Lady Says Guys That Put Them On A Pedestal Are Not Attractive, Is This True?

[Hungerpain]

This nikka.

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

But the coli told me woman love Russell Wilson and don't like the future types

These are generalizations but Future when they are relevant. Russ Wilson when they are desperate. Circumstances change shyt. I'm not women hating, men are far more desperate than women.

 

[Field Marshall Bradley]

Meh...most people don't know what they want until they've gained some life experience and been thru some shyt to help them figure out what they want/like/dislike.

Generalizations like this are fukkin pointless.

Most sensible post in the thread....

 

[xoxodede]

A couple of things:

- she just hasn't dated the right guys.

- no woman should be accepting gifts, rolling out the red carpet - meaning the extreme/extra ish from a man who is NOT her man and whom she has not decided to enter a real relationship based off and around love/emotions.

- a "nice guy" that does that gifts and going all out - is at fault for doing that in the early stages/dating. He is essentially presenting himself as someone who can potentially be used. No man or woman should be caking off during dating.

I personally hate when a man (or anyone else) places me on a pedestal - cause it's not good to do. I will knock myself off. I'm human and don't want to be looked at like i'm incapable of fault, making mistakes and behaving/acting outside the way they feel I should. I don't put anyone on a pedestal. I have in the past - and it worked out all bad.

But, It's plenty of "Good" / "Nice" guys who are also attractive who treat their mate very well -- but keyword is "mate." Again, by properly dating someone - and getting to know them via vetting and spending real time together - can help combat a lot of ish and wasted time on both ends.

 

[Scuti]

To put it simply:
To pedestal a woman is to say that she knows better than you as a man. Therefore if you pedestal a woman, she will never respect you as a leader. No respect = no attraction dont @ me

 

[*Angel*]

Be a good guy to the woman that wants you, is attracted to you and appreciates you. If she does not reciprocate she may not be that into you.

 

[ozzy]

that is a lie. women like this is why the ones who appreciate nice guys are having it hard time to get a nice fukk her. that is one of the reasons you be seeing fukkbois everywhere.

 

[TAYLONDO SAMSWORTHY]

I subscribe to "I don't want it if it's that easy"

I might smash but that's it. So that's on women too. If you are too into me right away, I probably won't like it. These so-called "nice guys" are ready to marry a bytch off one date. It's not because they love her and "would do anything for u" it's because they are lame af and it's probably the only woman who ever gave them a second of their time.

dude needs to understand. A woman prefer a guy who can get OTHER women. That's how they know he's worth it.

Bars

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

Being nice is a waste of time brehs

Don't have to be an a$$hole just be firm and confident. Unlearn everything they tell you about Male women interactions especially things you get from women. You're gonna be sitting out here wondering why the no good brehs always in them guts while you're @ home alone.

 

[TheGreatMTB]

A lot of women already have a superiority complex...they always feel like they're dating down unless the dudes is leagues above her.

When you're excessively nice to her she assumes you're leagues below her and are trying to appease her....or since she seems to have you so easily sprung she'll naturally believe her level of attractiveness could attract better

Be polite...but not overly nice

 

[GodinDaFlesh]

Never exalt another human being. Women eat, shyt, bleed and sin just like men do.

 

[NYC Warrior]

I actually have never seen this before. Ever.

I have seen, experienced men who claim they're good because they dont cheat or beat and think they should be treated as gods because of it.

No quality woman leaves a good man for a bum. However, women do need to be emotionally cared for and it doesnt matter how good a man thinks he is, if you are not filling her emotional tank, some women will choose to go to the man that makes her feel good. Ive seen that happen alot and I dont always agree with it. At the end of the day tho, a person has to whats best for them.

Uh yes they do

 

[Formerly Black Trash]

Women only respect like 3-4 things and being a good respectable person isn't one of them.

Ppl in general

 

[ultraflexed]

Just like being the girl who will always cook a good meal and give head and look pretty isnt enough to demand his love.

i know nikka that would sell their soul that kind of women

 

[Solo ✧✦✧]

All women aren't the same, there isn't a definite way to treat women that guarantees getting what you want out of them.

A lot of this is about attractiveness anyway. When a dude they find attractive is nice to them the rules change, there's no such thing as being too nice when the dude is attractive. It's the same for this dumbass idea of treating women like trash leads to them desiring you, not really if you still don't have the desired qualities they're looking for. A dude that's unattractive treating them like trash is just going to be an unattractive dikkhead in their eyes. It's not like that treat women like trash technique is the secret cheat code to getting women.

Women change up their rules and standards all the time depending on who they're talking to. It's pointless to try to figure out.