FYI there's a difference between treating someone like they actually mean something to you and putting them on a "pedestal". If you actually want a relationship with a person don't think treating them like garbage will get you anywhere
I feel people get this part of life/dating messed up and don't understand true love vs attachment. You're attached if you depend on another person/thing for your happiness. I think love has more to do It's really hard to discern the difference sometimes though because I think there's usually a mix of both attachment and real love in any kind of relationship
Who's that in your avi btw