.E. moving slow as hell. When I want to get to know a girl it only usually takes a date or two get where her mind is at and where we can go together since I know what questions to ask. I'm 24, I don't beat around the bush anymore. It doesn't take 9 dates for you to get a lead on a man/woman so I don't see the need in prolonging things in that fashion.

I'm in college first off. Secondly I think its a waste of time wining and dining every random girl you are interested in. go out on a few simple simple dates and feel each other out. After that if shes not trying to come kick it with me at the spot I'm really less inclined to mess with her being completely honest. I move fast because I've learned over the years I've lost copious amounts of puss just from not being quick enough getting the ball rolling. I'm not on some "you gotta fukk me now or get out my face" type shyt but if you offer nothing more than your aesthetic beauty why should I offer any more of my time than needed (not saying thats all you have to offer btw). If there is no sexual spark in the first several get togethers whats the point? Attraction has an expiration date, if it doesn't happen early I find it hard to believe anything will change with time.

I know I probably have some controversial thoughts on this but As long we being civil I have no problem sharing.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

Where did this thug gentlement type you females desire so much come from

Spoiler

You know they don't exist right

I don't want a thug just someone who is not feminine.I'm supposed to be the feminine,girly one.

 

[SubLyminalz]

Lol, that girl that becomes "wifey," starts out as a random girl.So you will randomly start holding the door open for her when she becomes your girlfriend?

My door will be opened for me.I can tell a lot about a guy from little things.I recently went on a date to the movies & the guy I was with told me to sit on the inside so if anything happens he could protect me.From that alone, I can tell he was taught how to treat women, which is a quality that I look for.

im not holding the door for any chick besides my mother or unless i marry her

 

[Deafheaven]

I don't want a thug just someone who is not feminine.I'm supposed to be the feminine,girly one.

I take exquisite care of myself as far as fashion and such goes. Hell I even tweeze my brows

but I also hit the weight room everyday and could and would beat most nikkas asses around my size with little effort. Are you just saying the metrosexual nikkas can't get no love

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

duhhh Im bipolar ....marry me baby girl (even though I have know clue how you look)

Bipolar you say? I plan on being a therapist. I would be dealing with the psychosis at work,I don't know if I want to come home to that,lol.

 

[Akata Man Bromo]

Bipolar you say? I plan on being a therapist. I would be dealing with the psychosis at work,I don't know if I want to come home to that,lol.

fukk you then Eat a thousand dikks Aint no "lol" Your birth certificate should serve as the national apology for condoms and birth control you harlot #tpc @bdizzle

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

im not holding the door for any chick besides my mother or unless i marry her

Then:

I take exquisite care of myself as far as fashion and such goes. Hell I even tweeze my brows

but I also hit the weight room everyday and could and would beat most nikkas asses around my size with little effort. Are you just saying the metrosexual nikkas can't get no love

Taking care of yourself is fine,I'm into fashion myself so if the guy I'm with loves it to we can hit the mall and throw things in the bag together.

But the last guy I "talked," too was so feminine.He told me it took him an hour to get ready on a daily basis. I was thinking what chu' mean.That's like the default time it takes a girl to get ready.& He would constantly ask me if I like his outfit.He scarred me for life,lol.Ever since him, feminine guys disgusts me.

 

[WHIPPEDCream]

fukk you then Eat a thousand dikks Aint no "lol" Your birth certificate should serve as the national apology for condoms and birth control you harlot #tpc @bdizzle

 

[DrX]

women dont know what they want.....but ill tell u



they want somebody that can provide

 

[Deafheaven]

Then:

Taking care of yourself is fine,I'm into fashion myself so if the guy I'm with loves it to we can hit the mall and throw things in the bag together.

But the last guy I "talked," too was so feminine.He told me it took him an hour to get ready on a daily basis. I was thinking what chu' mean.That's like the default time it takes a girl to get ready.& He would constantly ask me if I like his outfit.He scarred me for life,lol.Ever since him, feminine guys disgusts me.

Naw thats incredibly extra what that dude doing. I take a max of 10 minutes not counting shower before I'm out the crib. Wash ya face, grab ya fit, put the smell goods on and you set...what the hell a man have to do for an hour to get ready lmfao. TBH after I see a girl shape first thing I'm checking for is her fashion sense, I can't have a chick around me in public not on my level in that lane. Looks silly.

I got a female friend I dated a few years back I clown with that I look better than her when she wingman at the club for me and shyt but to display such blatant soufness in a girl you are supposedly interested in? where are the fathers? Like I've had girls tell me im "pretty" or whatever but I can't recall a point in my 24 years on this earth I've been called feminine.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

i used to be like that in my former life. some nikkas like to have that ability to think of the next thing their gonna say rather than have that awk ass silence that only consists of "sooooo....". i only just started to enjoy phone convos.

Using a phone to communicate(whether talk or text) is corny to me.Texting/ talking on the phone is cool if it's abbreviated, but goofs who wanna yap/text all night give me a headache.Talking on the phone literally make my ears ache.

I'd rather just meet you somewhere where we could talk in person.If not, so be it..I'll chat it up with you the next time I see you.Absence makes the heart grow fonder.

I had to abort a potential love afair because of that phone shyt.I met this chick who I thought was cool and I was sorta open to, but during the initial phase of getting to know one another, she made a statement how she was "Old school" and loved having "LONG CONVERSATIONS ON THE PHONE ALL NIGHT LONG"

Needless to say, I felt the spirit of the rising up in me.shyt fizzled out and died right there

 

[ChiefQueen]

1. Way into himself
2. an attention whore
3. doesn't treat women with respect
4. doesn't respect his mother
5. long nails (gagging at the thought of this right now)
6. short
7. has small hands
7. no ambition
8. jobless
9. doesn't want a commitment
10. has bad teeth
11. wants me to call him daddy
12. liar
13. story telling ass lame
14. doesn't work out

My list can go on.

 

[thoushallhustle]

you nikkas in here telling women theyre going to be single for requiring basic shyt like good hygiene and a job???