Ladies, what are your thoughts on "nice girls"?

[Space Cowboy]

I feel bad sharing this shyt.

But, I like a woman that's a bit of a challenge. Not in a aggressive yelling at me way. But a woman that's harder for me to get, but not impossible. Lately, after a lot of hard work, my masculine energy is off the charts. I carry with myself the confidence that I can attract any woman that I want, and if she doesn't like me, she don't know what she's missing. An attitude like that attracts women to me and I'm finding seducing women to be...a bit easy these days. I've been looking for a wife and I just feel like a woman that I can easily seduce might not be worth pursuing. I'm caught in a loop. I actually think I understand the dilemma women face better now: many women can attract men just walking out their door, but that doesn't mean all of those men are worth keeping. I've been pursuing a sister and she's such a challenge, and it's fun to flirt with her. She has a good poker face but I know I get through to her even though she doesn't like to show it. I find that so endearing and cute. It has me hooked. She's not mean at all either. She's just not nice. She doesn't "play" hard to get. She is hard to get.

On the contrary, I just ended things with a "nice girl". She was a good woman, on paper. Religious, modest, proper but she was available at any time I contacted her. I'd send a text and she would respond within 5 minutes even though she barely knew me. Always. It was like I revolved around her. She did stalker-ish shyt openly. She told me not to talk to other women just after a few weeks and that's when I ended it. She had low self esteem and would say things like,"I'm not as smart as you..." and stuff and it was such a turn off. It felt like groveling at my feet to get a chance with me. I keep running into women like this, where I can attract a woman with ease and here she comes kissing my ass. It made me realize why women abhor "nice guys". I mean, I understood in the abstract but didn't really experience it firsthand. Nice Girls turn me off and for whatever reason that makes me feel bad admitting.

But that one woman that's a challenge? I'm on her mom's good side. Her mom loves me. I pursue her and it's like I'm invigorated in the way Allah made a man to be. It feels so Holy and divine.

What are your thoughts on this ladies? I've been diving into YouTube to explore women's perspectives on this. I've seen women have written female dating books like Women Love bytches and women even have their own "No More Ms. Nice Girl" thing going. This dude in particular has a market on ending the nice girl life style.



There's multiple videos on this subject and it's fascinating to analyze.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Ah to be young and dumb.

I used to be just like you.

I wanted a woman who would give me a challenge. I would speak proudly about having a dominant personality and how I need a woman who will stand up to me.

I would talk about how I loved how black women were strong compared to white women and how I would never look outside of black women cause I need a woman that brings that type of energy.










































I was a damn fool.

Give me that soft demure woman. I'm done with loudmouth women who always want to argue under the guise of giving me a "challenge".

At this point in my life, I need a woman who trusts me more than she trusts anybody in her life besides God Himself.

I need a woman who is available when I want her to be, who does what I tell her to do and who is truly a help meet.

I dont want a slave!

But as a black man, I have to face down enemies every time I step out the door. I shouldn't have to deal with that mess in my house.

She has to be intelligent. If she thinks I'm wrong on something, she should tell me respectfully. But then trust that I will weigh what she's saying and then I'm making the final decision for us.

If she ain't as smart as me, that's fine because guess what? I will go hard to put my lady on game.

Like TI said in "just like me": I can make her better.


That's my job as a man. To uplift, cherish, protect and teach my woman.

But you can't do that if she feels like she knows better and won't listen to nothing you have to say.

I've been on both sides of what you're talking about, bro, and I'm here to tell you... go get that soft girl back.

You dont want these nasty manbearpigs that are running these streets. trust me!

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

Nothing you described about that woman gives “nice girl”
Clothes she wears, church, calling back in 5 minutes….
No wonder y’all be getting played and turn wannabe tough guy, with ptsd based masochism

 

[Space Cowboy]

Ah to be young and dumb.

I used to be just like you.

I wanted a woman who would give me a challenge. I would speak proudly about having a dominant personality and how I need a woman who will stand up to me.

I would talk about how I loved how black women were strong compared to white women and how I would never look outside of black women cause I need a woman that brings that type of energy.










































I was a damn fool.

Give me that soft demure woman. I'm done with loudmouth women who always want to argue under the guise of giving me a "challenge".

At this point in my life, I need a woman who trusts me more than she trusts anybody in her life besides God Himself.

I need a woman who is available when I want her to be, who does what I tell her to do and who is truly a help meet.

I dont want a slave!

But as a black man, I have to face down enemies every time I step out the door. I shouldn't have to deal with that mess in my house.

She has to be intelligent. If she thinks I'm wrong on something, she should tell me respectfully. But then trust that I will weigh what she's saying and then I'm making the final decision for us.

