Ladies: Where do most men fail in tryna approach you?

[SupaHotFire]

Man, this thread was useless

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Part of me thinks social media killed the cold approach, I’ve women literally eyefukk me only to turn me down when I shoot my shot

Women killed EVERYTHING.

 

[MyMindWarpsandBends]

ain’t nothing wrong with the men that are approaching these whores. Don’t ever ask women anything on how to get women or what they like cause they say one thing and do another. fukk them.

nikka, shutcho he-man woman hatin ass up, what type of nikka posts in a thread literally addressed specifically to women to bytch and complain about women. . . . like a bytch.

Man, this thread was useless

Ok my nikka so why did you post in it? For daps you not gon’ get? FOH

 

[DivaForever]

man we dont give a fukk about none of that shyt..
just be handsome, tall (6ft minimum) nice white straight teeth, clear skin, haircut, clean finger nails, clean shaven face and a nice body like you workout

 

[CinnaSlim]

Not being sincere/confident.
Giving too many compliments. Or too sexual compliments.

The advice I usually give is to treat the woman you are approaching like a human first not like a prey or a goal/prize that you feel you have to have. It can come off as creepy, pushy or desperate.

Plus if you wait a minute before turning on the charm and just be charismatic, it makes it seem more like you are interested in her vs her looks.

 

[Coli Bot]

Stop approaching them. Too much hassle, we are the catch not them.

 

[Wild self]

women are visual as hell...but its more a whole package thing, not just face and body, car, clothes, cologne, hair, grooming all gotta hit that trifecta.

he can be dumb as hell and get far with a broad just looking for eye candy or a suga mama but to maintain a decent looking woman with her collective shyt together...being immature with the texting or convo is a deal breaker.

especially that "Wyd?" shyt...bro I'm at work paying my fukkin' bills, fukk u mean "what am I doing?" or like not realizing there's no commonalities like a 40 year old dude beaming about his grandkids to a 25-40 year old woman with no kids at all..ninja I can't relate to that shyt at our age! FOH!

or not realizing a person just waaay out of their league socially, financially, culturally, aesthetically, academically, etc...water seeks its own level.

women that get approached a lot by men of different races and backgrounds tend to be extra stand-offish...its a waste of brain energy to give a dude you don't want shyt from the time of day...if she don't even see fit to friend-zone you and call when she needs something, its a no-go bro.

ETA: lack of ambition or personal success is a big one for me...I will take a brother who fukked up early and caught a bid but turned that shyt around on a grand hustle to legit to feed his family WELL any day....over some regular ass dude skating by satisfied with whatever peanuts come his way. the men in my family worked HARD for 50 years...I can't see it no other way but these welfare trick baby ninjas born in the 70s-80s got life fukked up. hence WE as black Americans descendants of slaves (AADoS) are currently fukkED up...thanks a lot President LBJ!

Interesting perspective. Wish you posted moe often.

 

[Alpha Legend]

women are visual as hell...but its more a whole package thing, not just face and body, car, clothes, cologne, hair, grooming all gotta hit that trifecta.

he can be dumb as hell and get far with a broad just looking for eye candy or a suga mama but to maintain a decent looking woman with her collective shyt together...being immature with the texting or convo is a deal breaker.

especially that "Wyd?" shyt...bro I'm at work paying my fukkin' bills, fukk u mean "what am I doing?" or like not realizing there's no commonalities like a 40 year old dude beaming about his grandkids to a 25-40 year old woman with no kids at all..ninja I can't relate to that shyt at our age! FOH!

or not realizing a person just waaay out of their league socially, financially, culturally, aesthetically, academically, etc...water seeks its own level.

women that get approached a lot by men of different races and backgrounds tend to be extra stand-offish...its a waste of brain energy to give a dude you don't want shyt from the time of day...if she don't even see fit to friend-zone you and call when she needs something, its a no-go bro.

