Lucky_Lefty
Dreams Are Colder Than Death...
How so?Volunteering the info is dumb…but this shyt BEEN normalized. That’s the reality. The opposite is more pipe dream than anything
How so?Volunteering the info is dumb…but this shyt BEEN normalized. That’s the reality. The opposite is more pipe dream than anything
You're right breh... but see, here's the thing about me. I value transparency and honesty over everything.
I have severe trust issues. Severe.
See... I'm automatically going to assume that any woman I deal with has whoredom in her past at some point.
My way of getting past that and being able to trust her is her being honest and upfront with me about everything.
I've forgiven women for a lot of things as long as they told me the truth.
What I can't abide are liars. If I find out at any point that she lied to me, it's over. That's the ultimate betrayal to me.
People have been cum darts and emergency dikk forever. Most sexual encounters do not happen with your forever partner. It’s rare in western society at least for that to be the case. Unless I’m understanding you incorrectly. I just don’t see sex as this taboo thing. Of course no one wants a community pass around, but there’s nuance to this conversation.How so?
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Adam22 ass nikkas
If a woman is doing something on the side...she's changed up. It's on u to pay attention..its a dangerous game...especially when pregnancies start entering the equation.Well if you do ask, and the woman lies, that's a whole other ballgame. But at that point there's too many X factors breh....you gotta ask, you gotta assume she's telling the truth, and you gotta assume if she's not telling the truth you'll figure out eventually.
That's why I said that whole path is madness. I just assume women were on the same dirt bag shyt that I was at some point in the past. That way worst case scenario I'm pleasantly surprised if she wasn't.
Fred.
Don't ask questions you don't want the answers to, and you'll be fine.
Fred.
Becuase p*ssy is the prize for a lot of coupleswhat’s the point of shaming women who had a past
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what’s the point of shaming women who had a past
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Having standards and bare minimums is considered shaming. What a world we live in.It be nothing to worry about if said info is never volunteered, and again we know, it’s a lot easier for a chick to get it in, opposed to a dudes, so if she has poor p*ssy management, you trusting her vision and management for your life, cuz I’m having questions
It just adds a factor to how you see the chick like if you found out she cheated on her long time boyfriend before you, if you never know and she never moves weird you cool, but if she tells you, now you look at her funny and may not move long term with her, plus every odd thing she does you get a lump in your throat like uh oh
People have been cum darts and emergency dikk forever. Most sexual encounters do not happen with your forever partner. It’s rare in western society at least for that to be the case. Unless I’m understanding you incorrectly. I just don’t see sex as this taboo thing. Of course no one wants a community pass around, but there’s nuance to this conversation.
what’s the point of shaming women who had a past
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Nikkas need to pull the ho fax early on. If a chick comfortable enough she will spill the beans. But if you already in love you just going to be grabbing your chest bringing up the topic later on.
What really will help dudes out is if they fukk a ton before trying to commit to a chick that way they aren’t as insecure that their girl was sucking some dikk before them
It’s ok to not want the town mattress but dudes need be more realistic with their expectations too. Doing your own thing prior will help ease those expectations
Don’t really make sense to ask because she only gone tell u what she want you to know. And you have no way of verifying because if you did, you wouldn’t have to ask in the first place.
I know some of y’all on some “nah I can tell by certain things she do and the way she carry herself” but that’s just you trying to convince yourself how cool you are.
Lot of y’all don’t know women as well as yall try to convince yourself and others you do, which is why expectations are so unrealistic.
Most dudes in relationships/marriages are with a woman who let at least one dude smash since the day he met her. At the very least she was still smashing her ex or fwb during the courting stage. And a lot if not most let at least one new dude she met after her current man smash.
And the average woman has a way higher body count than y’all think. Dudes really be expecting 30+ year old women who ain’t ever been married to have a single digit body count when a lot of them already in double digits before they old enough to drink.
Y’all better off not asking because y’all can’t handle the Truth about women in general, you damn sure won’t handle it when it comes to the woman you want to wife up.
And I ain’t on some bashing women shyt, I don’t think any of this makes a woman less girlfriend material. I just been around the block enough times to see some of the shyt y’all say and go![]()