Basicly the girls are losers with no real friends or they're hoes who slept with their friends bfs now they have no real friends and they're reduced to "friendzoning" guys they arent attracted to just so that they have somebody to talk to.
Ladies, What causes you to friendzone a man?
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smARTmouf
Ascended Member
Beat them to the punch...
Friendzone these women first....They won't know what hit them...Something in them will trick them that they want you when they would've friendzoned you....It's funny...
Friendzone these women first....They won't know what hit them...Something in them will trick them that they want you when they would've friendzoned you....It's funny...
Desirous
Action expresses priorities
It's very simple: a good guy to me means being kind, loyal and honest. Those are top basic qualities that would classify any PERSON as a good person. Obviously, there are additional factors that ultimately attracts us to people, but those are based upon personal preference, not whether someone is "good."
missyleebunny
Pro
It's not like a black and white, thought out decision. If I'm attracted, I give signs compatible with my personality.
Romey Rome
All Star
And not a single straight answer was given. Friends is what u need to be before u can be in a good relationship. If u have a dude that's a friend for a while u can know him without the representative dudes put up to get the Coochie. That way u know who ur dealing with and have a good gauge on who the guy is. Bottom line if the dude challenges u, can make u laugh, cares about u, and has a good head on his shoulders he should get real consideration. I think women make things much harder than they could be and glossing over obvious positive qualities that is right in ur face is one of the big problems. Go ahead n kill me ladies
FukkaPaidEmail
Retired Hoodrat whisperer
Be soft on hoes brehs
Yo really what is considered universally ugly for women? Because I swear if you put a below average dude on stage and ask 10 chicks what you they think I dont think anyone would say he's unattractive. " He's ok, He's built, he's cute, he has good style, he has good hair, he has pretty teeth, he has a great smile, or he's not my type" I really never hear chicks say "that dude is ugly" unless "he's not cute" mean the same thing as ugly.
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
If you want friendship, be friendly
If you wanna fukk, be fukkable
Exactly, when you meet a chick you're feeling, spit at her right then and there
Stop trying to buddy your way into the panties
Before you know it, you're driving her to the airport or helping her move and shyt
Bobby Reds
Banned
A Woman's Opinion
All Star
I will tell you like I told my brother....
The statement "women don't know what they want" is accurate. However, women do know what they don't want.
There is a difference.
When I have "friend zoned" guys, I didn't even realize that's what I was doing. ("friend zoning" )
He was cool. I was cool. So, we were just being cool.
The main reason these guys got "friend zoned" is because they were not DIRECT with their intentions, or they ignored blatant rejection.
If you come at a woman like a friend, she will treat you like a friend.
If you approach her like you are interested in dating her, she will either decline your advances, or pursue you romantically.
IT'S THAT SIMPLE.
To me it is cowardly for a man to p*ssy foot around his intentions, and then get mad at the girl when she doesn't guess your true intentions and succumb.
This is described very well in this youtube video "The truth about nice guys".
www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdYuqFYUbVQ
To answer your question... You are in the friend zone, because you have accepted the "friend zone". Period.
You have failed to be direct with your intentions, and she is over looking you for a man who is more direct. (her type)
OR...
You're a "nice guy", but she isn't attracted to you like that.
For example, my friend didn't like "college boys". The entire time she was in college she "friend zoned" guys left and right. They couldn't understand why, and got mad when the relationship didn't grow. Uh, DUH! She told you that she doesn't like college boys!
Them accepting the "friend zone" wasn't going to change that. They just weren't her type. (romantically) They couldn't accept it. That's not her fault.
BE DIRECT. Make your intentions clear, and if she says she only see's you as just a friend...
She isn't attracted to you, or you just aren't her type. Accept it. Don't think you can change it by accepting the "friend zone".
The statement "women don't know what they want" is accurate. However, women do know what they don't want.
There is a difference.
When I have "friend zoned" guys, I didn't even realize that's what I was doing. ("friend zoning" )
He was cool. I was cool. So, we were just being cool.
The main reason these guys got "friend zoned" is because they were not DIRECT with their intentions, or they ignored blatant rejection.
If you come at a woman like a friend, she will treat you like a friend.
If you approach her like you are interested in dating her, she will either decline your advances, or pursue you romantically.
IT'S THAT SIMPLE.
To me it is cowardly for a man to p*ssy foot around his intentions, and then get mad at the girl when she doesn't guess your true intentions and succumb.
