ladies,,, would you be pissed if ur Man asked you to give up ur career?

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I'd be cool with it only for the fact that my dream is a career in art so therefore I could build up my skills and work on selling it without worrying for money. Now he would have to be able to give me spending money. Not because of high maintaince but because I'm not gonna be going around without a dollar to my name.
 

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I'd be cool with it only for the fact that my dream is a career in art so therefore I could build up my skills and work on selling it without worrying for money. Now he would have to be able to give me spending money. Not because of high maintaince but because I'm not gonna be going around without a dollar to my name.

exactly... just like how I'm a martial artist.. I used to be a boxer . Most of the best fighters I know, especially bjj and kung fu........ either were broke or didn't have jobs or were Very wealthy. You need to be able to relax, take time and do shyt at your own pace, like fukk it.

Same with art

same with most things..........

so a woman staying at home working on whatever her dream is will 100% of the time > a chick who has to get up daily and go be a worker...

I tested this out.
i have 2 bms
#1 grinded with me.. worked daily and we did everything together.
#2 got up in the AM, didn't even make me coffee:sadcam:, went outside to feed the ducks (used to live in FL), and went zumba class, then went home to watch TV

#2 now has ebooks that thousands of people buy and has people asking her for info n shyt... making paper.

#1 is still grinding away.
 

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exactly... just like how I'm a martial artist.. I used to be a boxer . Most of the best fighters I know, especially bjj and kung fu........ either were broke or didn't have jobs or were Very wealthy. You need to be able to relax, take time and do shyt at your own pace, like fukk it.

Same with art

same with most things..........

so a woman staying at home working on whatever her dream is will 100% of the time > a chick who has to get up daily and go be a worker...

I tested this out.
i have 2 bms
#1 grinded with me.. worked daily and we did everything together.
#2 got up in the AM, didn't even make me coffee:sadcam:, went outside to feed the ducks (used to live in FL), and went zumba class, then went home to watch TV

#2 now has ebooks that thousands of people buy and has people asking her for info n shyt... making paper.

#1 is still grinding away.
ive heard about this whole making an ebook thing can you tell me more?
 

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ive heard about this whole making an ebook thing can you tell me more?
Something simple many people can relate to or write a great story. Or something informational like health etc.

I would use fiverr . Com to get graphics and formats done for you for the low.
 

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so anyone can do this? fiverr is shyt.
Anyone can......

I never used fiverr but I know sites like it have professionals that but things in proper format for you.

Anyway, she created a FB fan page got over a thousand people. .... and marketEd it and people bought it. She still makes sales alL the time
 

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If my man is my husband and we have young kids he wouldn't have to ask. I plan on being a sahm.

If it was a bf, I wouldn't get angry. I'd look at him like he's crazy then laugh. He can't make me quit, so I don't understand why someone would be angry. I'd want to know why he wants me to quit though.

I would never live with a bf or have kids with one.
Explain this further. :patrice:
 

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Explain this further. :patrice:

Op's girlfriend is living with him and has kids with him (or is either taking care of op's child that he had with someone else if I remeber correctly). I would never live with a boyfriend and take care of his kids or have kids with him. Only my husband. I wouldn't leave my job unless I was married and had young children, or if I wanted to. Maybe my husband could convince me if he had a very good reason, but I can't think of a good reason if we don't have kids.
 

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the task are way too much for 5 bucks from what I seen.

LOL
:whew:
That's good for me. I thought you were talking about there's something wrong with buying from them.

I like that they charge only $5 per page. :blessed:
 
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