Ladies, What causes you to friendzone a man?

Wild self

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It's easy to tell a jerk to eff off but the nice guys it's like I don't want to break their heart so I'll just say let's be friends.

:mjlol: you would call me a jerk then. I keep it real with you :shaq:

But you think that a jerk can become a good husband and a legit protector of your society in Ethiopia?
 

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I don't really do it because If I'm not interested I don't write you off as a friend. I just stop talking to them. Having said that, if I don't feel anything between us or our conversations are lackluster (having common interests are cool, but aren't a dealbreaker since we can learn from one another) then thats my cue.
 

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the real question is... how many ladies in here have fukked a dude in the friend zone

chris rock famously called a woman's platonic friend as a dikk in a glass case... in case of emergency, break open glass


i have personally smashed at least 5 "friends" of mine... who had no intention of letting me hit on day 1... but on day "i'm horny as shyt and here you are" oh we was smashing... and kept smashing... and being friends

but nikkas on here think it's a lost cause to maintain on some "let me fukk or forget about me"


am i rare? or y'all know most them dudes is in the back pocket for later??
 

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if i dont click with a guy but i still like his company. like maybe he's really funny or nice its not that i want him to go away completely i just dont wanna fukk him
 

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Well, I've been attracted to the "bad boy" types and the "good guy" types...whatever the hell that's supposed to mean lol I don't date just one personality type...if we click, then I'm interested. If we don't, then you're getting friend zoned.

The feigned naivete that women of all cultures use regarding the not knowing what a"nice/good guy" issue isn't fooling anyone. Women, the large majority of them, know what strong(moral, ethically speaking) and productive men are. Whether or not women want these men before, generally speaking and not absolute, women destroy their value in the dating/marriage marketplace. In saying that you(women) do not recognize what a "good/nice guy" is is to be purposely obtuse and downright disingenuous. Yes, this type of thinking is commonplace with all women from every group/culture/race (however you want to classify it), but the reality is that consequences and repercussions for such thinking and behavior is not equal among all peoples/groups/cultures/races (again, however you wanna classify yourself and your people). In regards to African-Americans, my people, the price is high.

So, when I mention "good/nice guy" on the Coli, I'm referring to men of high character; morals and ethics, that are productive and not tearing themselves or community down with destructive, demonic behavior. It has been established what a "good/nice" guy is. Please refrain (all women of the Coli)from being willingly obtuse in knowing what a "good/nice" guy is.

Now, as for the topic... Since, I'm not a female, I cannot give acute commentary on what cause women to "friend zone" men, however, I'll give simplistic reasoning...

Because they want to do so and it's their prerogative.
 
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