I mentioned to this to a woman that would always point out the faults of men. Apparently she was in social work. She started saying that the conditions in which women are in a relationship fosters such violence.
So I just asked her you're excusing their behavior
Even in heterosexual relationships many people fail to acknowledge the amount of bi directional violence that occurs in violent relationships. Yes men can be more violent and devastating but we rarely if ever talk about how violent women can be.