Ladies, What causes you to friendzone a man?

[A Woman's Opinion]

How many times I gotta say it

Women dont friend zone dudes

DUDES FRIENDZONE THEMSELVES

Not to objectify women, but if u want to date a chick and she doesnt want to date u, WHY DO U KEEP HANGING OUT WITH HER?

NO MAN IN THE HISTORY OF MANKIND HAS FRIENDED HIS WAY INTO THE p*ssy

IF COOPERATION IS NOT IN THE CARDS KEEP IT PUSHING

Accurate.

 

[RiffRaff]

If you guys concentrated less on why women do things women do and more on just being yourself, I'd bet you'd see a lot more success with women and actually women you can build with. When I talk to someone I don't talk to them about things they might want to hear.I talk to them things that interest me and my passion can cause them to become interested as well.

Wonder why the so-called jerk gets what he wants. Because he doesn't come in trying to cater to women, he comes in telling a women what he likes and if you're about it than let's go. You're telling her everything YOU THINK she wants to hear and it's doing nothing to stimulate her mind so you're just basically throwing yourself in the friendzone.

If she says something I don't agree with I'm going to tell her, if she likes something I don't, I'm going to tell her, if she does or says something stupid I'm going to clown her, and I've been labeled a jerk more times than I can count, but I can tell you that a large portion of women I consider friends aren't using me for things or a shoulder to cry on. Its friendships that if I ever made an intent to turn into something serious I probably could because they respect what I can bring to the table that contrast their thoughts on matters.

Stop worrying about what women want and concentrate about what YOU want.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

THE MISTAKE WOMEN MAKE...

Is not accepting that you cannot have "male friends". Especially if you are attractive.(Unless he is gay)

Because I had to grow into my looks, I had to learn this the hard way.

Women need to understand that no guy is approaching you, and being "nice" to you, to just be your "friend".

He isn't being nice just because he is nice. He wants something. Like Steve Harvey said... HE WANTS TO SLEEP WITH YOU.

If you aren't interested... Reject him, and keep it moving. Continuing much of anything else is leading him on, because sadly, most men cannot accept no, and feel grossly entitled to what they are attracted to.

Take advice from Steve Harvey, brehettes....

Contrary to popular belief, not all men approach women with some "I wanna fukk" motives. There are men who are really trying to connect with women on some "I wanna be your friend and possibly your girlfriend, so I'm going to engage you to see where this leads." Women have really let this "men are savage beasts without ability of cognitive function" take root in the collective (not all) female consciousness. Not every male is on "Don Juan, Super Duper Swag level over 9000, A Pimp Name Slickback, I wanna fukk and control every bytch in the world and actually pull" shyt. Every male cannot attract women that are "on their level," let alone, women above it, because of hypergamy. Women know they have the benefits of sexual selection and take FULL advantage of this fact, even while claiming that everything, and in this case, the dating/marriage market is unfair for women.

This mindful obtuseness(if that's even a word) is what pisses men off, in real life and on these Internet streets.

 

[Cynical Thoughts]

The worst thing is a female friend is the worse type of friend for a man.

Notice how she sees them as friends by what he does for her. Bet money shes not gonna show her friendship by what she does for him.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

Take advice from Steve Harvey, brehettes....

Contrary to popular belief, not all men approach women with some "I wanna fukk" motives. There are men who are really trying to connect with women on some "I wanna be your friend and possibly your girlfriend, so I'm going to engage you to see where this leads." Women have really let this "men are savage beasts without ability of cognitive function" take root in the collective (not all) female consciousness. Not every male is on "Don Juan, Super Duper Swag level over 9000, A Pimp Name Slickback, I wanna fukk and control every bytch in the world and actually pull" shyt. Every male cannot attract women that are "on their level," let alone, women above it, because of hypergamy. Women know they have the benefits of sexual selection and take FULL advantage of this fact, even while claiming that everything, and in this case, the dating/marriage market is unfair for women.

This mindful obtuseness(if that's even a word) is what pisses men off, in real life and on these Internet streets.

I agree. ALL men aren't this way. There are exceptions to every rule.

It's safer this way for me, because I don't want to feel the wrath of another delusional, entitled man who gets mad at men because I won't be more than a friend to him.

 

[FTBS]

it was that easy lol


stop putting women on a pedestal brehs... they are JUST like us

yea they want a good man, works hard, does for them, don't cheat, keeps it 100


but if he look like fat albert, she ain't fukking with it... no different than why we keep ugly female friends who are good people, but we refuse to date them

Agreed with you all the way until here. Biggest difference between men and women is that for most guys sex is priority number one. Therefore a guy is not gonna be sitting up on the phone for hours at a time or cuddled up watching TV and spending the night with a chick that he's not attracted to. Females on the other hand will spend hours on end cupcaking with a dude that they have 0 interest in romantically because they know they can get sex from whoever whenever. Women look at spending time and bonding and connecting the same way men look at sex. So a better comparison would be the less than attractive female that a guy knows is sure thing and he smashes when the bad chicks he's chasing aren't giving it up. The female equivalent is the chick cupcaking with a dude she's not into while the dude that is smashing but not giving her the time of day beyond that is chasing other p*ssy. It's one big circle .

 

[The Mad Titan]

Take advice from Steve Harvey, brehettes....

