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Creepy old gay guys who try to date younger guys
Creepy old guys dating young guys is a very common phenomena in the gay world. While no one knows exactly how common it is, it seems like every third couple you see on the street is age mismatched to a visible degree.
Probably because there’s a dearth of date-able gay guys out there, some young guys fall prey to an older gay guy who, because he’s more experienced, works his charms on the younger guy to the point where both parties think they’re in a real, committed relationship.
It’s a symbiotic relationship whereby the young guy gets emotional support and stability that’s almost impossible to find in other young gay guys, and the older guy gets a younger, sexier partner he can wear like a trophy.
Despite the fact that things may look alright on the surface, this is a extraordinarily screwed up situation, and I speak from experience. You see, the reason why such relationships form in the first place is that both parties are clinging to each other like life preservers.
The older guy, being of an age where his youthful looks have faded (if he ever had them in the first place) and is therefore no longer sellable, has few alternatives – he will take just about any young guy emotionally stable enough to hold a conversation and at least slightly-below-average looks.
Creepy old gay guys!
Keeping with the Halloween spirit, time for something creepy, but in a totally different way! Before I left on holiday, I discussed with a friend the fear of becoming a creepy old gay man. We agreed we were disturbed by the thought of becoming one of those old gay guys in bars chasing after young men; he even went as far as to say he'd rather be dead before that happens!
I've been victim to this kind of attention on several occasions from men old enough to be my grandfather. It constantly amazes me and simultaneously makes my skin crawl that they somehow seem to think that just because they've got lots of cash then I'll be willing to "go with them".
I'm sure there are some gay folk who would do that, but I find it pretty creepy and uncomfortable - especially since I consider myself to be no thing of great beauty, so by hitting on me I just think they've reached a new low level of desperation! Ha ha.
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Being an old person, lusting after young mates is mocked everywhere.