Lady Says Guys That Put Them On A Pedestal Are Not Attractive, Is This True?

[Voice of Reason]

Muthafukkas father's and male relatives must of been beating the shyt and cursing the fukk outta y'all moms and female relatives to even state all that bullshyt above.

For real some of these comments

 

[King Poetic]

fukking youngsters

Please go listen to Slick Rick..treat'em like a prostitute...

Guys biggest mistakes is nikkas do not LISTEN AND ABSORB WHAT COMES OUT OF A WOMEN MOUTH WHEN THEY TALK..COULD EASILY SAVE U..

With me I'm not looking for marriage or a serious relationship so i don't try to put these women on a pedestal especially since i listen to the bullshyt that comes out they mouth..

 

[Roid Jones]

Y'all chase after fukked up in the head women and wonder why they don't respond well to respect


Why would you want a woman that doesn't respond well to you treating her like a normal human being in the first place

It's due to Ego, lack of values and sometimes lack of options real or perceived

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

Some women get turned on and loved being treated like shyt...

it's sad but it's fukking true they have way too many issues...

This is true but some people confuse "treated like shyt" for just a dude who knows what he wants, takes charge and tells the woman what to do. Some women just like the guy taking complete control of every situation. For as much shyt as we hear about equality and women on this feminist wave, SOME of them do not want that at all. They are perfectly fine with a guy saying

"aye, tonight we goin here. we doin this. then we fukkin"

 

[DaHNIC82]

This is true but some people confuse "treated like shyt" for just a dude who knows what he wants, takes charge and tells the woman what to do. Some women just like the guy taking complete control of every situation. For as much shyt as we hear about equality and women on this feminist wave, SOME of them do not want that at all. They are perfectly fine with a guy saying

"aye, tonight we goin here. we doin this. then we fukkin"

In instances of dating I agree. But in other cases How he gonna take control if she curves him or flakes on him before giving the chance? Theres guys who approach, call em to make it happen or text them and suddenly she goes ghost or give the run around. Alot of men have to go through that more now

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

A good guy and a lame are not the same thing

True, a good guy may offer someone on the side of the road assistance whether it's an old lady, an attractive female or another dude. The "nice guy" will offer help to the girl he wants to smash and nobody else.

How is it that all these "nice guys" are all sweet and caring and all this shyt around women who are ages 18 to 40 something but every dude he interact with thinks he an a$$hole.

Fake nice guys

 

[MikeyC]

Being the guy who will never beat her isnt enough to demand her attention. Just like being the girl who will always cook a good meal or give head or look pretty isnt enough to demand his love.

:suuure:

 

[Saysumthinfunnymike]

In instances of dating I agree. But in other cases How he gonna take control if she curves him or flakes on him before giving the chance? Theres guys who approach, call em to make it happen or text them and suddenly she goes ghost or give the run around. Alot of men have to go through that more now

If she is playing any type of games, I don't expect and would hope that any dude would not sink to that level. Of course we do on occasion, I've been stuck in their little games myself but as u get older and u are more financially stable u don't even pay it no mind. If she plays games, she can be cut off and easily replaced.

A lot of women will end up alone because of the games they play. Let them.

We have to remember that she probably has other dudes she talkin to, an ex she fukking with, a husband she on break from, a boyfriend she is trying to get back at... it's not even personal if she flakes. They got so many options it's scary. But just try to build up your own contact list

 

[Dwolf]

Women dont like simps? Geez what else is new

 

[Street Knowledge]

why this broad's youtube vlog look like it was filmed by a documentary film maker?

 

[The Fade]

It’s real and it happens a lot more than women think or are honest to acknowledge.

A former classmate and good friend of mine is in the process now of getting a divorce.

His wife of 4 years cheated on him multiple times in the marriage with men who were in no comparison to my friend.

He’s an eductaed breh who also works with familes of children who are in the system.

I’ve seen him turn down women that were attracted to him that were WAY MORE ATTRACTIVE THAN HIS WIFE.

The men she chose to cheat on him with were absolute scum bags.

She finally told my friend that she did not want to be married and he needed to find a good (saved) girl because she thought she was ready for marriage but realized she still wanted to fu** around.

Breh couldn’t even get the divorced finalized last week because when the judge asked her if she was pregnant she said yes and the baby is not even my brehs child.

Now he has to wait for the biological father to sign the paperwork from the judge to legitimize the true paternity of the father.

“Some” of these females out hear are messed up.

Also I see demonic crap like this everyday as a licensed marriage and family therapist.

Women cheat on good men for some of the dumbest reasons and vice versa.

Sexual attraction/lust is more powerful than people think, especially if a person has not learned how to control their sexual desire when in a committed relationship.

My breh legitimately had multiple women who are his co workers that wanted to fight his wife.

And you know what their reason was?

They legitimately said, “As hard as it is for a woman to find a good man, and she has one, she is GOING TO DO YOU LIKE THIS!!!

“I’m sorry ***** but your wife is a dumb **** who needs her a** whipped for doing you like this.”

This the scenario we keep tellin them about but they keep calling us insecure.

Btw your friend ain't a nice guy, he's a good man. There's a difference. I think when we talk about this shyt, people don't mean "nice guys". We're actually talking about good men who step up and sacrifice and get led on when it's supposedly requited. Men with credibility. I think it comes down with women just want to eat their cake and have it.

Say there's 7 traits women like. You could have 5 but this other nikka has 2 she really likes. She will play both y'all till it's time to choose, because both y'all filling her needs. If she choose either of y'all she'll feel like she made a mistake cuz she still wants those traits she missing



Not one sided affection with fake "niceness". People are tangling them up as the same thing

The jaded part of me is pretty sure women only truly fall in love with Machiavellian men it seems like.

 

[Doomsday]

It’s not a conscious thing. If it wasn’t that way, you’d go all out for the women who put you on a pedestal

That's bullshyt. Like the other guy said, I WANT to be put on a pedestal. By a 5 or higher.

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

Fact is Woman ain't checking for that better man till they got kids or fall off looks wise.

This chick was just being honest, and yes if all u got to offer is being nice that nothing.

If all a man has to offer is that he's "nice" he is not the "better man". The fact that women only entertain these men when they are desperate demonstrates these men's (low) dating market value. Keep in mind there are "nice guys" who have other things going for them.

 

[Guvnor]

I see the exact same responses lol.

Well there is nothing new under the sun, to quote the legendary philosopher Big Krit, life and death is all the same from then to now."air is air, water is water, shelter is shelter and the rest is mental". There is nothing new brother, just remixing of the old. Stay woke

It’s not a conscious thing. If it wasn’t that way, you’d go all out for the women who put you on a pedestal

Oh no but it is conscious, I purposely tend to go after the women who are thirsty for me like that. It's ideal in a way but I hear you. Your saying it's an unconscious thing but maybe for women. I think what your trying to say is I don't value this kind of women and that it has to be unconscious because I would value a women more and go all out for her more if she went all out for me and that would prove I saw that as a great catch. You're assuming I don't see this kind of women as a great catch because I don't go all out but on the contrary. I think a women who likes the man better is a great catch and better for a relationship. I also do go all out too but I pull back a little, can't over do things or else then I would be a nice guy and a simp You have to do things in moderation.

I also think mostly women don't want a guy who values them too much, but me I love that shyt in a women lol. Give me a women any day who's hella thirsty for me but they only come around once in a blue moon for me. I also like to play it off and act like I don't notice them just to drive them nuts

 

[TLR Is Mental Poison]

@Lamar Givens how old were they when they got married? Did they meet in church?