Contrary to popular belief, not all men approach women with some "I wanna fukk" motives. There are men who are really trying to connect with women on some "I wanna be your friend and possibly your girlfriend, so I'm going to engage you to see where this leads." Women have really let this "men are savage beasts without ability of cognitive function" take root in the collective (not all) female consciousness. Not every male is on "Don Juan, Super Duper Swag level over 9000, A Pimp Name Slickback, I wanna fukk and control every bytch in the world and actually pull" shyt. Every male cannot attract women that are "on their level," let alone, women above it, because of hypergamy. Women know they have the benefits of sexual selection and take FULL advantage of this fact, even while claiming that everything, and in this case, the dating/marriage market is unfair for women.

This mindful obtuseness(if that's even a word) is what pisses men off, in real life and on these Internet streets.

This is where the disconnect starts, the dudes that really want to get to know a female have to walk that thin line between being a dork or coming off mad beta and being aggressive and respectful. And most women don't even know how to handle that, they assume its one or the other 100 percent of the time. Women put dudes that want to be friends before lovers in the friendzone and let the dudes that really only want to smash play with there emotions run shop.



A dude knows if he wants you to be his only one mad early, I knew right away with the woman I'm with now I let her know up front and she was let me know that she really liked me but had some ish going on and wasn't sure if she could find time to commit. Friends sure, but trying to be a friend 1st without even telling the other person you like them in more than a friendly manner is gonna get you screwed.

 

[QuintessentialBM]

I agree. ALL men aren't this way. There are exceptions to every rule.

It's safer this way for me, because I don't want to feel the wrath of another delusional, entitled man who gets mad at men because I won't be more than a friend to him.

And it's your right to do so. I'm not attacking you, but it kills me when women catch feelings when a man rejects them, then they start crying and cursing out men; calling us superficial. Women will swear up and down this isn't the case, but it is VERY EASY to get a man... a good one too, if you wouldn't be such a slave to your biological imperative and used more common sense.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

ask women questions and expect logical answers, brehs

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

And it's your right to do so. I'm not attacking you, but it kills me when women catch feelings when a man rejects them, then they start crying and cursing out men; calling us superficial. Women will swear up and down this isn't the case, but it is VERY EASY to get a man... a good one too, if you wouldn't be such a slave to your biological imperative and used more common sense.

Da Fuq?

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

ask women questions and expect logical answers, brehs

Right.

Because men have the monopoly on logic?

A man can tell you women's thoughts and motives better than a woman can?

 

[QuintessentialBM]

This is where the disconnect starts, the dudes that really want to get to know a female have to walk that thin line between being a dork or coming off mad beta and being aggressive and respectful. And most women don't even know how to handle that, they assume its one or the other 100 percent of the time. Women put dudes that want to be friends before lovers in the friendzone and let the dudes that really only want to smash play with there emotions.



A dude knows if he wants you to be his only one mad early, I knew right away with the woman I'm with now I let her know up front and she was let me know that she really liked me but had some ish going on and wasn't sure if she could find time to commit. Friends sure, but trying to be a friend 1st without even telling the other person you like them in more than a friendly manner is gonna get you screwed.

I agree 100%. I just wish that men didn't have to toe the line so much; let the good qualities stand on their own. Only women can change that.

and this is sounds like soft, simp shyt to the real "nikkas." I'm ready to be flamed.

 

[Carlton Banks]

Figuring out women just too much work man... Just go on backpage, pay for some p*ssy and call it a day.

 

[Rawtid]

Sometimes you don't like a guy in a romantic way, is that a bad thing? Like just because a dude is nice to you doesn't mean you want to date him and you also shouldn't feel bad that you don't want to date him. It's ok to just be cordial to him aka be his friend as long as you're not leading him on. If he still wants to hang around and try to convince you to love him, that's on him.

I feel like men have two categories for women: The ones I want to fukk w/o commitment and the ones I want to fukk and be committed to.

 

[FTBS]

Take advice from Steve Harvey, brehettes....

Contrary to popular belief, not all men approach women with some "I wanna fukk" motives. There are men who are really trying to connect with women on some "I wanna be your friend and possibly your girlfriend, so I'm going to engage you to see where this leads." Women have really let this "men are savage beasts without ability of cognitive function" take root in the collective (not all) female consciousness. Not every male is on "Don Juan, Super Duper Swag level over 9000, A Pimp Name Slickback, I wanna fukk and control every bytch in the world and actually pull" shyt. Every male cannot attract women that are "on their level," let alone, women above it, because of hypergamy. Women know they have the benefits of sexual selection and take FULL advantage of this fact, even while claiming that everything, and in this case, the dating/marriage market is unfair for women.

This mindful obtuseness(if that's even a word) is what pisses men off, in real life and on these Internet streets.

Most guys in the friendzone...fukk it...all guys in the friendzone are in this boat. It's funny how women and frontin ass dudes try to intertwine dudes in the friendzone with dogs who are just trying to get p*ssy. If a guy is all about the p*ssy, he ain't gonna sit back dealing with the friendzone bullshyt. The guys that are all about the p*ssy are generally the guys getting the p*ssy. Steve isn't wrong, he just oversimplifies it. All guys do approach with "I wanna fukk" motives. For some that's all they wanna do. For others they would like to do that in addition to trying to build some sort of a relationship. But lets be clear no dude is gonna approach a chick if putting his dikk in her isn't a part of the plan. As far as "mindful obtuseness" goes, a lot of women, especially attractive women are so used to getting their ass kissed that they truly don't think anything of it and believe that is just how it is. They know they are taking advantage of a person but they convince themselves that it's all good under the guise of friendship. Like other people in positions of privilege women don't always recognize their privilege.