MyMindWarpsandBends
33119 AllMoneyIn4Ever
Is it being too passive? Too crude? Not getting to the point? Giving compliments? Not being sincere? I’m just doing some research for a “friend” lol
Ladies: Where do most men fail in tryna approach you?
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Flywin Lannister
Superstar
Breh I literally wanted to reply 'why don't you just add 'Asking for a friend' to the thread title
Let's start with being real. You want advice from the ladies, ask for it. Fukk this high school shyt.
Build confidence from this very moment and in 12 months you'll be saying no instead of praying for a yes
Good luck breh
Let's start with being real. You want advice from the ladies, ask for it. Fukk this high school shyt.
Build confidence from this very moment and in 12 months you'll be saying no instead of praying for a yes
Good luck breh
MyMindWarpsandBends
33119 AllMoneyIn4Ever
I’m half joking I thought general consensus was that when nikkas say “I’m asking for a friend” they’re really talking about themselves and honestly it’s interesting to hear from women themselves about what they like and don’t like concerning these types of things. I really did it because there’s so many different threads about dealing with women on this site with no input from women themselves so I wanted to get some input from actual women for a change
Yo Mama
...the sweeter the juice.
Basically:
- Honestly if you are not in the mood even a decent apprpoach can be annoying.
- If you arent feeling someones look there isnt much they can do.
- Honestly if you are not in the mood even a decent apprpoach can be annoying.
- If you arent feeling someones look there isnt much they can do.
I was the nikka that always felt like I could have a roster. Single now, and been throwing nothing but bricks and air balls. All I get from the women that I’m highly attracted to is, “I have a bf. u cute tho.”
Standards (women with no kids, own place/car) bout to have to be adjusted. I wear cologne, stay fairly fresh, own car, but stay with moms (debating on back surgery), money str8, still no luck. Still been fukking around wit my ex tho smh
Wtf is going on brehettes?
Standards (women with no kids, own place/car) bout to have to be adjusted. I wear cologne, stay fairly fresh, own car, but stay with moms (debating on back surgery), money str8, still no luck. Still been fukking around wit my ex tho smh
Wtf is going on brehettes?
MyMindWarpsandBends
33119 AllMoneyIn4Ever
When you say “not being genuine” do you mean as far as their intentions are concerned?
MyMindWarpsandBends
33119 AllMoneyIn4Ever
Part of me thinks social media killed the cold approach, I’ve women literally eyefukk me only to turn me down when I shoot my shot
❤Aԃɾιαɳα Rσȥαყ ❤
All Star
This.
We can tell if yu are putting on an act and if yu start getting touchy or talk too much it's off-putting. Also as someone else said, if I don't like how yu look whether it's yo outfit, face .etc there isn't much you can do.
Don't try to grab me if I walk away or ima scream and embarrass tf outta yu.
Zone4InYoDoe
Rookie
women are visual as hell...but its more a whole package thing, not just face and body, car, clothes, cologne, hair, grooming all gotta hit that trifecta.
he can be dumb as hell and get far with a broad just looking for eye candy or a suga mama but to maintain a decent looking woman with her collective shyt together...being immature with the texting or convo is a deal breaker.
especially that "Wyd?" shyt...bro I'm at work paying my fukkin' bills, fukk u mean "what am I doing?" or like not realizing there's no commonalities like a 40 year old dude beaming about his grandkids to a 25-40 year old woman with no kids at all..ninja I can't relate to that shyt at our age! FOH!
or not realizing a person just waaay out of their league socially, financially, culturally, aesthetically, academically, etc...water seeks its own level.
women that get approached a lot by men of different races and backgrounds tend to be extra stand-offish...its a waste of brain energy to give a dude you don't want shyt from the time of day...if she don't even see fit to friend-zone you and call when she needs something, its a no-go bro.
ETA: lack of ambition or personal success is a big one for me...I will take a brother who fukked up early and caught a bid but turned that shyt around on a grand hustle to legit to feed his family WELL any day....over some regular ass dude skating by satisfied with whatever peanuts come his way. the men in my family worked HARD for 50 years...I can't see it no other way but these welfare trick baby ninjas born in the 70s-80s got life fukked up. hence WE as black Americans descendants of slaves (AADoS) are currently fukkED up...thanks a lot President LBJ!
he can be dumb as hell and get far with a broad just looking for eye candy or a suga mama but to maintain a decent looking woman with her collective shyt together...being immature with the texting or convo is a deal breaker.
especially that "Wyd?" shyt...bro I'm at work paying my fukkin' bills, fukk u mean "what am I doing?" or like not realizing there's no commonalities like a 40 year old dude beaming about his grandkids to a 25-40 year old woman with no kids at all..ninja I can't relate to that shyt at our age! FOH!
or not realizing a person just waaay out of their league socially, financially, culturally, aesthetically, academically, etc...water seeks its own level.
women that get approached a lot by men of different races and backgrounds tend to be extra stand-offish...its a waste of brain energy to give a dude you don't want shyt from the time of day...if she don't even see fit to friend-zone you and call when she needs something, its a no-go bro.
ETA: lack of ambition or personal success is a big one for me...I will take a brother who fukked up early and caught a bid but turned that shyt around on a grand hustle to legit to feed his family WELL any day....over some regular ass dude skating by satisfied with whatever peanuts come his way. the men in my family worked HARD for 50 years...I can't see it no other way but these welfare trick baby ninjas born in the 70s-80s got life fukked up. hence WE as black Americans descendants of slaves (AADoS) are currently fukkED up...thanks a lot President LBJ!
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MyMindWarpsandBends
33119 AllMoneyIn4Ever
I really just meant the approach itself, but do I agree though both parties are going to require more from a significant other, especially if they’re in a space where they can hold themselves down financially with absolutely no help at all, that person is going to demand more out of person than just being attractive physically as they’re looking for somebody who can compliment them as a person vs. just being good for a nut every now and again. It sound like you grew up with some solid male-influence tho salute to that
Inappropriate time and if he is not my type its usually an automatic no. But if I have the time and/or he is more my type, he usually gets further.
Cold approaches usually make me uncomfortable overall, so even guys I might be into get turned down especially if it sounds like they are using "lines" or give me their number and tell me to call them (even though they approached me...)
Cold approaches usually make me uncomfortable overall, so even guys I might be into get turned down especially if it sounds like they are using "lines" or give me their number and tell me to call them (even though they approached me...)
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
ain’t nothing wrong with the men that are approaching these whores. Don’t ever ask women anything on how to get women or what they like cause they say one thing and do another. fukk them.
