Let this be a lesson to you men(simps) out there going all out (an lsa story) for women

[ahomeplateslugger]

Multidating is something I will never do. I invest in one person if it doesn't work shrugs.

cosign this. how can you open up, make yourself vulnerable and have a serious relationship with someone when you're juggling multiple ppl. all of that energy and emotions you put in getting to know these ppl will drain you and could make you cold-hearted. plus that takes way too much time. anyone with that much free time doing all of this is crazy and probably boring.

 

[Danny Up]

Most women don't want good men until that p*ssy has been beaten up properly by the wild nikkas.


They'll make the good men wait (which is the right thing) but let the wild nikkas hit on the first "date"

The good nikka will wait. The wild nikka won't. It doesn't fall solely on the woman.

 

[Danny Up]

cosign this. how can you open up, make yourself vulnerable and have a serious relationship with someone when you're juggling multiple ppl. all of that energy and emotions you put in getting to know these ppl will drain you and could make you cold-hearted. plus that takes way too much time. anyone with that much free time doing all of this is crazy and probably boring.

In theory. But in practice yo should always have options. More often than not you gonna feel something more for one or the other. The major problem is there's no real communication, everybody is using some stupid body language or signs. Use some fukking words!! Stop assuming shyt.

 

[Pdiddy]

NOT sexually active with any of them,

 

[InDePickWest]

This is in Canada, right? They got all kinds of gov't grants n subsidies, htf a nga gon be acting like a gang member n sipping lean n won't take care of his kid?

Nah, this is in L.A. My roommate from Conpton lil sister.

I bet you gone say 'oh..ok then'

 

[joeychizzle]

There's a big difference between friends and former lovers. U gots ta stop approaching each quality woman like they're about to be the end all be all. Some chix u have to know off rip u ain't gon marry. And this is why I was saying, ngaz talking bout sleeping around, nga if u gettin it n u keep urself up u got options, and sometimes u choose to exercise those options. Stop worrying about false shyt bitter feminist bytches say cuz they're lying. Women only look at u sideways for sleeping with a lot of birds or ugly women or women who ain't up to their personal standards. If you're nailing 7's and above only, you can do ur thing. That male promiscuity is fgt shyt, each chick should know a if a nga say he's gon commit he's gon commit.

An attractive chick who don't want a man that a lot of other attractive women want is on some bullshyt and that's not the type of wife to have if ur trying to get it and have a sphere of influence. Grown men don't cheat we break up first. Politely say shyt ain't werkin out n back to business.

Ngaz be on some ol bullshyt tryna be Montel Williams with these chicks, nga they ain't tryna have a damn soul mate they looking for a father figure who handles his business and has a plan. They don't wanna hear you complaining, they want to come to you and have nothing to complain about that you can't solve. If you're thinking a chick is a possible wife and u know there's situations u wouldn't try to the best of your ability to remedy then she ain't it.

Ngaz be mad cuz they Rodney Dangerfield n can't get no respect. Cuz u don't command it. U get with lower lvl hoes cuz of a bomb personality n u try n flip it to something else. Then get mad when they do garlic shyt. That's the attitude of a trick who's unaware of his status.

I have no problem telling ngaz to groom tf up cuz I would tell a chick to pluck her eyebrows or shave her legs also. U gots ta put urself at a certain position in life and play everything strategically for your emotional and material needs. Humans already do this but ngaz act like they do it subconsciously and they can't ctrl themselves n they go where the wind takes em. Begging for mercy from raggely ngaz n bytches all along the way.

Ngaz sittin up scared to tell their woman to do something n tryna slut shame other men, that's some sucker nga shyt n quality women ain't with that. If you're trying to be successful ur chick should have at least sent u some signals to indicate she wanted to approach u in the first place. Chick don't want no nga no other chix want.

Monogamy is basic starter kit nga shyt. U gotta be monogamous in relationships to make it the chick's fault when it's time to break up so then u can have her in ur repertoire as a friend aka another chick who fckd up with a cool ass nga. Your main homegirls should be uglier than ur wifey chick but u should have a couple bad ass exes with careers n all kinds of shyt that look better than her to let her know u can pull more gooder nicer bomber chix but u choose her cuz u love her for real and u wanna marry her n have chirrenz with her.

