Ladies, What Goes Through Women's Heads When Y'all Are Not Approached?

[Detroit Wave]

ha. No y'all here. I have never done that and have had the opportunity before but I didn't. For the right one maybe, I don't like to say never but at this point it hasn't happened. But are you saying females should act like groupies towards guys? I would never.

i think he is saying that if a chick is throwing signs and the guy is too oblivious to pick up on them, she should open up the convo.

 

[Raava]

i think he is saying that if a chick is throwing signs and the guy is too oblivious to pick up on them, she should open up the convo.

But you missed the first part of the convo, I don't throw signs.

 

[Detroit Wave]

But you missed the first part of the convo, I don't throw signs.

i read his post as more of a generalization

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

ha. No y'all here. I have never done that and have had the opportunity before but I didn't. For the right one maybe, I don't like to say never but at this point it hasn't happened. But are you saying females should act like groupies towards guys? I would never.

im not saying that.
Alls Im saying is people in general should go after what they want.
If we're on a date and you're hungry, say you're hungry. Don't slouch in the seat and wait for me to ask if you want something to eat.
If you see a man you would like to talk to, talk to him. Don't flick your hair, twirl around or whatever just to hope he says something first.
Shoot even white women talk to dudes they see they are interested in.
Thats not being a groupie.

 

[Mac Brown]

I ain't heard of no woman wanting a shy guy outside of this song

This is the absolute truth!!

 

[Raava]

i read his post as more of a generalization

im not saying that.
Alls Im saying is people in general should go after what they want.
If we're on a date and you're hungry, say you're hungry. Don't slouch in the seat and wait for me to ask if you want something to eat.
If you see a man you would like to talk to, talk to him. Don't flick your hair, twirl around or whatever just to hope he says something first.
Shoot even white women talk to dudes they see they are interested in.
Thats not being a groupie.

That is not the same thing at all. I speak up for myself all the time. Speaking up for yourself and approaching someone is not the same thing.

Even white women?

Race has nothing to do with anything. I know outgoing black women who approach guys and vice versa wth.

Comparing an everyday interaction to something that is rare, not on the same level and not in the same category doesn't make sense to me. Maybe I shouldn't have said groupie, maybe I should have said fan.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

That is not the same thing at all. I speak up for myself all the time. Speaking up for yourself and approaching someone is not the same thing.

Even white women?

Race has nothing to do with anything. I know outgoing black women who approach guys and vice versa wth.

Comparing an everyday interaction to something that is rare, not on the same level and not in the same category doesn't make sense to me. Maybe I shouldn't have said groupie, maybe I should have said fan.

You don't have to say "fan".
What's so bad about a woman speaking to a man that she's interested in?
Tell me the actual bad part though and not "its the man's job to say something first"

 

[Raava]

You don't have to say "fan".
What's so bad about a woman speaking to a man that she's interested in?
Tell me the actual bad part though and not "its the man's job to say something first"

I told you my reasons why I don't already. I don't know other females, I can only speak for myself.
I don't think there is really anything wrong with it. I just can't.

 

[360dagod]

I don't try to decode signs,,,

You don't say nothing,fukk it....

As long as I have some p*ssy to stick my dikk in,im fine

 

[semtex]

If you leave shyt to chance, the only people that will usually give you a clear "come on" or hit on you will be fakkits and hoodrat black women.

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

If you leave shyt to chance, the only people that will usually give you a clear "come on" or hit on you will be fakkits and hoodrat black women.

idk about the hoodrat black women.
Its pretty much the same with them.
Walk in front of him and hope he sees this ass.

 

[AlreadyKnow]

I don't even notice. Is there an age limit on this topic? Who actually goes around and thinks about this when they are out and about?

 

[Ashley Banks]

He's not interested.

 

[semtex]

I don't even notice. Is there an age limit on this topic? Who actually goes around and thinks about this when they are out and about?

Look out we got a cool kid over here

 

[FLYINHAWAIIAN]

He's not interested.

Figured that.
Dudes can't read yall mind though ladies