Less to do with the actual dancing and more to do with being grounded/comfortable in your body. When you can drop down out of your head and into the body, more attention and awareness to your center mass can and will make you more magnetic.
And at that point, you don't gotta worry about putting on a show or acquiescing to bytches. Women, shyt, people in general will gravitate toward you naturally because having a regulate nervous system is litty titty...body awarness makes you a different kind of attractive, like a wirlpool.