If she ain't as smart as me, that's fine because guess what? I will go hard to put my lady on game.

Like TI said in "just like me": I can make her better.


That's my job as a man. To uplift, cherish, protect and teach my woman.

But you can't do that if she feels like she knows better and won't listen to nothing you have to say.

I've been on both sides of what you're talking about, bro, and I'm here to tell you... go get that soft girl back.

You dont want these nasty manbearpigs that are running these streets. trust me!

You're the dumb one as you clearly can't read. When I said challenging I literally said not necessarily loud or belligerent. I also said nothing about black women or white women. That's a you problem. I personally only go for black women. I like a soft woman but if a woman likes me too much too soon I get alarm signals and that happens way too often. Got women trying to lock me down within a matter of weeks. Nope. You took all that I wrote, looked at it through a lens or myopia, write all that bullshyt, and concluded I like difficult women. That ain't what I said. You dumb as hell. A man with means and a man with abundance knows to be wary of any woman that tries to squirrel her way into your life especially if you as a man haven't necessarily earned it. Only a man feasting on scrape goes for a low value women that says wack shyt like,"you're smarter than me" and talks down to herself and does some sucker shyt. She could very well cheat on you in the future since she's so easy and insecure.

Black women are fine. They're pretty easy to tame. Women are women. They just need some love and patience. Give em that seductive talk, walk back to give space, come back with seductive talk, walk back, be persistent, consistent, but show you don't need ol girl. Her masculine energy will crumble.

Nothing you described about that woman gives “nice girl”
Clothes she wears, church, calling back in 5 minutes….

No wonder y’all be getting played and turn wannabe tough guy, with ptsd based masochism

What about it isn't a nice girl?

Overly available.
Low self esteem.
Bad self talk.
Acts like she isn't good enough for me.
Questionable stalker esque behavior.
Tried to weasel her way into a relationship trying to guilt trip me about other women.
Insecurity.
Only knew her for two to three weeks and she acted like she found her husband.

All of that compliments the definition of a nice guy. Which is definitely a "nice girl".

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

What about it isn't a nice girl?

Overly available.
Low self esteem.
Bad self talk.
Acts like she isn't good enough for me.
Questionable stalker esque behavior.
Tried to weasel her way into a relationship trying to guilt trip me about other women.
Insecurity.
Only knew her for two to three weeks and she acted like she found her husband.

All of that compliments the definition of a nice guy. Which is definitely a "nice girl".

Bro none of that is “nice”, she sounds like a psychologically disturbed person

When I think of nice I think of someone who doesn’t have hurtful ways whether physically, gossipy, jealousy, etc.
also someone who goes out of their way with genuine kindness, not “I want this guy to give me relationship benefits so I’m going to act like a pick me”. That’s a level of manipulation if you ask me but people tend to turn a blind eye to fake shyt if it’s in their favor

 

[Space Cowboy]

Bro none of that is “nice”, she sounds like a psychologically disturbed person

When I think of nice I think of someone who doesn’t have hurtful ways whether physically, gossipy, jealousy, etc.
also someone who goes out of their way with genuine kindness, not “I want this guy to give me relationship benefits so I’m going to act like a pick me”

I used quotations or scare quotes for "nice girl" for a reason. It's just like "nice guy". I provided multiple videos about the topic. It doesn't mean they're actually nice. Often "nice girls" and "nice guys" are duplicitous and snake like and try to manipulate to get what they want which is the opposite of nice, hence the scare quotes. Watch the videos. It doesn't mean literally nice.

You've never heard the term "nice guy"? Where the fukk you been? It's the same shyt but with a woman.

Urban Dictionary: Nice Guy

Nice Guy: [Nice Guy]: Not to be confused with a [nice guy] (that is, a male that is nice)- When used as a noun instead of an adjective, Nice Guy refers to...

www.urbandictionary.com

Urban Dictionary: Nice Girl

Nice Girl: A girl who believes she's the best choice for a girlfriend. She doesn't understand why guys only go for

www.urbandictionary.com

 

[bourgeoisie tall freak]

I used quotations or scare quotes for "nice girl" for a reason. It's just like "nice guy". I provided multiple videos about the topic. It doesn't mean they're actually nice. Often "nice girls" and "nice guys" are duplicitous and snake like and try to manipulate to get what they want which is the opposite of nice, hence the scare quotes. Watch the videos. It doesn't mean literally nice.

You've never heard the term "nice guy"? Where the fukk you been? It's the same shyt but with a woman.