If a nga looking for a wife he shoulda been mastered the diff between monogamy in relationships and being single and attracting a lot of women and having your choice. She wants to be your choice, that's the point of her introducing u around and showing u off after you've been vetted. Wtf she gon bring u to the family bbq n tell everyone how u was a wack ass simp but she needed her rent paid? Obviously the bytch respects u cuz she's bringing u in her inner circle as an example of what she can pull first, then how she can make a relationship work with a Qualified Man and not screw it up second.

Ngaz need to stop acting like every relationship can turn into a lifetime. Mfka if u argue more than 5-10 times with your chick before you've gotten to the moving in with each other stage that chick ain't it n ur forcing it. Chick gon make u miserable. U should be laughing with your chick and talking about news and politics and plans or whatever other interests she may have. U can talk about ur hobbies n interests with ur ngaz, she don't need to be all up in that.

U gotta make power moves at work so they only way you should be talking to her about work related stuff is about what happened to other ppl. Not what happened to u or will happen to u or other ppl. And very briefly. Unless it's about something work related that will directly affect u and her. A chick really doesn't wanna hear about how a grown man is getting sonned at work by another grown man who calls himself his boss. A chick wants to hear good stuff about werk, not loser fgt whining shyt. And if you're an entrepreneur or a boss ur supposed to be leading ngaz not complaining about em like a hoe.

phew breh that's alot to digest lol

 

[Booker T Garvey]

Bet you became a Billionaire Mogul after reading 48 Laws Of Power too huh??

nah bruh, i'm not one of those types of nikkas

the book is basically for bachelors that have their lives in order

if you live w/your mother at 35 or have 5 kids and a wife leave the book alone

 

[Blackout]

Some women would let a playa hit easily and have you trying hard to be with her


Main reason why I move on if I have to try too hard just to be with her so she won't be able to devalue me like that.

 

[Amestafuu (Emeritus)]

ima stay single and have em begging me to be with em
show no interest and watch them crawl to you

Winning formula

 

[ahomeplateslugger]

In theory. But in practice yo should always have options. More often than not you gonna feel something more for one or the other. The major problem is there's no real communication, everybody is using some stupid body language or signs. Use some fukking words!! Stop assuming shyt.

If you don't believe in monogamy then that's fine, but you should definitely communicate that to your partner or person of interest. I'm monogamous so doing that would be self absorbed, thoughtless, inconsiderate and narcissistic to me.

 

[MooseMouthMthafuga]

That's why I've been fukking with nothing but kind hearted nymphos.

It's simple & straight to the point.


They cook dinner.I come over to eat.We fukk.

Strictly that.No out of pocket cost.Might lend them my ears from time to time, but that's it.

 

[Docaveli]

The only thing as an Adult, you should be offering a woman is your time. You need to separate your finances with women.

Women feed themselves, cloth themselves, and entertain themselves with or without men on a daily basis. So for a man to meet a woman and start supplementing all those things, u have to conclude is foolish.

Offer her your time, it can be simple as " lets spend sum time this weekend, meet me here, or meet me there," don't feel obligated to buy her this or buy her that, or to force conversation.

Your so called "game" should be used as a tool to get women and keep women away from you that are worthless to your agenda.

As an adult if she is spending time with you, and she is hungry, the same way she would find sumthing to eat when you not there, same way she should when you there, u don't owe her nothing. Haven't said all this, you have to have something going for u or atleast the perception that u have something going for urself .

Once you separate yourself from the norm, all you have to do is throw your bait out there, and the fish will come. You do more with less.

 

[Marl0 Stanfield]

Nah, this is in L.A. My roommate from Conpton lil sister.

I bet you gone say 'oh..ok then'

I'm sayin. U started talkin hood as fck I was like Well, damn.

 

[Marl0 Stanfield]

Winning formula

You either wait for a signal or u throw one out n see if she responds. Then u determine if she wants to approach or if u should approach. Of course these things are different depending on if you're gunning for sex or a relationship.

nikkaz get caught up cuz they set their radar for sex and then acquire that model of asset but want to catch feelings and turn it into a long term asset. A lotta dumb ngaz forget to turn their short term asset (sex) radar off during a supposedly long term investment ("relationship"). Ngaz out here chasing rental property n fronting like it's a home so hard they can't even see that they're still renting in a renters market. Ngaz tryna build equity in a leased apartment then get mad at the apartment when they shoulda had the attitude of a home buyer in a buyer's real estate market with unlimited spending cash. You only get what u negotiate for in this life when it comes to ppl.

 

[BaggerofTea]

The good nikka will wait. The wild nikka won't. It doesn't fall solely on the woman.

How about the woman make all nikkas wait?