Nah, I'm not.... I'm just curious what defines a gender specific role outside of the obvious and how do you all determine which to pick and choose?
No facetiousness
Hmm, that's a good question. I guess it's person to person.
Can you maybe give me an example of a gender specific role outside the obvious and we'll go from there?
Thats what I'm trying to find out, what defines some of those gender roles like proposing, providing for her and protecting her from harm as man and others like cleaning, cooking and raising kids How do alot of women settle on certain ones being defacto and others demeaning? 
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why do yall always do this? You can want to be treated equal and not want to ask someone to marry you. 