Urban Dictionary: Nice Guy

Nice Guy: [Nice Guy]: Not to be confused with a [nice guy] (that is, a male that is nice)- When used as a noun instead of an adjective, Nice Guy refers to...

www.urbandictionary.com

Urban Dictionary: Nice Girl

Nice Girl: A girl who believes she's the best choice for a girlfriend. She doesn't understand why guys only go for

www.urbandictionary.com

Oh ok, I’m working now so I didn’t watch the videos so I’ll have to do that. But it sounds like we may be on the same page.

But I’ll say right now that I do like nice guys, based on the definition I gave you earlier

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

You're the dumb one as you clearly can't read. When I said challenging I literally said not necessarily loud or belligerent. I also said nothing about black women or white women. That's a you problem. I personally only go for black women. I like a soft woman but if a woman likes me too much too soon I get alarm signals and that happens way too often. Got women trying to lock me down within a matter of weeks. Nope. You took all that I wrote, looked at it through a lens or myopia, write all that bullshyt, and concluded I like difficult women. That ain't what I said. You dumb as hell. A man with means and a man with abundance knows to be wary of any woman that tries to squirrel her way into your life especially if you as a man haven't necessarily earned it. Only a man feasting on scrape goes for a low value women that says wack shyt like,"you're smarter than me" and talks down to herself and does some sucker shyt. She could very well cheat on you in the future since she's so easy and insecure.

Black women are fine. They're pretty easy to tame. Women are women. They just need some love and patience. Give em that seductive talk, walk back to give space, come back with seductive talk, walk back, be persistent, consistent, but show you don't need ol girl. Her masculine energy will crumble.


What about it isn't a nice girl?

Overly available.
Low self esteem.
Bad self talk.
Acts like she isn't good enough for me.
Questionable stalker esque behavior.
Tried to weasel her way into a relationship trying to guilt trip me about other women.
Insecurity.
Only knew her for two to three weeks and she acted like she found her husband.

All of that compliments the definition of a nice guy. Which is definitely a "nice girl".

Welcome to the coli. You won't be here long

 

[Ya Sinning Mane]

its like 4 women on here breh.
shoulda tagged them or ask someone to


@YaThreadFloppedB!
@YaThreadTrashB!

 

[V Skyye]

You broke up with the “nice girl” because she’s emotionally needy and using your relationship to fill the void. She has low self esteem. You are attracted to the “mean girl” because she seems emotionally healthy with proper boundaries. Positive people who feel good about themselves are attractive to others.

The books you referenced are not about being nice and mean, per se, but more about boundaries and weeding out men with genuine interest from men who only call when they’re bored.

 

[Space Cowboy]

Welcome to the coli. You won't be here long

What I do wrong, breh?

its like 4 women on here breh.
shoulda tagged them or ask someone to


@YaThreadFloppedB!
@YaThreadTrashB!

Thanks my G.

 

[⠀X ⠀]

So The Salon is just full of ni66as?

Where the ladies at?

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

So The Salon is just full of ni66as?

Where the ladies at?

I normally don't come in here, but the thread title caught my eye.

As far as the ladies, they'd much rather post with the fellas than to post among themselves

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Ah to be young and dumb.

I used to be just like you.

I wanted a woman who would give me a challenge. I would speak proudly about having a dominant personality and how I need a woman who will stand up to me.

I would talk about how I loved how black women were strong compared to white women and how I would never look outside of black women cause I need a woman that brings that type of energy.










































I was a damn fool.

Give me that soft demure woman. I'm done with loudmouth women who always want to argue under the guise of giving me a "challenge".

At this point in my life, I need a woman who trusts me more than she trusts anybody in her life besides God Himself.

I need a woman who is available when I want her to be, who does what I tell her to do and who is truly a help meet.

I dont want a slave!

But as a black man, I have to face down enemies every time I step out the door. I shouldn't have to deal with that mess in my house.

She has to be intelligent. If she thinks I'm wrong on something, she should tell me respectfully. But then trust that I will weigh what she's saying and then I'm making the final decision for us.

If she ain't as smart as me, that's fine because guess what? I will go hard to put my lady on game.

Like TI said in "just like me": I can make her better.


That's my job as a man. To uplift, cherish, protect and teach my woman.

But you can't do that if she feels like she knows better and won't listen to nothing you have to say.

I've been on both sides of what you're talking about, bro, and I'm here to tell you... go get that soft girl back.

You dont want these nasty manbearpigs that are running these streets. trust me!

Aint you got a wife already?

 

[rabbid]

its like 4 women on here breh.
shoulda tagged them or ask someone to


@YaThreadFloppedB!
@YaThreadTrashB!

its one mentally compromised brehette and six dudes in here shyt looks like the xmen.