This is described very well in this youtube video "The truth about nice guys".
www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdYuqFYUbVQ
To answer your question... You are in the friend zone, because you have accepted the "friend zone". Period.
You have failed to be direct with your intentions, and she is over looking you for a man who is more direct. (her type)
OR...
You're a "nice guy", but she isn't attracted to you like that.
For example, my friend didn't like "college boys". The entire time she was in college she "friend zoned" guys left and right. They couldn't understand why, and got mad when the relationship didn't grow. Uh, DUH! She told you that she doesn't like college boys!
Them accepting the "friend zone" wasn't going to change that. They just weren't her type. (romantically) They couldn't accept it. That's not her fault.
BE DIRECT. Make your intentions clear, and if she says she only see's you as just a friend...
She isn't attracted to you, or you just aren't her type. Accept it. Don't think you can change it by accepting the "friend zone".
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I will tell you like I told my brother....
The statement "women don't know what they want" is accurate. However, women do know what they don't want.
There is a difference.
When I have "friend zoned" guys, I didn't even realize that's what I was doing. ("friend zoning" )
He was cool. I was cool. So, we were just being cool.
The main reason these guys got "friend zoned" is because they were not DIRECT with their intentions, or the ignored blatant rejection.
If you come at a woman like a friend, she will treat you like a friend.
If you approach her like you are interested in dating her, she will either decline your advances, or pursue you romantically.
IT'S THAT SIMPLE.
To me it is cowardly for a man to p*ssy foot around his intentions, and then get mad at the girl when she doesn't guess your true intentions and succumb.
This is described very well in this youtube video "The truth about nice guys".
www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdYuqFYUbVQ
To answer your question... You are in the friend zone, because you have accepted the "friend zone".;Period.
You failed to be direct with you intentions, and she is over looking you for a man is more direct. (her type)
OR...
You're a "nice guy", but she isn't attracted to you like that.
For example, my friend didn't like "college boys". The entire time she was in college she "friend zoned" guys left and right. They couldn't understand why, and got mad when the relationship didn't grow. Uh, DUH! She told you that she doesn't like college boys!
Them accepting the "friend zone" wasn't going to change that. They just weren't her type. (romantically) They couldn't accept it. That's not her fault.
BE DIRECT. Make your intentions clear, and if she says she only see's you as just a friend...
She isn't attracted to you, or you just aren't her type. Accept it. Don't think you can change it by accepting the "friend zone".
you are quickly becoming one of the top female poster on this board, let these dudes know.
A Woman's Opinion
All Star
THE MISTAKE WOMEN MAKE...
Is not accepting that you cannot have "male friends". Especially if you are attractive.(Unless he is gay)
Because I had to grow into my looks, I had to learn this the hard way.
Women need to understand that no guy is approaching you, and being "nice" to you, to just be your "friend".
He isn't being nice just because he is nice. He wants something. Like Steve Harvey said... HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU.
If you aren't interested... Reject him, and keep it moving. Continuing much of anything else is leading him on, because sadly, most men cannot accept no, and feel grossly entitled to what they are attracted to.
Is not accepting that you cannot have "male friends". Especially if you are attractive.(Unless he is gay)
Because I had to grow into my looks, I had to learn this the hard way.
Women need to understand that no guy is approaching you, and being "nice" to you, to just be your "friend".
He isn't being nice just because he is nice. He wants something. Like Steve Harvey said... HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU.
If you aren't interested... Reject him, and keep it moving. Continuing much of anything else is leading him on, because sadly, most men cannot accept no, and feel grossly entitled to what they are attracted to.
QuintessentialBM
GoldenAgeGamer82 - PSN ID
I think a loyal, kind and honest man falls under the sphere of "high character; morals and ethics.
How many times I gotta say it
Women dont friend zone dudes
DUDES FRIENDZONE THEMSELVES
Not to objectify women, but if u want to date a chick and she doesnt want to date u, WHY DO U KEEP HANGING OUT WITH HER?
NO MAN IN THE HISTORY OF MANKIND HAS FRIENDED HIS WAY INTO THE p*ssy
IF COOPERATION IS NOT IN THE CARDS KEEP IT PUSHING
Women dont friend zone dudes
DUDES FRIENDZONE THEMSELVES
Not to objectify women, but if u want to date a chick and she doesnt want to date u, WHY DO U KEEP HANGING OUT WITH HER?
NO MAN IN THE HISTORY OF MANKIND HAS FRIENDED HIS WAY INTO THE p*ssy
IF COOPERATION IS NOT IN THE CARDS KEEP IT PUSHING