Lessons you learned through pain

[Complexion]

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Many times we as humans want it to be one way when in reality its the other. We'll gnash and wail, do the whole thing and then many will get straight back to doing the same expecting results different. That said lets use this thread to speak on lessons you learned through pain. I'll set it off with this:

You have no enemies in this realm, only teachers.

Seeing them this way means you learn so much more about the events and your role therein because (at the end of the day, beginning and mid) you are responsible for everything that happens because it all plays out inside your awareness. Seeing them as opps and the rest means you skip this vital aspect and, 9 times out of 10, end up in the same situation as life presents the bill for those who think they can skip school when class is in session.

What turned your coal into a diamond? It certainly hurts in real time but the results speak for themselves once you're shining.

 

[MMS]

this reminds me of Achilles being taught by Chiron (hand)

Chiron - Wikipedia

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if you felt no pain, would learn anything at all? you could argue that pain is the gateway of knowledge

Nehebkau - Wikipedia

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[Screwtape]

Not to touch the iron when my mother was ironing

 

[parallax]

you cant save people. no matter how much you want to

 

[Mr. Jack Napier]

That you can do everything right, and still end up on the losing end

 

[WaveWhisperer]

You judge yourself the harshest

 

[Kiyoshi-Dono]

Are you really learning
Or are you learning to avoid
Pain may be educational from a philosophical standpoint
But it is also the cousin of avoidance
It’s a big difference in seeking truth vs mayne I ain’t doing that shyt again/shutdown-move around

 

[BlackAchilles]

How to tell if chicken is cooked all the way thru

 

[Kasgoinjail]

People wouldn't be able to fix they mouth to talk about you if you don't share your personal business with them in the first place

 

[Ridge Forrester]

No one will give a damn about me as much I do.

 

[duck]

Are you really learning
Or are you learning to avoid
Pain may be educational from a philosophical standpoint
But it is also the cousin of avoidance
It’s a big difference in seeking truth vs mayne I ain’t doing that shyt again/shutdown-move around

Shut your fuke ass socrates ass up

Theres always that one dude

 

[duck]

How to tell if chicken is cooked all the way thru

Get a meat thermomator..aim for 165+ bruh

 

[O³ (O cubed)]

Never go back to an ex. fukk them for some old times sake puss, but never get in a relationship with them again.

 

[BlackAchilles]

Get a meat thermomator..aim for 165+ bruh

Oh it's no issue today

When I first started making dinners for myself I put myself out of commission for a bit, lost five lbs in as many days

 

[Complexion]

you cant save people. no matter how much you want to

This one is so true. So sad, yet so true because no matter what you do some folks can't catch the wavelength when you're trying to up them to another octave as they're stuck on stupid. Harder still to admit it but something that becomes Self evident as one progresses.

You judge yourself the harshest

Another one that so real because, when you get down to it, most people are better friends to others than they are to themselves as they'll motivate and reframe anothers negatives real quick to help them win but on the flip are super harsh critics inside their own heads. I really do think most people truly do not like themselves even though its evident from their words and actions. Very few will admit this and that is whats needed to do something about it.

Are you really learning
Or are you learning to avoid
Pain may be educational from a philosophical standpoint
But it is also the cousin of avoidance
It’s a big difference in seeking truth vs mayne I ain’t doing that shyt again/shutdown-move around

A very valid point, I hear you clearly on that one because I'm of the "Fall down five, get up six" mindset but many adopt the "Cant win, don't try" perspective after life throws a few dings. That said I'm also aware of my avoidance because of the nature of trauma and all it begets. This is very telling in that respect and speaks volumes on how the greatest Opponent dwells inside your head:

Never go back to an ex. fukk them for some old times sake puss, but never get in a relationship with them again.

Its amazing how many people refuse to get this. They simply will not comprehend that what was once whole and now broken can never, ever be the same again. Especially if she left because the only reason she'd turn up again is if the branch she tried to swing to hit, quit and gave her a return to sender.