Lauren London discusses about how most relationships are ego driven and aren’t based in pure love

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I wouldn't mind being Nipsey's children's stepfather if it means I get to knock that every night.
 

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She is right but she’s a beautiful woman with two baby fathers so the Coli gonna shyt on her and discredit what she saying.

But she is right. How many women do you know that talk about wanting to get married/have kids but literally don’t give a fukk about the man they’re doing that with… they just want that for themselves, their own life, their own ego. To show other people and especially women “look what I have!” But won’t put an ounce into building and developing a healthy partnership. Don’t even know how to. You see it all the time now a days on social media. That’s not love and that’s what Lauren talking about.
 

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What makes her an expert on relationships? Why should I care for her opinion? Yall really be listening to these celebrities talk like they got so much life experience and they know so much more smfh. Go ask a relationship counselor with 20 years experience they'll be able to tell you for sure about this shyt. With evidence to back it up

To be fair, she never said she was.
 

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:mjlol:Angela done took so many shots to the face, she can barely move her lips.
 

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What makes her an expert on relationships? Why should I care for her opinion? Yall really be listening to these celebrities talk like they got so much life experience and they know so much more smfh. Go ask a relationship counselor with 20 years experience they'll be able to tell you for sure about this shyt. With evidence to back it up
its not about her being a celebrity.

she has clearly reflected and came to the right conclusion. nothing wrong with that

she is 1000% right. I tell ppl all the time, Ego is the # 1 killer of relationships
 

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She is right but she’s a beautiful woman with two baby fathers so the Coli gonna shyt on her and discredit what she saying.

But she is right. How many women do you know that talk about wanting to get married/have kids but literally don’t give a fukk about the man they’re doing that with… they just want that for themselves, their own life, their own ego. To show other people and especially women “look what I have!” But won’t put an ounce into building and developing a healthy partnership. Don’t even know how to. You see it all the time now a days on social media. That’s not love and that’s what Lauren talking about.

patty kane with another hatrick :noah:
 

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its not about her being a celebrity.

she has clearly reflected and came to the right conclusion. nothing wrong with that

she is 1000% right. I tell ppl all the time, Ego is the # 1 killer of relationships
her perspective is on point..it's a meme that broads been sharing about how "they cant wait to find a husband so they can spend his money instead of theirs"

these hoes don't wanna be married they just want all the advantages of being married which is that control & ego she's talking about
 

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ego prevents you from taking your partners opinion or feelings into account when making decisions, for fear of being controlled
ego prevents you from being contrite and sincerely apologizing when you clearly fukked up
ego prevents you from holding yourself accountable
ego prevents you from hearing your partner's feedback, causing you to frame it as criticism or condescension
ego prevents you from falling back and letting your partner take the lead sometimes
ego prevents you from appreciating what you have, and makes you feel like you can do or deserve better
ego prevents you from staying faithful, because instead of being satisfied with your partner, you need validation from somebody else to feel important


Ego is absolutely the #1 killer of relationships
 
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