Ladies, what makes a man husband material?
- Thread starter lightbearerchef
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I don't know a woman who doesnt like a man who knows his why around a bedroom, or kitchen, or bathroom, livingroom, car etc
lightbearerchef
Von!!!
Im pretty sure i told you before you was a funny dude.
What this gotta do wit me?
Lmao nothing i just appreciate a dude with a sense humor, thats all.
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Ashley Banks
All I ever wanted was the world
I like funny guys.
the bossman
Superstar
men and women are different breh. humor is an aphrodisiac for women. make her laugh and you're already halfway to the puss
bruh i'm married so you're preaching to the choir. i'm just asking about why do so many women mention that. like that is a main top 3 thing or something.
So now we know. you have to be tupac in the hood, MMA fighter in a bar just in case some drunk big shaq looking idiot tries it, a successful businessman, a porn star in the bedroom, chris rock..oops and be romantic like some movie character.
And what is this lady going to be?
I've been saying since i was a good 18 or so to ladies that give me this insane what they want in a man lists. I'll say this if you want me to be Jay z, you da... well better be Beyonce. or who we fooling here?
so let me tell yall ladies whats going to really happen.
The funny dude on average will be the broke dude. why? because being broke puts people in a place where they have to crack jokes to make the ish they are going thru lighter than it really is. its the same reason jewish writers make the funniest sitcoms. they come from that super broke era of rations and what not. most black comedians that are hilarious grew up super broke.
the porn star in the bedroom dude, for the most part, will be someone with plenty of practice. which means odds are he aint going to be faithful because all he's out to do is put more numbers on the board.
the businessman will only be funny if he's a sales person. since they have to make people laugh to sell them something they dont need. otherwise, he's going to be some what of a geek. real smart dude that did his years in school, got his paperwork and is doing well for himself financially. but you were never checking for him since he wasnt a standout type of guy. no time for jokes since he's focused on school and finances.
so you can already see where i'm going with this list. yall ladies might as well get ready to settle as we speak. lol
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so its official. the easiest way to yalls heart is a jokester, funny guy. Now let me caution you ladies. The funniest dudes are usually not winners in other areas of their life. Thats just a heads up. There's a reason dude has so many jokes. Now i aint knocking the jokester cause we all like a good laugh. And even though i personally am not a jokester per se. I still can make people laugh enough not to ever be called boring. But beware of making this a priority. when yall think about what you want in a dude always think about the pros and especially the Cons of each trait.
"I want my man to take charge"
ok now, just beware. oh boy might be a head buster. or he might be the type that says women have their place and thats the only place they can have cause he's the king of the castle and thats that.
i dont want yall randomly choosing dudes based on this list only thinking of the pros in each trait. cause those cons will have you sitting up in divorce court after year 3. have you wondering how did such a great catch turn into this. without realizing he didnt turn into anything. he's the same dude you met. the best stuff about him is also the things you dont like about him.
i'll give you an example. I have that gift of gab. but a chick in a relationship with me can get real upset when i can beat her at her own game(running her mouth about something.) most men are not like that. i call that my one feminine trait(all dudes have at least one). And i'm not just talking about running my mouth for the sake of hearing myself speak. i'm talking about getting at my mate about something like a woman would get at a man about something that he has done wrong. women will be caught completely off guard by this trait. but little do they know, you dont like it then but you loved it when we use to talk all day and all night about any and everything. Think before you choose ladies. Think before you choose.
thats not the real question.
you can mess around and get all the tail a man could want and end up dying alone at 65. and as great as sex is. it's not something you can do from sun up to sun down assuming you aint a nempho. What are you going to do with the rest of your day?
you spend all your time and energy into attracted ladies but have no idea how to keep one. not even the one you wanted to keep.
Dominicansbelit
All Star
hold dis L... everyone dies alone..the rest of ur energy should be doing stuff that you enjoy... getting married puts a woman as a priority
everyone does not die along. and when i made that statement. i meant really DYING. meaning the momeny that age starts to hit you real hard and all the ailments, and medical issues kick in. you would like someone around to hold you down. but you wont have anyone. now if thats truly fine with you. i aint mad at you. do you. cause marriage isnt for everyone. i'm not one of those trying to push everyone into marriage. shoot, God himself in the good book told people that he would prefer them single. So they could hang out with him and do God's work without having to worry about their sig other/family issues. BUT if you decide to get married, your first love is GOD but your first priority is your mate. that goes BOTH Ways, its not a put a woman up and put the man down or put a man up and put the man down. it's We put each other UP at the same time. i give 100%, you give 100%. not 50/50 like some people think. doesnt work that way.