You can't make someone wait. You can try don't mean that's how it's gonna go. It's like standing in line at a store. U gon wait or you ain't. Some people will get "rowdy" and apply pressure to speed it up and some will just say say ehh, it's whatever I'm not in a rush. The "bad guy" applys pressure on the chick, she will give in or she won't for various reasons. The nice guy will just say okay. She'll either respect him or she won't. She'll say he's not aggressive enough or she'll think she has a keeper and they can take it extra slow because she don't want to ruin it.How about the woman make all nikkas wait?
Let this be a lesson to you men(simps) out there going all out (an lsa story) for women
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It has nothing to do with monogamy. Y'all just went on a few dates, where the fukk did exclusivity come in? That's on you if you assume that I you take a girl on one date yall are "unofficially" together.
That is pretty much the dating game now. You out there taking them out on expensive trips and ish and she is getting dikked down when you drop her off. These men have no idea they are being cuckoled.
Lol spend your hard earned treating women to nice things brehs.. Maybe it is me but if I am getting invited to travel with a woman 3 to 4 months into dating, I would not feel comfortable sleeping with other women like that. Those are all sign of exclusivity. Per poster, she is single
whats your opinion on this?
need i say more
So a guy can't be upset of his girl let some random nikkas hit first night while he has to wait
Never in my wildest imagination would I have thought hoism would become mainstream and accepted. Apparently men should now expect a girl to have many bodies and they must be perfectly accepting of it
This feminist shyt has got to go
Whats the surprise, this is yet one of many and a growing population of modern day whores, rather its in the Black community and any community, women putting their puss on the market with no fcks given, selling and getting rewarded by thirst puss beggin nikkas on a daily basis...........Its the main reason why the Black community is in shambles currently. No will to commit and marry, just be a simp/pimp and cum dump day by day and week to week.........and nikkas find this shyt funny and take pride in this whoredom lifestsyle.....
The Black community is done. We all know it.
We cannot build a strong community when we have a bunch of women behaving as whores and a bunch of men running around without any real goals other than smashing as many women as possible.
We're done as a people.
We let the underdeveloped minds epidemic go unchecked and it destroyed us.
Ghostface Trillah
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Careful. You'll get called a c00n or coli militant for making this kind of sense.
Breh. It's so very demonic.
I see other brehs of color from other cultures. When it's time for them to find a wife, they don't have to sift through all the BS we do as Black men.
Brehettes of color from other cultures don't have to wait for their men to get serious about building strong families and communities.
I literally
when I think about the state of the Black family.We've got Black women in their 30s still dating like they're 18. We've got Black men in their 40s stuck in their 20s, mentally.
And nikkas wanted to give me flack about underdeveloped minds and personalities.
Do nikkas really think we're prepared to compete in 2020 and beyond if the shyt continues as is?
@ OP's story. similar scenarios obviously happen but that has too many thotholes. either outright false, embellished, shes an escort or the real side of the story is that her heart is still with the ex and shes trying to be persuaded by other people to pick one of the 3 clowns (or clown archetypes per se) to roll with because she doesnt have the fortitude to make a choice on her own so does the safe thing by getting mental/emotional/financial benefits that she is frustrated with the ex over not giving her. @InDePickWest maybe that dude just didnt trust you and was weak mentally..especially if he was still a virgin (although probably
). he wanted it from internal pressure and also as a sign of trust that he wouldn't just be zoned or left in the dust before he invested more emotions and spirit into things. shyt happens 
Playa With Tha Passport
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Story sound like a fat ugly bytch fantasy, I call
Like, how are all of the guys different in exactly opposing ways- wants kids, doesn't want kids but plays hero father to his nephew, has a child- all three so perfectly opposing. It's like a 90s sitcom.the fukk is he mad about? Again, you chose to wait. The other dude didn't. Don't be mad cuz another nikka blitzed the p*ssy and you played prevent and lost.So a guy can't be upset of his girl let some random nikkas hit first night while he has to wait
Never in my wildest imagination would I have thought hoism would become mainstream and accepted. Apparently men should now expect a girl to have many bodies and they must be perfectly accepting of it
This feminist shyt has got to go
The fukk is he upset about? He chose to wait.So a guy can't be upset of his girl let some random nikkas hit first night while he has to wait
Never in my wildest imagination would I have thought hoism would become mainstream and accepted. Apparently men should now expect a girl to have many bodies and they must be perfectly accepting of it
This feminist shyt has got to go