Ladies, What causes you to friendzone a man?

[philmonroe]

you would call me a jerk then. I keep it real with you

But you think that a jerk can become a good husband and a legit protector of your society in Ethiopia?

You ain't no jerk going by all the questions you asking detective like you want some real answers to use IRL. You a "nice guy" fronting like a mother fukker

If you come at a woman like a friend, she will treat you like a friend.
If you approach her like you are interested in dating her, she will either decline your advances, or pursue you romantically.
IT'S THAT SIMPLE.

To me it is cowardly for a man to p*ssy foot around his intentions, and then get mad at the girl when she doesn't guess your true intentions and succumb.

This is described very well in this youtube video "The truth about nice guys".

www.youtube.com/watch?v=mdYuqFYUbVQ

To answer your question... You are in the friend zone, because you have accepted the "friend zone". Period.
You have failed to be direct with your intentions, and she is over looking you for a man who is more direct. (her type)

OR...

You're a "nice guy", but she isn't attracted to you like that.
For example, my friend didn't like "college boys". The entire time she was in college she "friend zoned" guys left and right. They couldn't understand why, and got mad when the relationship didn't grow. Uh, DUH! She told you that she doesn't like college boys!

Them accepting the "friend zone" wasn't going to change that. They just weren't her type. (romantically) They couldn't accept it. That's not her fault.

BE DIRECT. Make your intentions clear, and if she says she only see's you as just a friend...
She isn't attracted to you, or you just aren't her type. Accept it. Don't think you can change it by accepting the "friend zone".

I agree with most of what your saying but bold about she will treat you like a friend is only true if she don't like you anyway. Chicks do the same weak shyt a lot of guys do as far as friending their way into a relationship too. Now if she don't like you its just easy to throw out the your intentions wasn't clear card.

Take advice from Steve Harvey, brehettes....

Contrary to popular belief, not all men approach women with some "I wanna fukk" motives. There are men who are really trying to connect with women on some "I wanna be your friend and possibly your girlfriend, so I'm going to engage you to see where this leads." Women have really let this "men are savage beasts without ability of cognitive function" take root in the collective (not all) female consciousness. Not every male is on "Don Juan, Super Duper Swag level over 9000, A Pimp Name Slickback, I wanna fukk and control every bytch in the world and actually pull" shyt. Every male cannot attract women that are "on their level," let alone, women above it, because of hypergamy. Women know they have the benefits of sexual selection and take FULL advantage of this fact, even while claiming that everything, and in this case, the dating/marriage market is unfair for women.

This mindful obtuseness(if that's even a word) is what pisses men off, in real life and on these Internet streets.

Regarding bold FOH lol. I think that's very disingenuous because you want to fukk first not become friends. Only a soft nikka and or a lying nikka would even put that in the air like that is the initial reason he came up to a chick. Only situation I can think of where that may apply is one where you get to see them often enough to form an opinion of them outside just a sexual one. As far as chick in the street, club, etc stop it fam. Which one of you brehs on here just see a bad chick and your first thought is she might make a good friend/potential girlfriend or you wanna have sex with her and what happens happens with that other stuff?

Sometimes you don't like a guy in a romantic way, is that a bad thing? Like just because a dude is nice to you doesn't mean you want to date him and you also shouldn't feel bad that you don't want to date him. It's ok to just be cordial to him aka be his friend as long as you're not leading him on. If he still wants to hang around and try to convince you to love him, that's on him.

I feel like men have two categories for women: The ones I want to fukk w/o commitment and the ones I want to fukk and be committed to.

Yeah that sounds about right because what do you really need girls for "friends" for anyway? I moreso mean specifically meeting them for that purpose. I have sisters, girls as friends I grew up with, girls I don't like/they don't like me in that way, etc so why would I go out of my way to find new girls as friends?

 

[Konjo]

you would call me a jerk then. I keep it real with you

But you think that a jerk can become a good husband and a legit protector of your society in Ethiopia?

I'm saying. It is easy to say I'm not interested to someone who is a jerk. But if he is a really nice guy instead of just saying no I'm not interested or your not my type, I would say let's be friends instead.


I don't understand your question about my society tho.

 

[Wild self]

I meant was that most non Americanized countries, women are Attracted to men that are considered 'nice' and not jerks and a$$holes. I learned the hard way that being a funny ass jerk doesn't get you much play from non western women.

But I know what makes you

I'm saying. It is easy to say I'm not interested to someone who is a jerk. But if he is a really nice guy instead of just saying no I'm not interested or your not my type, I would say let's be friends instead.


