Ladies, when did you have your first orgasm?

[Sandy_Cheeks]

fascinating *scribbles notes in pad*, why does the child smiley bother u Bonita, did he "awaken" ur inner child who feels guilty about "discovering" herself early. I'm a psychologist its ok to tlk to me

 

[KOOL-AID]

hehehehehe

 

[CinnaSlim]

I don't think ive ever had a proper orgasm.

I mean, it feels good. I get up there but I never reach it.

I dont know if its my breathing or what.

 

[cam>]

I don't think ive ever had a proper orgasm.

I mean, it feels good. I get up there but I never reach it.

I dont know if its my breathing or what.

That's the case for a lot of women, unfortunately.

 

[CinnaSlim]

That's the case for a lot of women, unfortunately.

Yeah because we can have different types of orgasms and we dont have the physical evidence of having had one like men do. So, we're constantly like "was that it?".

Plus movies tell us its supposed to be like fireworks and explosions and such.

 

[Music Fiend]

Its common among girls who don't touch themselves. Girls like that tend to think of sex as a sin and its harder to get them off. Can still be done but you gotta break down their mental barriers which is hard and not worth the time it takes tbh. But if you sexually satisfy a female like that she'll love you forever.

In the case of my old girl, I think you hit the nail on the head. She was sexually active but I think it was more of a desire for intimacy and to be liked. She did feel guilty about sex. But eventually the guilt went away and she still couldn't. The thing I notice with most women who say they can't is a childlike personality and presence/energy. Like emotionally they are a bit stunted.

I don't think ive ever had a proper orgasm.

I mean, it feels good. I get up there but I never reach it.

I dont know if its my breathing or what.

Damn... do you think it is psychological? Like do you have any guilt about sex? Whether like you feel like a thot, or maybe abandonment issues?

 

[CinnaSlim]

In the case of my old girl, I think you hit the nail on the head. She was sexually active but I think it was more of a desire for intimacy and to be liked. She did feel guilty about sex. But eventually the guilt went away and she still couldn't. The thing I notice with most women who say they can't is a childlike personality and presence/energy. Like emotionally they are a bit stunted.



Damn... do you think it is psychological? Like do you have any guilt about sex? Whether like you feel like a thot, or maybe abandonment issues?

Ehh, I do but I dont. I have fun during sex. I dont think about it too much. I just enjoy it for what it is. I think I just have to experiment more.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Yeah because we can have different types of orgasms and we dont have the physical evidence of having had one like men do. So, we're constantly like "was that it?".

Plus movies tell us its supposed to be like fireworks and explosions and such.

exactly. And orgasms feel different for every woman so they are hard to gauge since we all don't share similar experiences.

 

[Ashley Banks]

uhh I think I was 17. I thought my heart was gonna explode.

I masturbated before but I always stopped because I got bored or I was scared of getting caught.

 

[cam>]

exactly. And orgasms feel different for every woman so they are hard to gauge since we all don't share similar experiences.

Yeah, I can always make myself cum. It's a bit more challenging for someone else to do it to me though.

Sex is still worthwhile, but that O is just so elusive.



(and I don't have a childlike attitude or sex-guilt, @Music Fiend )

 

[KOOL-AID]

I don't think ive ever had a proper orgasm.

I mean, it feels good. I get up there but I never reach it.

I dont know if its my breathing or what.

Do kegels they help enhance orgasms

 

[CinnaSlim]

Do kegels they help enhance orgasms

If I do any more kegels, I might be able to beat this woman's record.

 

[KOOL-AID]

If I do any more kegels, I might be able to beat this woman's record.

I need a moment to process this *grabs a twix bar*

 

[Medulla Oblongata]

 

[Couth]

In the case of my old girl, I think you hit the nail on the head. She was sexually active but I think it was more of a desire for intimacy and to be liked. She did feel guilty about sex. But eventually the guilt went away and she still couldn't. The thing I notice with most women who say they can't is a childlike personality and presence/energy. Like emotionally they are a bit stunted.

Interesting that you bring that up, cuz they say that when a girl seems stunted emotionally, talks in a childlike voice, tries to act innocent and so on... it means she was molested. And whatever age she was molested at thats where she was stunted.

And the one girl who i could never bring to orgasm had all the above qualities and was always really nervous about sex. I later found out that her older cousins had been running trains on her since she was a kid. So sexual assault might be one of the causes.