Lets be honest once something goes wrong relationships seldom get better

[winb83]

At the begining things are usually as good as it gets and as time goes on relationships either stay the same in terms of quality or decline.

We've all been there at one point or another. In a relationship with a bunch of nagging issues building up. Sticking it out telling ourselves that one day things will get better. Trying to rekindle the fire or keep it burning when its going out.

If people would just be honest with themselves and admit the truth their lives would be better for it. You're not gonna save that failing relationship. That person isn't gonna change. Those problems will only grow and get worse. The best course of action is to get the eff out and save yourself the time and trouble of wasting months to years on a relationship that will inevitably fail.

 

[Amare's Right Hook]

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[jalamanta]

double platinum

 

[Dirty_Jerz]

At the begining things are usually as good as it gets and as time goes on relationships either stay the same in terms of quality or decline.

We've all been there at one point or another. In a relationship with a bunch of nagging issues building up. Sticking it out telling ourselves that one day things will get better. Trying to rekindle the fire or keep it burning when its going out.
If people would just be honest with themselves and admit the truth their lives would be better for it. You're not gonna save that failing relationship. That person isn't gonna change. Those problems will only grow and get worse. The best course of action is to get the eff out and save yourself the time and trouble of wasting months to years on a relationship that will inevitably fail.

so women are the major factor in this relationship failure?

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

I disagree. In the beginning the relationship is great due to infatuation and the high you get from really really liking someone.

As time goes on and folks get comfy things get rocky because NOW the 2 people have to WORK to make it work.

Sometimes it works, sometimes it doesn't.

Most relationships fail due to lack of communication, unwillingness to resolve issues, and unrealistic expectations. Oh, and sometimes just incompatability. (there are more but to me these are very common)

 

[Mr. Negative]

people don't change.

1. we wish they would change... forever
2. they lie to us
3. we lie to them
4. we all lie to ourselves

but people don't change.