I don't understand your question about my society tho.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

If he's too nice. Nice dudes are like brothers makes me want to take care of them in a sisterly way.

that's why I'm mean to chicks.
it'll be a chick holding shyt when she get on the train while I'm sitting and I hit her with the .

she proly got super wet

 

[Wild self]

Lol @ me being a nice guy.

You ain't no jerk going by all the questions you asking detective like you want some real answers to use IRL. You a "nice guy" fronting like a mother fukker

I agree with most of what your saying but bold about she will treat you like a friend is only true if she don't like you anyway. Chicks do the same weak shyt a lot of guys do as far as friending their way into a relationship too. Now if she don't like you its just easy to throw out the your intentions wasn't clear card.

Regarding bold FOH lol. I think that's very disingenuous because you want to fukk first not become friends. Only a soft nikka and or a lying nikka would even put that in the air like that is the initial reason he came up to a chick. Only situation I can think of where that may apply is one where you get to see them often enough to form an opinion of them outside just a sexual one. As far as chick in the street, club, etc stop it fam. Which one of you brehs on here just see a bad chick and your first thought is she might make a good friend/potential girlfriend or you wanna have sex with her and what happens happens with that other stuff?

Yeah that sounds about right because what do you really need girls for "friends" for anyway? I moreso mean specifically meeting them for that purpose. I have sisters, girls as friends I grew up with, girls I don't like/they don't like me in that way, etc so why would I go out of my way to find new girls as friends?

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

Beat them to the punch...

Friendzone these women first....They won't know what hit them...Something in them will trick them that they want you when they would've friendzoned you....It's funny...

tell us the story

 

[Seea]

No one wants to be approached by a dude that's in a hurry to rush over. It's not that serious. Take your time and flash a smile.

 

[MikelArteta]

Ah the friend zoned

Only after we dated or after I smash have women tried to demote me to I think we should be friends

To which I say sure and block and delete

 

[aliG]

If you guys concentrated less on why women do things women do and more on just being yourself, I'd bet you'd see a lot more success with women and actually women you can build with. When I talk to someone I don't talk to them about things they might want to hear.I talk to them things that interest me and my passion can cause them to become interested as well.

Wonder why the so-called jerk gets what he wants. Because he doesn't come in trying to cater to women, he comes in telling a women what he likes and if you're about it than let's go. You're telling her everything YOU THINK she wants to hear and it's doing nothing to stimulate her mind so you're just basically throwing yourself in the friendzone.

If she says something I don't agree with I'm going to tell her, if she likes something I don't, I'm going to tell her, if she does or says something stupid I'm going to clown her, and I've been labeled a jerk more times than I can count, but I can tell you that a large portion of women I consider friends aren't using me for things or a shoulder to cry on. Its friendships that if I ever made an intent to turn into something serious I probably could because they respect what I can bring to the table that contrast their thoughts on matters.

Stop worrying about what women want and concentrate about what YOU want.

BINGO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That first sentence is gospel.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Beat them to the punch...

Friendzone these women first....They won't know what hit them...Something in them will trick them that they want you when they would've friendzoned you....It's funny...

does this really work? I gotta try it...

the logic seems right though...

 

[Spades Of Aces]

Figuring out women just too much work man... Just go on backpage, pay for some p*ssy and call it a day.

 

[Neo. The Only. The One.]

Right.

Because men have the monopoly on logic?

A man can tell you women's thoughts and motives better than a woman can?

why come at me for saying that women don't know what they want.... when you already said this in your own statement?

I will tell you like I told my brother....

The statement "women don't know what they want" is accurate.

I think you might be proving my point.

 

[A Woman's Opinion]

why come at me for saying that women don't know what they want.... when you already said this in your own statement?






I think you might be proving my point.

Women are capable of giving rational answers to questions about things women feel. PERIOD.

You tried to imply they cannot. Don't play stupid.

Besides, women know what they want. Some are just in denial.

Don't men do the same thing, though?

For example... claiming they don't love hoes, but wifing them left and right ,and praising famous hoes (Kim K and Draya), or risking their families cheating with them?

Men don't have the monopoly on logic.
Women don't have the monopoly on crazy/confused.

Tried It.

 

[At30wecashout]

How many times I gotta say it

Women dont friend zone dudes

DUDES FRIENDZONE THEMSELVES

Not to objectify women, but if u want to date a chick and she doesnt want to date u, WHY DO U KEEP HANGING OUT WITH HER?

NO MAN IN THE HISTORY OF MANKIND HAS FRIENDED HIS WAY INTO THE p*ssy

IF COOPERATION IS NOT IN THE CARDS KEEP IT PUSHING

And people call me an a$$hole when I disappear on girls who say no

Invest in stocks that don't bring returns, brehs.

 

[Ashley Banks]

Men don't have the monopoly on logic.
Women don't have the monopoly on crazy/confused.

Tried It.