ETA: lack of ambition or personal success is a big one for me...I will take a brother who fukked up early and caught a bid but turned that shyt around on a grand hustle to legit to feed his family WELL any day....over some regular ass dude skating by satisfied with whatever peanuts come his way. the men in my family worked HARD for 50 years...I can't see it no other way but these welfare trick baby ninjas born in the 70s-80s got life fukked up. hence WE as black Americans descendants of slaves (AADoS) are currently fukkED up...thanks a lot President LBJ!

Lol hope I never run into a chick like you. fukk all that

 

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

women are visual as hell...but its more a whole package thing, not just face and body, car, clothes, cologne, hair, grooming all gotta hit that trifecta.

he can be dumb as hell and get far with a broad just looking for eye candy or a suga mama but to maintain a decent looking woman with her collective shyt together...being immature with the texting or convo is a deal breaker.

especially that "Wyd?" shyt...bro I'm at work paying my fukkin' bills, fukk u mean "what am I doing?" or like not realizing there's no commonalities like a 40 year old dude beaming about his grandkids to a 25-40 year old woman with no kids at all..ninja I can't relate to that shyt at our age! FOH!

or not realizing a person just waaay out of their league socially, financially, culturally, aesthetically, academically, etc...water seeks its own level.

women that get approached a lot by men of different races and backgrounds tend to be extra stand-offish...its a waste of brain energy to give a dude you don't want shyt from the time of day...if she don't even see fit to friend-zone you and call when she needs something, its a no-go bro.

ETA: lack of ambition or personal success is a big one for me...I will take a brother who fukked up early and caught a bid but turned that shyt around on a grand hustle to legit to feed his family WELL any day....over some regular ass dude skating by satisfied with whatever peanuts come his way. the men in my family worked HARD for 50 years...I can't see it no other way but these welfare trick baby ninjas born in the 70s-80s got life fukked up. hence WE as black Americans descendants of slaves (AADoS) are currently fukkED up...thanks a lot President LBJ!

That's some pretentious ass shyt

 

[Black Barbie]

Not being sincere/confident.
Giving too many compliments. Or too sexual compliments.

The advice I usually give is to treat the woman you are approaching like a human first not like a prey or a goal/prize that you feel you have to have. It can come off as creepy, pushy or desperate.

Plus if you wait a minute before turning on the charm and just be charismatic, it makes it seem more like you are interested in her vs her looks.

This. When guys want to ask me for my number and keep complimenting me, I get really uncomfortable. Not too long ago I was headed to Joann (quick sewing errand) and this guy gets on the bus and he starts talking about how pretty I am and whatnot and gives me his number. The other thing that also caught me off guard was that I was sitting by myself and he was sitting behind me, but he wanted me to sit next to him because he didn't want anybody else to sit next to me. I don't even know you.

Prior to that I had a dude stop in the middle of the street to ask me if he could take me somewhere, which I obviously said no to and then asked me to take his number down. That freaked me out the most. Luckily I had a guy who was in my class that I knew who took the same bus as me.

 

[Dwolf]

Make a joke to feel the situation first, then if it seems like she reception go for it.
And remember, you're playing a rigged game where no one tells you the rules and they change whenever you learn them. Stay safe out there

 

[ColdSlither]

Just have something to say and be real. Use your conversations skills. It's up to her if you get turned down or not. No amount of advice any woman or man gives is going to change that. You could have your shyt together, you may even be her type. But what you don't know, is that she just got fired from her job, she has $1800 rent to pay, and her roommate just decided to move in with her boyfriend. So she may not be in the mood for anything you have to say.

 

[Tigron]

ain’t nothing wrong with the men that are approaching these whores. Don’t ever ask women anything on how to get women or what they like cause they say one thing and do another. fukk them.

Women killed EVERYTHING.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Stop approaching them. Too much hassle, we are the catch not them.

THIS

 

[Speaking Womanese]

Being too overfamiliar in their approach.

A dude did this to me yesterday.

I was walking past his car and he jumped out, walked up to me and went to reach out to my hand like he was gonna grab it.

He was ugly too so that didn’t help.